u/Famous_Pirate9927

So this is the second time I've posted in this sub-reddit. For context last time she placed her trusts on Tarot cards and horoscopes. I've talked about how those aren't true and shouldn't guide her major choices. Since then she stopped believing tarot and also discouraged her friends from doing those. However now she's mad over the videos I've sent to her. So we mostly talk on TikTok since both of us use it and it's more convenient than other social media platforms. She sends me a lot of videos and honestly I couldn't watch all of them and remember every single one. I have Chinese classes and go to the gym I also have a wide circle of friends who also send such videos. I have a problem with my memory and I tend to forget even important ones. So sometimes I resend the video she has sent me back to her and she gets annoyed by this and this has happened on several occasions. I'm being truthful here, i personally don't think this shouldn't be something to be mad about. Sure,I get that this feels annoying but she also forgets about my insecurities and also jokes about them. I talked to her about it and she agreed to stop. I did the exact same thing in this situation but now she's saying she doesn't care about the minute details anymore and won't even mention them anymore. Again I apologized and told her this wouldn't happen from now on.

Another thing about her is that she told me not to look at other girls and I promised. I'm more of an introvert I have 5 friends and none of them are girls I don't socialize with girls and I don't have any platonic girl friends. However she freely reposts Guys on TikTok(Bikers, k-pop idols and just posts about actors.). Mind you,she told me to not look at any girls and says that's micro cheating. I told her this applies to you as well and she said there's nothing to lust about on a guy and just downplays it. I said then there's nothing to lust at a girl and she replied with "There is a lot to lust about on girls,it's just that there's nothing to lust on a guy". So, my first reaction was "No, your point is wrong and you should consider the fact that you're literally putting hearts on your reposts". She replied "I only put them because they're my idols". At this point I don't even know what she's bickering about. She still reposts them and one of the videos literally has "My man" written on it.

She's still mad over the videos and gone offline. What she's doing offline doesn't matter anymore. I love her but I have a strong stance of just losing all interests when someone does something I hate. I can tolerate some things but cheating isn't one of them.

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I,18M, currently dating my gf 19F for about two years now. We've started dating on our second to last year of high school and we got along very well. We were each other's type and we bonded over a few things(movies,books and music, etc.). But recently things haven't been great, firstly we've had arguments, big and small, over a short period of time. It also doesn't help that we won't see each other again until college. I also have been a bit dismissive of her,I play a lot of games and sometimes I am just too focused on the games I'm playing and forget about my social life. We were told many times from our own respective social circles that we won't last and distance will tear us. We tried to ignore all of those comments but now I fear that's becoming true.

My gf is really religious. She's a orthodox Buddhist and she believes in psychics and mystic arts. She did a tarot reading and the reader told her that I don't love her anymore and there might be someone else in my life. The reader also told her that we might not last and the breakup is near. My gf then asked me if any of the things the reader said was true and I said "well me being a bit dismissive is true and I told you before that i can't handle getting my mind clustered and short tempered". She replied "if fate isn't with us then I guess we weren't meant to be". I was taken aback by this response. It felt like she was telling me "it's best to go our separate ways",but she also said "tarot might be wrong sometimes and we shouldn't put our relationship on the line over some cards". Now I'm in an emotional limbo idk how to proceed and I'm not even sure this matter will end in a good way.

P.S.: I forgot to mention that this is my first time having a girlfriend and i have no prior experience other than some romance movies.