u/Far_Turnip_6278

nothings changed, except for the fact that I now know 100% that I’m not wanted by this person anymore. and I’m back to square one.

if you’re thinking about reaching out after a fresh break up, dont.

I’m lost. I can’t unblock you because it will drive me insane. and I know you won’t unblock me for the same reason. I just miss you and can’t accept building a life without you. I wish I knew how you felt. or maybe I don’t as it could crush me. i promised to stay away so I will. but this hurts like hell

I know they pushed us to this point: repetitive arguing, refusing to even consider compromise for some reason. What ever it is, I wish they would've just ended things directly rather than pushing me away with actions while still proclaiming love.

I know this person wasn't right for me. But every part of me hurts, and desperately wants them to want me. I guess that's why we both have each other blocked. And despite knowing that keeps us apart, I cant stop wanting her back in my life.

Does it ever get better? I hear it does, but its impossible to see that a week into a break up

thought I met my person, had so many discussions about our future all of which we aligned on. for the most part we got along extremely well and loved each other a LOT.

over the past month it felt like my partner was pushing me further and further away by discussing hypothetical situations and how we would react. pushing my boundaries on what I felt comfortable with and seemingly disregarding my feelings until we finally decided to end things a week ago.

i know it’s the right thing to do, because I think any partner should feel heard. but it’s hard to reconcile that the same person who made me feel such love is the same person whos can make me feel so discarded. I want to think those moments of being loved were genuine, but the way this ended makes me feel like it was all out of convenience from my partners perspective.

this Is the most painful thing I’ve had to deal with (I’m in my 30s) and It’s all just fucking with my head

thought I met my person, had so many discussions about our future all of which we aligned on. for the most part we got along extremely well and loved each other a LOT.

over the past month it felt like my partner was pushing me further and further away by discussing hypothetical situations and how we would react. pushing my boundaries on what I felt comfortable with and seemingly disregarding my feelings until we finally decided to end things a week ago.

i know it’s the right thing to do, because I think any partner should feel heard. but it’s hard to reconcile that the same person who made me feel such love is the same person whos can make me feel so discarded. I want to think those moments of being loved were genuine, but the way this ended makes me feel like it was all out of convenience from my partners perspective.

this Is the most painful thing I’ve had to deal with (no I’m not a kid lol) and It’s all just fucking with my head

after nearly a year of dating and talk of a future life together, my ex spent the last month or so pushing me away but never wanting to end things. now we’ve cut each other off and I’m in a constant spiral of not knowing why they couldn’t just admit they wanted to move on rather than have the same fight/argument over and over. its making me relive and question every conversation, every moment we had together. it’s really not helping with my own mental and emotional state. frankly seeing some folks still being in this headspace after a year+ is making me even more concerned with how I’m going to fair throughout this breakup

after seeing this person for nearly a year and thinking it would result in marriage things fell apart quickly.

the final straw was them wanting to go to a wedding as someone’s (unknown to me and never mentioned by name) plus one. someone I didn’t know or anything. I stated my discomfort but was made to feel like I was encroaching on this persons free will. so we split up and it’s been the most excruciating breaking I’ve been through.

I don’t feel like I’m being unreasonable. and that leads me to thinking my partner just wanted a way out and used this to force the issue. if they really loved what we had I don’t see how something so stupid could lead to two people being okay with throwing something that was so beautiful away.

Am I crazy?