u/Familiar_Sandwich716

For everybody's sake make sure you and your AP are on the same page. If you are looking for excitement and sexual satisfaction please, please do not try to go there with someone who is looking for emotional fullfillment. Just don't. Know what you want. Know what they want and don't stray because she/he is hot or whatever. I won't be the one telling you to follow your moral compass. Obviously, if you are here your compass might be pointing somewhere besides true north 😄. I don't judge. I am at peace with my choices. My moral compass points .... probably straight to hell 😄. I am a man. Men sometimes let their little head run things. Don't be that one. Do not lead a married woman into a situation thinking she is finding connection and romance and she is not. Tell your little head to stand down. It is just wrong. I did it one time. I did not really mean to. She was just hot as hell and willing, and I did not put enough thought into it. I hurt her. Like she needed that hurt on top of her already messed up situation. Never again. I'm like in Eastern KY where everyone knows everyone else's business. It is hard enough to keep a clandestine thing clandestine as it is without adding to someone else's misery and risking them exposing everything. Sorry, on a soap box I guess. I still live with that guilt, guilt of doing the stupid thing because she was desirable.