Just found out I'm donor conceived
I (33M) just got my results back from a 23andMe test that I took for fun to find out ancestry background. Then I saw the family tree part and found out I have 10 half siblings on the paternal side. I'm completely shocked because I was never told that I was a dcp. I reached out to all of them, my half sister got in touch with me and filled me in on everything. We're all a product of a sperm donor and they found out the guys name and it's not my father (I thought maybe my dad gave a donation). I just found all of this out earlier. Having a hard time processing, deciding what to do with this info (I have an older brother that I don't really resemble too much) me and my father never had a great relationship our whole lives, but me and my mom are very close. I'm afraid she will take this to the grave since she's been lying for so long. I guess my question is to anyone who has been through this before, how did you confront you're parents? What if they deny it? Do I tell my older brother? I'm very confused and any general advice would be great.