How to stop missing ex-bestfriend who wasn't a very good influence? What does God say?
So I used to have an ex-bestfriend, she was there for me during hard times, and I was for her. I remember the funny moments, the deep conversations, and even the meaningless but enjoyable hangouts we'd have. However, she was also someone who really hurt me, she would always try to compete with me, she tried to get me to drink and smoke once (or twice, but I declined all the offers), she picked guys over me, and she would tell me lots of hurtful things. The issue is that she was also someone who was there for me in my hardest moments (like when my grandma died). Therefore, I really miss her sometimes, and I focus a lot on the good moments, even though there's bad ones. Does anyone know, from a christian perspective, how to stop feeling like a bestfriend or someone as close as that is missing in my life, and start feeling more fulfilled in the present? I want to stop grieving and reminiscing but I don't know how.