Context: me and have just move in together due to personal stuff that was going on in my life, I got fired from my job so I’m making no money but I’m looking for work, have an interview next week. So she talks to men online for money to support us, and I told her I was ok with it at first but that’s because it wasn’t an everyday thing, once’s, or 2 times a week that I knew of she would talk to them and make them send her money, it’s not anything sexual on her part, but sometimes they send her a 🍆 pic or sextet with her and she tell me nothing of it means anything because she loves me and she’s in the room with me when she’s doing it and stuff, and she never feeds into the pics or anything like that but sometimes she’ll text back a little flirty or something like that. And I’ve tried expressing to her how it makes me feel, that being insecure,anxious depressed. Not that they are flirting with her I know I can’t stop anyone from flirting with my gf or anything but it hurts watching it happing or when she feeds into it for money. It always comes back to us needing the extra money, and I can’t keep talking about it if it’s just gonna turn into an argument every time when all I want is to say how I feel. She’s giving all these other men attention all day, and I wish she would just give me a little bit. And she talks to this one guy all the time let’s call him C(M28) she’s friends with him for rides and if she needs him to pick something up for her because we don’t have a car. But he clearly likes her and I’ve told her this and she refuses to agree, she says he’s just joking that same way I do. I’ll attach some screenshots. He’s aware she’s dating me,he even told her that he hopes I don’t have a problem with him calling her pretty (Witch I truly don’t) like I said earlier I can’t stop people from admiring her, the comfort in that knowing she’s mine. But I’m scared I’m losing her.
Dose anyone have any experience with this?