u/FallendObscure

A little out of topic but forget it

A few topics I'll cover right now

- On average women are better looking than men

- Femininity is glorified, s3xual!zed and supported a million times more

- the looks distribution in general is bad (catch any good looking women on the street and go look at her brother)( ex. Sydney sweeney and her brother where she is wanted worldwide while the brother looks like a construction worker)

- Some Men have no standards at all

- Chads don't settle in general

- Some Men have standards, are confident about their looks and settle boundaries that alot of vvmen hate

Anyways back to the main part, y'all may have seen those tiktoks where alot of women admit that they purposely date non attractive men to boost their ego, you can find posts like that on this sub or just believe me

Some women use this way to settle down for the time being, could be retired h03s, OF women, etc, where they will purposely give a chance to a non attractive guy as first of all they think they're "lucky" for getting her and second Chads do not settle in general and alot of women hate when men are confident about their looks, have standards unlike the oofy doofys i just mentioned who think they're lucky to get her and will worship her for that

These type of relationships are then pushed and supported by everyone on the internet, both men and women, like just go under any reels or tiktoks of a couple like these

Women in general will casual dehumanize the absolute shit out of the guy with comments like

"Queen, is that thing bothering you"

"I can be a better bf"

"Is it bothering you"

"no man deserves this"

Men ofcourse thinking he's "lucky" to get a girl

"Should've been me"

"God, what am I doing wrong"

"he doesn't deserve this"

This helps those women get their ego boost, if you'll notice, alot of them literally heart those comments of their bfs being insulted like that, like who does that? Well they do that cause as I said they just proved the social idea that, "women date down" and bless men with their looks and are supposed to be the gender which "doesn't care about looks" when alot of these relationships are literal contracts for social media and manipulating teens on the internet to this being the average relationship

These oofy doofy men are used as the target and get all the hate thrown at them while those women get away with it cause ofc she's "blessing" society and "manosphere" by doing that when again it's a contract and for those dudes, as painful and humiliating it sounds for those dudes, they just don't care cause they have the women and that's all that matters to them, any h@te, criticism is non-existent as long as they get the performative and fake love from them

It's all just messy

If God exists he's ragebaiting me

The second crush i ever had was on this girl from another section, we were both 12, she had everything i had wanted, 6 months of liking her and I'm finding out she's a lesbian, had to move on

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(This was in school after this is all online)

Turned 14 had my first situationship w this girl until I'm finding out she goes to club, throws her ass on other.. girls..at 14.... kisses them on lips... claims to be straight and then laughs about it, had to cut her off

Turned 16 another situationship until I'm finding out she's already slept w alot of dudes and even girls but the desperate loser love/attention seeking jester idiotic r3tard I was i still took her, did everything until I js got blocked w no telling, a month later I'm checking on her and i see "wlw" in her bio and in relationship w a girl

Was 17 last year had another one, very out of the blue she proposed me, i told her i like to take things slow and would love to know her, found out about how she's had multiple relationships and even with other girls, didn't care, told her I won't judge her for anything, shit went on and on and trust me when I tell you this, I gave her all the emotional availability that a living human being ever could so much so she legit vented to me about the fact that she only wanted a relationship because she wanted to make her ex jealous, even going on to show screenshots of her and her ex discussing about how much of an idiot I am for giving her all this love and attention when she was only there to replace and make her ex jealous but as I promised her, I didn't judge, called her brave for opening up about this, okay

Failed my school last year cause of alot of mental health problems like stress, anxiety, adhd, panic attacks and most importantly insecurities from all the dudes that had ever bullied me

As I failed this, another girl approached me on ig, said she liked me mostly for my humor, it was a meme acc and she was genuinely so beautiful but the problem was I failed my class while she already got into her College 1st year and started studying, she had passion, dreams about becoming something while i was out here wishing the panic attacks would stop cause the pills never worked for me, the first time In my life I ever rejected someone and it was her

Lost it, started misusing free speech, got my ig banned, my twt banned, my yt banned, my reddit banned, like I'm just losing it all bro,

And if that wasn't any worse I failed again this year, i used to top my school till 5th grade and here I am failing twice while everyone starting their 2nd college year I'm still trying to graduate high school by next year, no friends, no hobby, money just rotting on 12 hours of music and stupid shorts everyday, i haven't gone to school for the last 2 years, js my room at the rooftop and my mobile is all i have,

I don't have even any lust left in me anymore, porn is just boring for me now and like an escape/timepass to get that stupid dopamine and get out of my laziness

Now yk what forget all this, I'm not some sadist or saying my life is over, I'm literally 18 bro I'll get my shi together

But now the actual, the real problem that bugs me alot is that my any chance of having a love life is pretty much over, to explain it better

My mom never loved me, never even hugged me, everytime I ever tried she js pushed me away, she's cried for me but not for me only cause shes embarassed of me and what ppl would think of her, and that made me develop some crazy amount of mommy issues, basically js wanting to be loved by an older woman, not too much I'd take her if she's legit just 1 month older, just need the clarity

