im (23M) leaving my situationship (28M) for 4 months.. i think
so i met this guy back in january and i think we were moving too fast and too good in the beginning that it was genuinely so good and i thought we'd be together by now icl. but somehow things turned sour like start of last month. also i need to add in that we used to talk every day and used to see each other at least once a week AND he's practically met my family because i had him over one time.
anyways yeah shit turned sour and he started barely replying to me, going for hours not even replying and being so disengaged and uninterested. barely asked me about my day while i asked him and would ask him multiple questions with nothing back. felt like a fuckass interview icl LOL. and ig i also haven't seen him in like 6 weeks because i don't want to initiate anymore since he makes me feel like he doesn't really want to see me anymore nor talk to me honestly.
so now i haven't replied to him in 2 days and i'm planning to just send him a message either tonight or tomorrow night to end things. definitely this weekend though. thing is i'm not really mad at him i'm more so just disappointed and sad that i had such high hopes for the both of us but now this is where we're at. also in the last 2 days he's barely reached out and the best he's done is send me a tiktok at like 2 am last night.
i think i should also include how we've never had a proper conversation about what we were nor were we exclusive but ig on my side i was and did think we were serious because we were really intimate and within the first few months we were reassuring and so close to each other like we both knew what we wanted and somehow that all just changed 3 months after.
anyways i'm mostly just venting but also has anyone else had to go through this. like should i end it or initiate a conversation LOL. idk anymore.