hi i wanted some advice regarding a situation that’s been going on for awhile w my friends
basically, i have this really good friend of mine who has a bf and they’ve been together for quite a long time like I mean for more than a year which is pretty long I’d say for a school relationship especially at this age. Im kind of friends with her bf as well for quite a long time, and the problem is I feel like hes always guilt tripping her to eat lunch or spend time with him.. because every week they’d eat together twice (which is fine) and me and my boyfriend only eat once a week cuz I told him I want to spend more time with my friend group. everytime my friend wants to eat with us he acts really sad like cutesy and stuff and Im like wtf.. but my friend just puts up with it somehow.. and then she switches up on us really last min and eats with her bf instead cuz she feels bad but I can tell she’s annoyed with her bf but idt shes done anything about it.. And basically a few weeks ago HE CRIED because she wanted to eat with us.. isn’t that lik so controlling? my bf just lets me eat with whoever and whenever. and sometimes, one of my friends had to eat alone because me and my friend were both eating with our boyfriends that day. my bf invites my friends to eat so they won’t be alone, but with my friend’s bf, he dislikes when any of us tag along to eat with them cuz im pretty sure he wants their time together.. WHICH I GET BUT.. idk… lmk what yall think and yes I’ve talked to her about it probably twice.. and she says she understands but nothing happens and she’s like a really good friend of mine.. I don’t wanna interfere with their relationship too much since it’s like between them
there are other things that don’t sit right w me between them as well but it’s not relevant to the situation