AIW for being upset my bf made plans with his friends when we had made plans a couple weeks ago?
About two weeks ago my bf was gonna take me on a date to play mini golf but it got late after dinner so we agreed to go in two weeks before I left on a week work trip. We couldn't go before because he was graduating the weekend before. Then his graduation and all the celebrations passed and I really tried to be there and make it special for completing a mile stone. Then yesterday his cousin had a violin concert so I asked to leave work early to be there. I was also trying to spend time with him before I leave to work out of town for a week. Then I asked him about going on that date, since I was leaving in two days and he definitely forgot I was leaving even though he said he hadn't... he said that he had plans. Every Tuesday he goes to eat with his friends but since his cousins concert was happening they had changed the date to Wednesday (the day before I leave). I felt so hurt and upset. He tried to have us go play mini gold before his dinner but I couldn't because I had so much to do. Basically I could only go the time they had planned their dinner. He invited me to join them but not only had we just had dinner with them Saturday but we spent all weekend with his family. Besides monday when we went to the gym and I got us wings (not a date). To add salt to the injury he said that "we had already spent so much time together"...because I had made all that effort to be there and now I feel like that's coming back to bite me. I could've worked all weekend which I need the money, so now I probably should've and seen some friends but I decided to not do that to be present for him and before I left. Also I know he has been wanting to work out because he's gaining weight so I wanted to be supportive. He suggested we get a drink after he has diner with his friends but at that point I was so upset that it just felt like I was getting the leftover crumbs. He said that I was making him feel bad for spending time with his friends and "that I was punishing him for having friends" which that is not the case. I just feel like I'm being taken foregranted and as a second option and not a priority. What I don't understand is that they were able to switch days for his cousin but he didnt even think about asking to change it an extra day so we could have our date... I slept hoping I'd be clear headed today but I'm still super hurt and upset. He texted but I just can't get myself to respond.