r/DesiMingle

Living alone can eat direct from kadhi

When having hectic day, feel like doing nothing

Eating direct from pan feel good

u/Dear_Resource6079 — 6 hours ago
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Need a cheaper version of this 💔

Guys I'm in my first year degree college and I have my freshers party soon, the theme is forest cottage core for girls 🫡 When I saw this top I fell in love with it at first sight, only problem is I'm a broke clg student who can't afford it 🥲 does anyone have any recommendations as to where i can find a cheaper version of this online? I live in thane and it's raining like hell here so markets are unavailable. Also appreciate any suggestions as to what I should add on to this to make it more spot on like the theme. I obviously don't have any jewelry that goes with the theme but I'll have to make it work somehow lol, I'm not good at styling but want to be more fashionable with whatever I can afford. I appreciate any help 🫶🏻

u/OwnNefariousness9209 — 14 hours ago

How successful are blind dates?

Going on a date with someone u donno whom u haven't seen ...nothing just blind step in. How does that work!? And like how many of these blind dates have actually turned to multiple dates? I've heard stories from both my male and female friends....almost none seem to extend beyond the first.

I haven't been on a date ...yet ...so all my refs and knowledge comes from others experience lol. I'm just simply taking notes from these dates and relationships 💀

My intrusive thoughts talking here....who would actually go for a blind date...I meant online Chats to begin with lol idek why I added the Johnny bravo meme....just a long paragraph seems boring ......lollz

u/Imaginary_Novel_373 — 9 hours ago

Drop your post workout pump pictures in comments:)

Let's appreciate each other's hardwork.

I've been doing desi home workouts for a while now.

u/TyagiGod — 11 hours ago

29 M | Hyderabad | Looking for someone to marry and Settle together 1 + 1 = 11

1+1 = 11, Standing together without breaking our Individualism.Don't want to get yourself or me overshadowed with what we are till now. Either it's friends, belives, likes and dislikes. And whatever you have planned in your life.

Usually it's called 1+1=2, Where both are considered to be one which is not fair.

👤 Personal Details

• Year of Birth & Gender: 1997, Male.

• Height & BMI: 5'8" / 65 Kgs

• Current Residence: Hyderabad

• Hometown: Hyderabad

• Nationality: India

• Citizenship Status: India.

💼 Career

• Employment Status : Self employed - Own a design studio, building it from scratch, I also teach in a college, as visiting

• Profession : Architural Designer ( Interior designer )

• Earnings : 10 LPA, Planning to expand over years so there would be growth as years pass

🎓 Education

• Qualification : UG / Bachelor's in design

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Background

• Immediate Family Members: 4

• No. of Siblings: 1

• Marital Status of Siblings: Unmarried - Younger Brother

• Caste : BC - D

• Languages Known : Telugu, Hindi, English, Sign language

• Gothram : Paspuneti

• Menamama Gothram (if applicable): Don't know

• Religious Orientation: Hindu

• Diet: Non-Veg

• Smoking: No

• Drinking: No - Stoped, used to drink rarely

• Kids After Marriage: No, Will discuss this together

• Marital Status: Never married

🌟 Partner Preferences

• Age Range: 24 - 28 / 29

• Height Range: Upto 5'7

• Preferred Residence / Region / Country: Telangana, Andhrapradesh, India

• Career Preference : Any graduation, Will be great if you can be part of present business or future Ventures I am planning.

• Caste : BC - D

• Language Preference: Open to others

• Religious Orientation: Same as mine - Hindu

• Smoking & Drinking Preference: Preferred No

• Marital Status Preference: Never married preferred

📝 Self Introduction

I am an easy going Human, Love nature, Grounded lifestyle. Observing surroundings, staying humble, living ones own life without getting effected by others views on our life.

I belive we have 1/1 life and living it to our best, and having as many as memories is important then what we have achieved as per society.

Hobbies: I love cooking, sunset and sunrise watching, Vivid traveller and partially extrovert.

