u/Famous_Jellyfish9023

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Dealing with some issues with my gf but we’re technically not together anymore

Me and this girl have been dating for a good 3 months I understand that’s not very long but I’ve been trying to find this perfect girl for me, and it’s like after each girl, I haven’t been able to find someone. That’s truly for me. Someone that’s like emotionally mature, and can handle themselves and take care of themselves without me needing to like tell him to take care of themselves or let them know. We’re having to handle so much that I already have on my plate and I’ve talked to this girl about it, but she says she’s trying to change for me to help me, but I don’t think she can’t cause she isn’t that kind of person. She can’t change something. That is her. If that makes sense. I’m still stuck on my ex that I did it. Almost 2 or 3 years ago I think. Because she was perfect and we understood each other perfectly things and because I wasn’t emotionally, mature not to handle our relationship and I can admit to that and now that I’m trying to look for something like that. I find myself not being able to find the same kind of love. I don’t know what to do. I want someone new but I also to see if the situation ship can work out eventually If she can change like she said she can. Basically, I’m just looking for advice of what I can do.

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