u/Fair_IT

I (29F) have a crush on this colleague (34M) at work.
He is very reserve, tahimik, yung tipong isang tanong, isang sagot. Hindi rin cya pala kwento sa personal life nya. Never pa cya nagkaka girlfriend pero pogi at tall cya. Okay din ang career.

Ako din never pa nagkaka jowa. May chance kaya ako guys? Feeling ko kasi minsan parang mag kuya yung vibes namin. Kine-kwentuhan at hinihingan ko cya ng advice sakin dati tungkol sa nanliligaw sakin (na off yung feeling ko) at nagbibigay naman cya ng konting insight.

So he informed me sa chat na nanliligaw na daw cya and setup a date 2 months in advance pero he cancelled and ditched the date without proper notice.
He also seemed to ask for assurance in chat like asking “ano na ako sayo ngayon?” eh ni hindi panga kami nag mi-meet in person ni isang beses since he informed me na nanliligaw na cya.
We are previously workmates so I interacted with him in person on an everyday basis when we were officemates.
Does that mean he ditched ne because hindi ko cya sinagot sa chat?

My kuya is 34, earns 6 digits, tall, may itsura, but still NGSB (No girlfriend since birth). He is definitely straight. Bakit kaya despite his characteristics eh never pa cya nagka-girlfriend? How can we help him? Our parents are on their 70s and we don’t want him to end up being alone.