u/Far-Sheepherder-212

I mean. As I said once, he isn't as "excelent son, I support you". He's trying to understand it and obviouslly it's a process. But 2 days ago we were talking and he said a pair of things I wasn't very agree with.

Firstly he said sth as this wouldn't make me happy in the future 'cause of being straight and he told me that maybe by getting a gf it would make me forget about femboy stuff.

Apart from that he said sth very "bad" about femboys. Saying that they seemed as "girlies" and that If i dressed up as that he would feel very bad. I don't think he said that in a bad intention. It's just that he's trying to process it.

Since friday we haven't talked about it. But when we were talking he said that he wanted to talk about this more often because he could try to understand me.

The thing is, he isn't "supportive" because he is a very closed minded person and it's now, trying to open it. And it's hard for him. Apart from this he said something "good"? I guess. And it was that the things he said were only his point of view. And that if I wanted to do those femboy stuff in my room with closed door as something "intimate" he wasn't bad with it. The thing is that he cannot see it as something "normal". Because he hasn't that mind.

I think it's more a matter of process than anything.

Opinions?

So I decided to watch Spiderman dressed as a femboy. I was very nervous but luckily no one on The Shopping mall saw me stranged or sth. I was only wearing a topless shirt and sweater, adding rings and boots with some kind of heel (Like 1inch)

So... It resulted great I Guess

She didn't care much basically hehe. Although she thinks I am fem 'cause I'm gay even if i'm straight. She sees it as sth related with sexaullity more than identity. But every time she asks me things as "Do you still like girls?" or if I wanna be a girl in the future she says to me that she asks that because she wants to understand me so... It isn't bad at all.

We share makeup things I've bought and viceversa. Otherwise not shoes 'cause I'm 11 and she's 9-10 hehe

I wanna hang out wearing a large wig but Even with that I see myself with a very masculine face. Any advice? Bangs? Or what else?

Ejemplo si salis a algun lugar y vas a un shopping es buen lugar o ni ahí, cosas así, necesito consejo. Soy nuevo en esto lpm

Mostly how do u' handle with hanging out being femboy or dressed "girly"?

Basically today I wore my first wig and mixed up with make up, and some femenine clothes I felt really cute,

Basically, my mum is ok with me being a femboy, even if she doesn't understand it too much, because I'm straight, and she knows that. Although she thinks that if someone does this things being a man is 'cause he's gay (She told me once that she doesn't mind if I were gay or not) but it's just that she doesn't sees this as an "identity" thing and only that. She guesses it's related with sexualitty.

Any advice?

I like it but I really don't know what's the use of that, but anyway, I guess I like and that's it

For me you are a femboy in anyway, but I wanna read other opinions

In my case I learnt by practising myself walking and walking. It was just that I felt like a Diva walking with them hehe.