r/feminineboys

They will probably kill me or kick me out of the house

I've seen a lot of femboys that take stuff to have a curvy body and i'm wondering if that is the default, like do the majority of yall take stuff to have the body or the majority are natural/do exercises?

well i had this huge crush on my best friend. he knew i was a femboy and i was bisexual. we been best friends for awhile. i didn't want to ruin our friendship. till one day he asked me out and i accepted it.

me and him dated for a couple of days till my mom found out, she got mad at me. she forced we to break up, she told his parents. i was banned from talking to him again and i was transferred schools. now i feel alone now. and his parents didn't take the news well either. so now i feel bad and mad of this whole thing. i trusted him and i cared for him, so i took all the blame. i was happy but now i am just tried of it all.

well i just wanted to get this off my chest. idk what i should or if there is even anything i can do.

They're plain black cuz I wanna wear them under pants without anyone noticing they're thigh highs :3

Also, do any of you have advice on how to wash them by hand?

I mean. As I said once, he isn't as "excelent son, I support you". He's trying to understand it and obviouslly it's a process. But 2 days ago we were talking and he said a pair of things I wasn't very agree with.

Firstly he said sth as this wouldn't make me happy in the future 'cause of being straight and he told me that maybe by getting a gf it would make me forget about femboy stuff.

Apart from that he said sth very "bad" about femboys. Saying that they seemed as "girlies" and that If i dressed up as that he would feel very bad. I don't think he said that in a bad intention. It's just that he's trying to process it.

Since friday we haven't talked about it. But when we were talking he said that he wanted to talk about this more often because he could try to understand me.

The thing is, he isn't "supportive" because he is a very closed minded person and it's now, trying to open it. And it's hard for him. Apart from this he said something "good"? I guess. And it was that the things he said were only his point of view. And that if I wanted to do those femboy stuff in my room with closed door as something "intimate" he wasn't bad with it. The thing is that he cannot see it as something "normal". Because he hasn't that mind.

I think it's more a matter of process than anything.

Opinions?

I finally came out to my daddy as a femboy and he actually is so supportive I could cry he even offered to help me buy stuff to get all Preety and everything 🙈 I’m so blessed

I’m 19, i’ve been with girls my whole life but i am sexually attracted to transgender women. I’m confused

I recently got a pair of thigh highs and I LOVE THEM SO MUCHCHFHCH and I want to wear them all the time. I wanted to wear them to a GSA event but my sister said that they were too sexualized so I couldn’t wear them (since I’m a minor). I understand where she’s coming from but… no… I asked my therapist about it and she said “go ahead I don’t see why not”. What are your opinions on this???

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I was looking for hopefully more high-quality feminine gear. I was looking through Amazon, but nothing really caught my eye. Any suggestions on where else I should look?

I'm ideally looking for a purple crop top hoodie and some more comfortable shorts.

I am extremely new to being a femboy. Where do I hide feminine clothing in my room???

I currently have it all tucked away into a little shelf under some random junk, but I don’t want anyone finding it by moving the junk 😭😭😭 plz help

Every time I try letting my hair grow a bit it looks like a mess and I have to get them shortened by a barber. After a certain length my hair looks so rough and dead. It gets harder to comb it too. I want to grow them till shoulder length while also not looking disheveled. How do girls have silky smooth hair?

I went out in femboy clothes for the first time and bbgrl I was not holding back I had dolphin shorts, thigh highs fishnets and a crop top. Lemme tell you I was SERVING like a freaking queen.

And I think you should too because actually NO ONE cared I didn't get ONE weird look now I was with my friends and definitely be with people you trust to do this just to be safe but still guys if you're in a country that is remotely safe for you to express yourself go for it. If your country isn't safe... Uhhh sorry but you're still awesome!!!!

But seriously people keep to themselves a lot and in many times I've worn stuff that's fem people have tend to treat me with respect and I'm in a relatively small city in the south of the US in a place that isn't known to be LGBT inclusive like California or Colorado or something. So if you're scared that's okay but slay the boots down and take it a little bit at a time if it's what you really wanna do. Be yourself it's always worth it!!! <3333

So just to reiterate, I’m non binary femme leaning. I’ve just gone with the approach that I’ll do me, and leave it at that. As a result of that, I have a real girly like personality, with a real masculine ripped look, and that’s how I like it. No complaints here.

