My aunt is not the greatest person, and she always goes after dudes who beat on her. She always chooses men over family. I don't like that for her but, I don't like that she is marrying a man who beats on women, and treat women like garbage. He even went to jail for beating on his ex-wife before! He beats on her! He made my aunt pay a lot of money for a surgery, just to lose 10 pounds. Like 10 pounds is nothing. She wasn't even fat! She still looks the same! My aunt knows that this man is abusive but still chooses a man over herself, and her family.
There's this one time, when I was 15-16, my aunt, my mom, and him went out, to eat but things went down hill. Out of nowhere, this man was throwing food at my Mom, and calling her a bunch of horrible names like "Fat bitch", and stuff related to that. What did my aunt do? Just sit there, and let him do that to my momma. Crazy, right?
This man is a punk!
Me, and my siblings was up, chilling. My mom came home at night, crying, we were confused about what was going on, and when my mom told me what happened, I was so pissed off. My big sister, and I wanted to call my aunt, and cuss her out but my mom said "no", and we respected it but, tell me why my mom called my grandma/her mom, and tell her what happened, my grandma just told my mom to apologize. Like why TF does she have to apologize when she didn't even do anything to deserve that? What is she apologizing for? Existing? This is the reason why my mom feels like my grandma has favorites ever since childhood
My mom told my cousin about it. My aunt went to visit my cousin in jail, and my cousin cussed her out for what happened while my aunt just sat there, and was like "I knew you were going to cuss me out. . ."
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A few years later, this month, my aunt is getting married to him, and my aunt wanted my grandma, me, my big sister, and my mom to go to support. My grandma wants us to talk to the man like what is there to say to him rather than just "Hey. How are you? Congratulations on your wedding" That's it
Even my other cousin(17M) doesn't want to be near that man, and would rather live with his dad, and when he said that to my aunt, my aunt was mad at him. He said himself that he doesn't want to go through any conflict with him, which is why he wants to live with his dad