How do bigger friend groups actually make and commit to plans?
I feel like I see all the time large groups of friends at a sports game or out to a fun restaurant or ski trips or any weekend/vacation getaway and I truly don’t know how everyone makes that happen. I have a friend group of around 6 people and there’s constantly ideas being passed around of all sorts of fun activities and trips to do but nothing has ever happened. It’s incredibly difficult when I’m the only one that tries to get the ball rolling from an idea to actually planning it out and I can only do so much when no one else puts in any effort or it’s never a clear yes I can go or no I cannot.
Even just staying in and having a movie night or a bonfire, things that don’t have to cost money or require heavy planning like for a trip, my group cannot commit. Like is it just pure luck if you end up in a group of people that consistently make an effort and follow through?