u/Far-Tradition-6576

Hi everyone! I need some serious help because I am losing my damn mind. For some background information my bf has adhd and hasn’t been medicated for it in a couple of years due to a lack of health insurance. He’s moved in with me for a couple years and he can’t keep his space clean at all. There’s a bunch of dirty dishes in the room, trash everywhere, and clothes all over the floor. He hardly does his laundry and usually it falls upon me to do it because I can’t stand the floor looking like a closet died there. Nothing seems to be working and I’m seriously losing hope. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what might help motivate him to clean?

Im tired of feeling like a mom cleaning up after their teenage son.

Genuinely I don’t care how dumb the advice is PLEASE HELP ME! I don’t want this to be the end of our relationship.