u/Famous-Leg-5878

I am a 48-year-old woman that survived a lifetime of this. It won't end and I definitely have not grown out of it. I have siblings that we have nothing to do with each other. When we do get together the verbal insults towards me instantly begin. I don't think this will ever change. A person cannot be made to love someone they have spent half-a-century hating and blaming. Should I make a clean break by shoving the responsibility of my Mom's well being? Or shut up and wait for the reaper to make an appearance?