Was I a perve to my sister?
So I (30F) was just told by my parents that 2 of my 3 sisters (27 & 22) think I’m an evil pervert and I SAd them when we were younger. They have both told my parents that if they do not cut me out of their lives completely they are evil too and my sisters will cut them out of their lives and my parents will never be allowed to see their grandkids again. I am at an absolute loss and mind boggled rn.
*Background* up until 3yrs ago my sister (27) and I were super close. We’d take trips together. We’d travel for a month at a time. We had a falling out because I knew she was lying to our parents about something that affected their home life and I told her she needed to tell them or I would. Since then she has hated me. Blocked me and everything. My other sister(22) and I had been super close(I was in her wedding and we hung out all the time) until 1yr ago. Which is right around the time she started hanging out with (27)sister again. (They had fought and not talked for a couple yrs.)
Now, growing up I’ve always had a bigger butt and all my sisters would spank me hard or credit card me aggressively. Sometimes it was funny, sometimes it was annoying, sometimes I hated it. Sometimes we’d laugh about it(while pushing their hand away), sometimes I’d tell them stop or sometimes I’d yell at them to stop. When these 2 hit puberty and got boobs (My 3rd sister(28) and I never got boobs) I’d poke the side of their boob(not anywhere near the nipple) in a completely teasing way. And they would both react the exact same way as I would when they slapped my butt or whatever. Sometimes, laugh and push the hand, other times yell “stop it” when they were in a bad mood. We all did it to each other for years. No one ever came to me and said “hey I don’t like that and it makes me uncomfortable” they never got weird, froze, or shut down. They never said anything to our parents about it until 2 weeks ago.
They are both suddenly telling my parents that I molested them and SAd them. And that they always felt very uncomfortable around me and that I was being sexually inappropriate with them and how they are so messed up from it.
My parents talked with my 3rd sister and she was also astonished and said “no! We all smacked each other’s butts and everything. There was never anything creepy or inappropriate behind it” No one poked our boobs cause we had nothing to poke.
I have no idea how to handle this and I feel like they have both just decided to hate me and want me out of my family’s life. My parents are shocked as well as the 3rd sister(28). I feel so bad for my parents cause now they won’t be allowed to see their grandchildren. And there is no fixing this unless they cut all contact with me.
So my question is, did no other sisters grow up smacking each other’s butts, poke the side of each other’s boobs. Or was I being a creep?