Mother’s Day can be beautiful.
For many families impacted by addiction, it can also be deeply painful. And for others, it can be both at once.
A Mom described how she'll never get over the harsh words she told her son while visiting him in rehab.
That rehab didn't offer medications and staff advised the mom to use a 'tough love' approach; like all loving parents she did the best she knew at the time to help him.
Despite strong evidence, medication as treatment for opioid or any addiction continues to be controversial.
Medication is viewed by many as harmful, as 'a crutch'; despite overwhelming evidence that it can be the most effective treatment.
With tears streaming down her face, she talked of losing her son soon afterwards.
She later learned the treatment industry failed them by refusing to accept the fact that medication was shown to be most effective.
Several people listening to this courageous Mom's presentation had to leave the room. She was sharing her story to spare others from what she still goes through. Sacrificing to help others; that's what moms do.
To all mothers carrying this kind of pain, please know you are seen, and we grieve alongside you.
We'll see you at the Mother's Day events and celebrations if you choose to attend.
Sometimes the hardest part of holidays is feeling pressure to celebrate when your heart isn’t there.
Please remember you can say no to gatherings, forced smiles, or pretending things are okay when they’re not.
It's important you make choices that support your own well-being.
Mothers deserve understanding and compassion.
I will always love you, Mom.
Edited for clarity.