But yea now that I've failed twice and if I pass next year and start my college, I'd feel so frickin weird knowing they all 2-3 years younger than me holyyy

As much as I've always wanted to focus on myself it's also always been about jus finding a person to share my love w me, ik I'm not supposed to go out alone i got too much self conciousness to waste it on being alone but now js looking back I'm cooked for the next 4-5 years

Literally last month I also got hospitalized and diagnosed w sleep deprived anxiety which is one of the worst thing that can happen to a human, i literally can't sleep properly anymore everyday cuz of multiple panic attacks, high to low blood pressure cycles and js anxiety in general and this has no medication whatsoever I'll just need to heal myself in long term

Anyways this is all so funny and weird and surprising to me, like how did I even end up here, the 14yo me had so much in me, he'd be so disappointed to know the 18yo I've become, everything I've ever looked down upon and thought was crazy is now happening to me, I've been living that inc3l dream without the inc3l part just the same habits

Can blame my upbringings, my parents, my surroundings, can blame myself ik it but again why was shi so rigged for me this early, I've wasted my childhood lwk

(deleting in 24 hours)

1. Environmental Vest- autogynephilia enthusiast, got taken down by reddit, very active member , had great takes 80-90% of the time, hasn't came back

2. Valuable Owl- BP enthusiast, recently vented to me about his life and said he can't do this or be involved in these space anymore as it's getting to his head and he won't be able to heal and deleted his own account to try to live better, I liked this dude alot cause he was one of the only ones ready to be introspective and hold both sides accountable but the negativity got to him, unfortunately

There are a few other people too but I can't be sure about their stances or why they got banned

I've also been banned twice and the moment the third one comes I'll be out too, but yeah that's it

Don't be too negative and censor things as much as you can or you'll get banned too and this app doesn't give second chances, one ban means forever

I love both dogs and cats

Anyways more than 90% of dogs are so uglyy i hate them all

And cats are just sooooo much better than dogs, cats are better in this, that, loving a cat is so fun and exciting, why would someone in their right mind even love dogs eww

I will not do anything for a dog, but everything I'd hate doing for a dog I'd love to do with a cat

I hate seeing dogs and cats w each other, dogs are so ugly they don't deserve cats every time I see that all I can say, "cat, is that thing bothering you"?

"I can be the better car"

"Dogs are so luckyyy"

"Dogs don't deserve anything"

But hey as I said I swing both ways

Why do people hate brave people like us? we're not afraid to show our true selfs and go against dogciety, damn this dogriarchy and everything they just can't stand a true biloving blabla

It all starts, with blue pill, the idea that people care more about the heart and personality and this works for some, doesn't for most

Redpill, the idea that things can be changed with the involvement of status, money and famemaxxing which also works for some cause dudes like Andrew tate are still cracking or literally so many popular people

Then is Blackpill, which is considered to be the final truth, consisting of l00kspill, heightpill, r@cepill, upbringing and so much else and this works for most to come to the truth but it doesn't end there

This is when wanim comes in, the idea that a good amount of vvmen are js not into men so none of the pills will ever work, though both wanim and bp intervene with each other

1. Comphet/heteronormativity

"Everything vvmen say they won't do it for a man, they will do it for another vvmen" I'm not saying this, I saw an ig post of a formally str8 women opening up about her lesbian journey and the post had millions of likes, with thousand of women in comments agreeing that everything they say they won't do for men they'll happily do for another women, and that's how they go lesbian too they teach themselves this

2. Projection

Everytime men try to discuss or criticise vvmen about things they do wrong, their main nd biggest response is "go date a man then", "just go gay then" these projections come naturally cause they know for themselves that going gay is not that hard and despite the fact women are the ones who support queers the most will still use it as a weapon/insult against men

3. More Projection

Everything they hate in hetero relationships the exact thing they'll support in a non hetero one, whether it's cooking/cleaning to hating on unattractive dudes under every tiktok/ig comments with the casual "no man deserves this", "I can be a better boyfriend than him", "queen is that thing bothering you, getting in relationships w a dude and reposting all those "ihatemybf" posts and asking them to be ok w it or they're insecure

More dudes need to realise and be self aware about wanim cause they're chasing the wrong women

js wanna know what the average wanim user is into/daydreams about

Idk who even started ts but I've been seeing people on the sub encouraging going gay or going trans

Are y'all out of your fcking mind, don't forget you're attracted to women, you can't change your sexuality or you'll just end up like those women on those late bloomer lesbians sub venting bout how they ruined their life cause they tried to be attracted to men

Don't make changes in your body/lifestyle simply cause of a gender not liking you

"Oh bro but why, they won't like me so why should I be stuck" thing is no one will like you either way infact you'll start hating yourself for taking such big decisions cause they mostly don't pan out well

Grow a fucking backbone and stop crying about the fact that you're not liked by another gender, venting about it is another thing, make such a huge change in your lifestyle is another

I've met dudes that are virgin at the age of 40 and still living their life well

Hire an escort before you ever think of making such a big change in your life