People with stepbrothers, how is your relationship with them? My father abandoned them when they were kids
Hello everybody
After my grandmother (dad’s mum) passed away last year, it allowed my dad to open up more about his past life
We knew there were more than two stepbrothers he said, he did clarified that there were 4 more. All of this followed the same pattern and were cut contact from my dad’s side.
They have tried to make contact again in previous opportunities but Dad has been a cunt a pretty much. My mum suggested I should try to get to know them as there will a day when we have to sort out wills and all of that.
I have only had a weird relationship with two of them. Dad helped one with uni and the other one was employed by my parent’s business a few times but it always ended up in disagreements and he either got fired by dad or quit.
I kinda feel bad for this people, most of them couldn’t have the chance to go to uni, travel overseas and experience the things I have had.
However, when I think in approach them I feel scared about a backlash or a bad interaction. Just this month, one of them asked dad to be a guarantee for a house loan and he basically told him to fuck off.
What would you do in this situation?