u/Far-Historian7624

TW for a lot of stuff rally bullying abuse harassment sexual harassment etc

She aka creepy girl Was my "best friend" who Framed me Stole my stuff Continuously touched/tried to touch me Spread rumors Refused to listen to my no even if I was crying I remember she tried to lick my face by trapping me between two benches I couldn't jump over, I was screeching and yelling. Also threw my food because she was trying to juggle it. I had to eat it from the ground because I had nothing else. She made a gross comment about my body when I clearly wasn't someone who joked of such things with her Laughed at my disgust and anger. Hugged me from behind and sat with me despite me telling her not to And other things She had a terrible home life tho so I forgive her I remember seeing her 2 years ago after 1 year of not seeing her and she smiled in recognition and the amount of fear I felt in that moment I pretended not to see her. Even now if I ever see her I'll cry in fear. My parents have beaten me and I fear them less.

It went on for 10 years bro

TW: ableism bullying sexual harassment probably

I remember being a kid and we had this girl in our class ( Diya) who was probably very disabled. Scored low, talked softly, very tall and comparatively slow in walking. She had no friends. Except for me. I remember being her only friend per se.

But i think I also remember being told not to be friends with her by my mom. She was slow, she followed me everywhere and she liked me i guess but another girl was creepy and harassing me. I was more of a caretaker y. Literally used to fix her clothes and ties and come last in the school leaving line because I was walking with her. I remember writing and letting her copy everything. I remember sharing food and letting her blow her nose on my handkerchief. I remember teachers praising me explicitly for looking after her. She was a bad student but now I believe it's because of her disability.

I remember constantly wanting to leave her because I didn't want to take care of someone like an assigned caretaker but I'd still be there if anything happened not because I wanted to be her friend but because I couldn't just leave her like that. And the other creepy harassing girl also tried to create issues. I don't really know if I did right by cutting off the disabled girl but i felt she was holding me back too. She was still everywhere though, I remember writing something secretly and looked up to see her trying to read it even though I was literally covering it with my own body.

Wait no I didn't want to leave her because of that. I liked her. I wanted to leave because no 1, creepy girl always targeted us. She was the one who wanted me to leave. No 2. My mom told me to

The first time she too told me she didn't want to be my friend I felt so proud because she's standing up for herself and also releif because yay peace. Nobody really wanted to be her friend and i probably would keep boundaries too if I ever met her again because of school memories, am I ableist Or TA?

I remember calling her a football too. Not to her face never but to the creepy girl next to me. She always said mean things about Diya but I fought back. But that time I secretly said football. Aka fat like one. Idk maybe I was scared? To the creepy girl. I begged her to not say it out loud to Diya but she did we got scolded by the teacher because it was indeed hurtful, I was 7-8 then. My own mom was also fat and she always made fat jokes and laughed at herself so I thought it was probably a lighthearted funny thing. But obviously I know it's wrong now, if anyone wants to hurl curses at me feel free to.

Creepy girl needs a seperate para she has stolen from me vandalised my things spread false rumors stalked me committed battery made my cry harassed me didn't leave me alone tried to kiss me always touched me and hugged me even when I said no threw my food spoke gross sexual stuff to me for 12ish years kay that needs a seperate para. Like if it were a guy I'd have taken them to the police. ​

I cared for her for 12 years too. I never want to see either of them again. Am I ableist for not wanting to care for her?

I don't like caring for others either it's not a her thing. I'll get you medicine and soup but won't sit by your bedside to nurse you back, I'll be in the next room to check in I guess. I care a lot but have 0 empathy

The other girl. Oh her. She did so much and the adults failed me. There, I said it. All adults fkin failed us, and she tormented me. My mom kept asking the teachers to seperate us but nothing happened. I remember her literally cornering me between two benches and trying to lock my face. I remember pushing her away blindly and she claimed it was bad touch.

I felt happy when others cared for Diya because I didn't want to much. One time apparently she wasted a full bottle of glue of mine. Diya I mean. Idk if it was really her but i was crying so much over the loss.

None of them would ever leave me alone. I became a social outcast because of them. But I don't blame them, we were all kids

But if I met them, I'd apologize to one and forgive the other and never see either one again in my life hopefully.

Anyone who wants to hurl insults at me feel free to. They are very much deserved.