💡 Minimum Expectations From Partner

A calm nature girl, Someone who has grown up in humble family, knowing how middle-class family runs and how one can manage tough times together with me. Either in person or family situations.

📍 End Notes

I am hoping to start a new and separate life with partner, rather staying with parents - So this may lead to everything fresh whatsoever my parents have earned for me.

Thought they are humble, respectful and will definitely love you equally as me.

Looking for someone who is up in considering marriage not as old school, Must be accountable and communicative, Loyalty is most important.

I am considering we taking care of both of our families together, Your and mine.

Always wanted to be a single woman men, never dated or been in relationship. So expecting this to be one and only, never thinking about divorce or parting away.

Dm only if you are serious, and Please re read ones.

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u/iamlostincity — 7 hours ago

I'm done with my wife, but I do love her, but we disagree on everything

I disagree on my wife with everything and that's causing so many issues in my life

She wants our baby to have a sleep routine sleep training sleep in a different room with monitor and sleep at 8 cause she feels she will wake the kid by talking in sleep and using washroom and sleep is so important bla bla ....I feel kids should sleep with both the parents, so she got nanny near his room ..she is trusted tho raised a family members daughter but why not just co sleep ...why soooo Western why so modern

She wants to send him to pre school for learning activities and arts and socialize.....I want to send him to our parents

She wants to continue living in nuclear family after kid and i want to call my parents or hers in for helping permanently

She wants nanny and maids and i feel family privacy is more important so we call our parents

She wanna join work in 6 months and I suggest 1 year

She wanna continue sleeping in our room but I feel we sleep with baby and she got angry and stopped sleeping with me all together

I feel old school way of raising kids with parents and grandparents is better she feels day care monitors and all bla bla is better ....she says I check on baby anyways but i don't feel okay

Most important...she feels she should make all the decisions for the baby in initial 2 years and i feel both mom and dad have a say

Idk who is even right...but I feel I'm right

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u/Old-universe-7711 — 11 hours ago

29F | Please read the whole post

So hello everyone, just like most people on this group. I have also been on the Matrimony sites for a while now, and I find hard to find someone who is compatible and who fits the criteria that I require in a life partner.
So here are certain details about me so you will get a clear picture, and I would also put in details about what I’m looking for in a partner, so I guess that would give a an idea.

About me

Age : 29
Height : 5ft
Looks : Fair and above Avg body type
Gender : Female
Hometown : Chennai (Native is Andhra Pradesh so Telugu)
Religion : Hindu
Community : Balija Naidu (If it matters, I honestly do not care too much about it)
Languages : Telugu, Tamil, Hindi and English
Educational Background: Btech, MBA
Current Location : Bengaluru
Working : Yes
Annual Income : 20 lpa
Hobbies: Playing sports, Dancing, Singing, Travelling.
Also a huge pet enthusiast! So animals make me happy.
Family Background : Upper Middle Class
Kids : Want Kids
Intention : Looking to get married in the next 1 year.

What you should know about me?
So Im your next door girl, I like simple things in life. I am very family oriented, I have a very modern outlook in life and at the same time follow traditions at home. I am very fun loving, sincere and care too much about the people I love.

What Am I looking for?
Physical Features : Someone 5’8 and above with a beard ( Just a personal preference)
Community : Doesnt Matter
Language : Preferably someone telugu but Im not too particular about it.
Location : Doesnt matter
Family : A liberal close knit family family who would treat me with lots of love and care as I would do the same. Preferably similar financial background.
Annual Income : 20lpa and above
Age : 28-33
Characteristics : Someone calm, mature, loving, who loves to travel, who values the concept of family and marriage, ambitious and with good eq and maybe a little bit of romance.

Please Note : Please share your shaadi/insta id with photos and details in dm. I dont want to begin a conversation without knowing if our criterias match and theres mutual attraction.

If youve made it this far! Thanks for stopping by! See you on the other side.

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u/Pretty-Powerful — 7 hours ago

Mistakenly chose 'Interested in Men' on Bumble and the pool isn't mine anymore. What should I do?

u/CustardBoth536 — 14 hours ago