Where do we draw the line btw women independence and rights of a husband
My wife (Vanshika) got recently pregnant. We actually discussed names and even used AI tools to create photos of how the baby might look. We are so excited.
Without telling me, she got an abortion after one month. It is legal in India she said. She has to focus on her career. and "it wasn't your child anyway". this is so mind-boggling, i cant wrap my head around it. I cant stay with this person anymore. I would have kept the child even if it was not mine. How could she cheat on me though? and how could she then imply it was mine. and how could she go for adoption without even a sentence about it to me. She says she is an independent woman. and I want to be independent from her.
I know most women are not like her. I want to divorce her. She says I'm not thinking straight and need time to think. I am being rash. But i cant spend one minute with her anymore.
She says she did it (abortion) for me. That she saved me from being hurt in the future. And she also said that I dont even have enough money to support a child. She says she did it for us, and I am being unrealistic and mean.
I am not angry because she chose to go for abortion, I am angry because she cheated on me and then didnt tell me it wasnt my child, and then did abortion without telling me.