Like I say though, especially when you think about how my personality is much more femme leaning which matters way more than my physique, it always makes me so giddy when a person literally has to ask, are you a girl. I do always correct them, and tell them what I am but as far as my personality goes, and my being a femboy, I just get thrilled by it. Apparently I look like the femboy version of Rihanna, or so I’m told.

im looking for some, since im new to being a femboy, perferably a sfw one (since yk, im a minor), thx :3

I’ve been on Reddit before just to casual femboy post but I I’ve always felt like it was content churn or i was a thing on display as there was no continuity no memory of who I was… and like tbh no one really checks out another person profile unless you’re really autistic like me lol..

So I went to insta, where I felt like the femboys were cuter on average and the format was more ambitious.. and I don’t wanna say I did well.. but I did grew quite a bit of a home in one month..

But because recently a reel went semi viral and my account had a stupid Kofi link I was trying to fund the pills-that-makes-my-body-trans

I got zapped instantly with an immediate account ban for solicitation and it won’t even let me appeal as it ip banned me lol…

So I’m left wandering again.. I feel so depressed as this is the 2nd account i made on insta that got banned so i guess the algo is watching my device and ip lol… I’ve deleted my app just so maybe it won’t go after the only last account I have but I feel like I’m getting kicked out… I feel like I lost a garden I was tending to and it feels worse than the idea of a fire as atleast fires leave the dirt… I didn’t mind growing that account back … but I feel like I’m getting kI led off for good just because I did well and a bit of folks reported me for indecency I’m guessing for just posting a very cute and low risk femboy post in public.

I made a discord to talk to my friends/content peers but I kinda wanna just stop lol… I hate this … I hate this …. None of the other socials feel the same I miss the community of people who posted for fun… it feels like nothing is the same

In short: I want to be perceived as a girl even if I idetify myself as a guy to be judged less.

Since I don't appreciate the stares. I don't want to be seen by strangers as a femboy. I want them to think I'm an ordinary girl so that they go on with their lives.

But I'm not trans. I consider myself a femboy, I just want people who don't know me to look at me and say I'm a girl so that they don't judge me.

I'm socially loud and I like to yap, but when I use my super deep voice I just feel bad for using it cause it furthermore proves to them I'm a guy. And I am! Stop judging me for wanting to go out in a skirt and feel cute ughhh.

My question: am I alone with my thoughts? How do you handle publicly showing yourself off as a guy but expressing your femininity? I feel awkward doing that.

I keep getting jealous of my classmates looks they look pretty and I just wish I could be even a fraction of them idk I just wanna feel pretty

hello. sorry bad english i from country uzbekistan live in belarus. so the boyfriend and the me speak about the politics and i say "i much like the tradition it is very good and beautiful" but he disagree with the me. for this he beated me and say "you are evil fashist that destroy communism and kill my grandpa stupid bitch" this is not the truth. im not fashist. think the fashism not good but not bad. what do? how stop him from beating me?

I’ve noticed that online, feminine men are often automatically associated with sexual content, and I think that can be frustrating for people who simply enjoy presenting themselves in a feminine or cute way.

I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with adults choosing to post certain kinds of content. People can express themselves however they want. My issue is when that becomes such a common representation that people start assuming a feminine guy is automatically looking for sexual attention or should be viewed in a sexual way.

A guy can like skirts, makeup, cute clothes, nail polish, or a feminine aesthetic simply because he likes those things. It doesn’t have to mean anything sexual.

I also think the way these terms are presented online can influence how people perceive them. If someone’s first exposure to a term is through sexualized content, it’s easy for them to assume that’s what the term inherently means.

I just wish there were more room for feminine men to exist online without their appearance automatically being interpreted sexually.

Feminine doesn’t mean sexual. Cute doesn’t mean sexual.