r/DesiMingle

I will be married off to some girl parents set me up with. That's the context. No, I am not fighting parents. They are tied to the traditions as much as I am tied to them.

I want to connect with women who have similar fate like me. This is by far 90% of Indian marriage pool in any given marriage season.

Yes, the women I want to bond with are those who are well aware and have a clarity about their private life which will be outside their marriage. I know I will have my love life and friendships beyond the marriage and parents having to ever need to know.

I want to feel there is something and someone in my life I was able to choose and be chosen for without the influence of parents or social norms I am stuck with.

Consider writing to me if you understand that I may not have sex with you, I may not want to be what a Man is supposed do and be for a woman or just be someone who wants to be nice to you because I love being nice to you.....

I really would want to be on talking terms with women who like me otherwise but dont want to meet or have a closer dynamic since believe me I am someone who wants to be looked after and taken care of by the women in my private life financially and emotionally.

I know I am happy to be alone if I am not with someone who is resenting me as a man. I will just be alone. It's ok.

Hope those reading this may find their calling soonest. I am trying so will you for yourself.

aajao baat karenge bored af rn aur lonely n sed bhi hun😔

let's have a cool convo hmu

To date for convenience.... yes that's what I am happy in..

Are you?