u/FearlessAct5680

From a very young age, I was very focused on my career. Although I was dealing with dyslexia as a child, I was not very good at studies. I was a very creative person who loved building something whenever I got the time. This naturally made me exposed to very few people from the beginning of my life.

Currently, I have moved out of my state. I moved to another state at 19 years old, and now I am 22, working in a big MNC. I feel really bad that I don’t have even one genuine connection. Most of the time, I just sit alone and eat my food. I don’t even have a genuine person to share my thoughts with.

I only experienced love once in my life, but that girl cheated on me. From then until now, I have never felt the same. I think I gave up on love somewhere in my life. I just feel empty. I wanted to know if things will change. At least, can I get a girlfriend or a good friend circle? Is this something destiny is saying, or am I just overthinking? I’m not really sure.

I just feel bad about whatever is happening in my life currently, but I can’t do anything about it.

Will this end? If yes, then when?

Hey, I’ve been following this sub for a long time, but never really had the courage to post. After thinking a lot, I finally decided to post here.

I’m 21M, originally from Hyderabad, currently working in an MNC in Chennai. I’m not here looking for blind dates or anything rushed. I just want to connect with new people—someone to talk to, share daily rants, and be my true self with. If things naturally click, we can see where it goes.

I’m looking for genuine connections nothing creepy. I enjoy talking and listening. If you’re a girl who’s open to making a new friend, spending time chatting, ranting, deep talks, sharing emotions, and having meaningful conversations, we might get along well.

Emotionally, I’m a very controlled person. Kopam vasthe chupinchali, bada anipisthe edavali ani untadi, but over time I’ve complicated myself so much that I find it hard to express emotions even crying feels difficult sometimes. Because of this, moving on isn’t easy for me.

I have many friends professionally, but very few female friends with whom I can openly share everything and feel light. I’m looking for a good, serious, yaar-type friendship. I’m not another creep looking for anything physical.

If you’re not into deep talks, mindful conversations, emotional bonding, and meaningful chats, then I’m probably not your type please don’t DM.

But if this resonates with you, feel free to DM. Let’s have a good conversation.

Why do people riple from my life and why can't I really make any new friends or genuine connections is it somthing seen my chart or it's jut that I am over thinking

Can we make friends here or its just to find dates ?