Is it normal for my 20M talking stage to send me 19F Pictures of him crying? Is it manipulation or?
For reference I am ‘19F’ he is ‘20M’ we have been talking for about 7 months now and he has this tendency to send me pictures of when he is crying…boogers leaking out and everything…I kinda noticed this initially but never thought anything of it bc i was like oh like maybe like he wanted to express himself or smth. Idk. Just trying to justify it or wtv. But recently I was having an episode (I have BPD) and I was expressing to him what I was feeling and what drove me to get to that point (some things were about him) and he started freaking out and then began talking about how he couldn’t do it anymore, and that hes done with everything and that he knows its affecting me but wants me to be there with him so we can figure it out together or so he could make me feel better just things like that. Then proceeded to send me multiple pictures of him crying and saying how he literally can’t do anything with himself at that moment and that he just wanted to be cuddled up next to me and things like that On Snapchat. Then on Messages he sent me a picture of him crying whilst sitting up and saying “I cant do this anymore”. To me this seems like a form of manipulation for him to get what he wants. He doesn’t enjoy being alone and always wants me next to him. I have a car, he doesn’t. this benefits him as well, I am mentioning the car because whilst I was also expressing to him how I was feeling he was talking about how we had the day planned and how I was going to take him to the store and the pawn shop but like? What truly does that have to do with what I am expressing. Im not sure? Please help me out I have no Idea what to do and am getting kind of conflicted with it being l