u/Far-Recognition-6396

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I love how fast my Boyfriend finishes

I (23F) and my (28M) boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now, we have a great relationship outside of intimacy and I’m really happy but ever since we started getting intimate he’s been a little self-conscious about how soon he finishes. My previous partner took multiple hours and it started to take a toll on my self-confidence that I couldn’t make him cross that line. This time around I feel completely different. He makes me feel sexy and self-confidence has been at all-time high outside of this.
Lately he’s confided in me and that he feels bad for how soon he finishes in the bedroom, I’ve tried to tell him that I honestly enjoy it because I know I make him feel good and I’m not setting aside my entire day just for him to finish. Before with my previous partner, it took anywhere from 2 to 6 hours and it was really hard for me to be in the mood when I knew it would be an endeavor. It took a toll on my self-confidence and my libido, I feel like my depression has gone down too, because I feel more attractive as well.
I feel like he’s gotten more okay with it, but I feel like he still feels bad and I don’t know how to tell him that I don’t mind it at all and it’s honestly kind of hot

Edit: Guys it wasn’t actually 6 hrs but it was a lot longer than now and was at minimum 2, it wasn’t good either my bf now is more experienced/better. He knows how long my ex took cause I’ve complained about it before when we’d talk about previous relationships.

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