u/Fantastic-Peak-436

guys i need your advice and view on it

i was reading our old conversations when i felt that theres something off. at that early dating time i asked him who was “name” out of interest and he answered that shes someone from musics. i believed. after some time i learned, that shes not related to music and shes just a girl he used to text and met her on those language exchange apps. it made me sad. even though i trust him, what if hes okay with little lies sometimes?

btw, im not demanding total honesty on early dating phase, but what if hes constant lier and i dont know it yet

Update: when i bring this conversation, he said he didnt understand and see no reason to lie to me. However he could mistaken her with his friends exs girl friend. But when i checked, i was asking him this question at 5th february and he was talking(not actively, but anyways) with her till 1 februa. i just dont know if hes really mistaken or im getting fooled again.

we have been dating for more than one year, long distance international relationship(F22, M26).sometimes we having arguments due to misunderstanding, but in general we are good. today while having call i requested him to do video for me with his friends saying hello to me. he hesitated at first and bring the argument, that he doesnt want to make everything about him(i dont know how its related to it). after it just clicked for me, that most of the time, when i request something for myself, hes not doing it. i dont want to create image of bad bf, i love him, but it makes me feel, like im not a priority for him.(hes with his friends now, going to concert together)