u/Fantasticsilly

Pata hai aaj kya hua

I really cant hold anymore. I recently had a breakup 7 mo old relationship 23(M) & 25(F). Met on an app and started talking. As suggested by my friend he never had any female interaction and i was really into making friends and talking… we started talking and matched at various points and started talking further more…i don’t understand why I accepted the proposal and started dating him at all. I never felt good being with him. Coz i felt like abandoning myself, until one day we had big fight and he was so in hurry to leave saying my family won’t accept DIL like you! And thats when i realised i was too attached, the whole dynamic shifted and i started running after him and became so anxious that i used to have panic attacks. ( and he told me this was all drama and nonsense) The thing with ex was:

1. He was living in joint fam
2. Constantlyyyyy praising his mother like she is some goddess ( not saying its bad but never heard about how i am struggling with life too!)
3. Consider his sister as an ideal and best girl in the world ( beautiful, thin very sanskari)
4. His sister was not allowed to wear shorts.. even on a foreign trip!! Considering his family is the only best Also he told before we started dating that i would only marry the girl my family chooses but still ended up dating me after 6 months of trying hard.. He ended saying if i date u anymore i would end up ruining my career and life!! And that i took this decision too early. Also after this all i asked trusted jyotish about us and then he told me that this relationship was never meant to work out due to some planets and all. And i was so shocked but not disappointed why god did this! Now i am so stuck feeling - missing him, don’t wanna go back to him ever but also thinking he was super nice to me sometimes! He never tried to stay for long and thats what i am holding now!