Me and my BF have been dating for nearly a year. We had previously been in a relationship, which ended but we got back together and i have broken his heart once again, i feel terrible for torturing his feelings like that.
But the reason i broke with him is because it felt like he lost sense of himself. He was so much in love with me that he didnt have any hobbies of his own, he practically moved to my parents house with me and we would spend every single day together (we’re aslo coworkers). He would get very anxious when i wouldn't reply to his texts, he never went out with his friends, he spied on me once when i was in the shower and accused me of masturbating and also would touch me inappropriately all the time. i thought thats just what people do in a relationship but then realised im just not that sexual overall so telling him no in bed felt awful
today before bed he scolded me for walking in underwear in front of my little brother (my shirt is long enough to cover my thighs), said he was looking at me weird and it just clicked. he just sees everything about me as sexual. before bed i told him that i dont like being groped and i dont feel that way about me relatives, to which he got defensive. that i really didnt like and it got heated quick. he ended up walking home (mind you its 1am and raining outside), refusing to let me order a taxi for him
we ended up breaking up via text messages and i cant help but feel like i ruined his life