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I finally got movement…I have been manifesting and affirming reconciliation with my SP and have Self-concept maxxed myself into complete confidence with or without them or their validation. She initiated contact and after locking in for a day, she called, then wanted to FaceTime…we bought concert tickets and everything for September in her city and haven’t gone a day without speaking since. We’ve been talking and joking around, even reminiscing and I deeply believe in what I’m doing. However, I’ve also been affirming for emotional vulnerability, clarity, accountability, etc and so far have not seen it. I’m continuing to affirm for those things…any advice on this?

I’ve been manifesting reconciliation with my ex-fiancé for a little over a month now. While she has initiated a couple of text-only conversations in the past week or so, it’s been very minimal and inconsistent. Simultaneously, I’ve been working on my self-concept but seeing how many others are able to just manifest what and who they want instantly is starting to become discouraging. To add, my sister does tarot and took it upon herself last night to tell me the cards told me focusing on this is blocking me from having the person with the traits that I’ve been manifesting from my ex. I understand this is my reality but I also don’t feel like I should have to work this hard for results. If I’m so magnetic, unforgettable, the only one she wants, etc, then where is she? Maybe I’m too logical for this way of thinking. Any advice or encouragement would be great.

How do you write a new story? My SP is my ex-fiancée, but I’ve already decided we’re getting back together. However, I find it difficult to abandon the “old story” when friends and family are constantly asking me “where she is” or “why she isn’t present.” Sometimes flashbacks do enter my mind-of the good moments as well as the unfavorable. I’m manifesting a clean slate between us but I’m still human. Any advice?

Can you manifest opportunities and money just coming towards you? I’ve been in ABA for 3+ years and I’m exhausted. I’m in school with 2 and a half years left and in a living situation that is far from favorable. I’ve even picked up 2 extra jobs to bring more money in but the truth is I’m spent and tired of doing the “practical” like applying to jobs or getting more certifications. I don’t mind working but I don’t believe that it should be this hard.

From my understanding, when manifesting your SP you’re supposed to let go of the old story, but I find myself reminiscing on a lot of good times, so I screenshotted a message from her telling me how much she wanted me to come home to her and who I consider my daughter…how much she was ready to pour life into me, wanted to get back to cooking together, movie nights, intimacy-those type of things. I’ve been scripting a little and believe some of the old story IS useful. Am I on the right track or do I have to also abandon and delete the good parts of the old story, too?

So I’ve received in-person readings-one saying my SP feels regrets and wants reconciliation and another reading that lead back to my SP and I working out in the long run without me even asking that question. Even got confirmations that these are true and a dream that they were sending me a “Let’s fix this message” where they ended up sitting right beside me with their hand in mine. I did an avoidant communication spell a few days ago along with SP subliminals and affirmations for the past 3 weeks. Yet, there’s been nothing and I’m starting to get impatient and freak out. Any advice?

I’ve been working on manifesting my SP for a few weeks now. I understand the importance of affirming and letting go, but are you allowed to miss them? I’ve been working on my own self-concept, robotic affirming, and subliminals but I still think about them quite a bit. Should I be redirecting my thoughts?