r/Dating_Bondha

⁠Age: 29
• ⁠Gender: F
• ⁠Height: 5’8
• ⁠Weight: (optional) within lean mass weight
• ⁠Location: (City, Country) west coast, USA
• ⁠Willing to LDR: (Yes/No) yes
• ⁠Dietary Habits: (Flexible/No adjustments) non veg- flexible
• ⁠Language: (Telugu only/Open to others) Telugu
• ⁠Smoking/Drinking Habits: (Yes/No) no /no
• ⁠Smoking/Drinking in Partner: (Negotiable/Non negotiable) no/ occasional drinking fine
• ⁠Religious Orientation: atheist but family follows Hinduism
• ⁠Willing to Date Other Religion: (Yes/No) yes

Introduction: (Express yourself freely here! Share a bit about who you are, your interests, and what you're looking for.) : hello andi, I’m working in US, live alone. Started seriously looking for a partner 1.5 years ago on dating apps and matrimony sites, and shit tired. I’m pretty chill and open to anything. Nannu nannu ga undanichi, nuvu kuda ne laga sorted ga unte, I’ll like you.

Minimum Expectations: (List any must-haves you have in a partner or relationship.)

A guy who has his own opinions (dosent depend on family/ parents for taking big decisions)

A guy who isn’t scared of “feminists” and a guy who dosent think men are victims cuz of feminism- mind you, 90% of the guys I met have this mindset

A guy who has a stable job and is settled in his career

A guy who’s kind and humble

A guy who can talk! ( very reserved ppl who can’t talk to women outside, I can’t date you )

Someone taller than me

End Note: (Any final thoughts or a call to action.)
Em ledu, if you are sending a DM, send some details about you in it instead of just “hi”. And all the guys who are overly religious and casteist - don’t bother to msg.

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F4M | Looking for a Meaningful & Peaceful Connection 💫

Age: 24

Gender: Female

Height: 5'0"

Location: Hyderabad, India

Willing to LDR: Yes

Dietary Habits: Non-Vegetarian

Language Preference: Telugu only

Smoking/Drinking Habits: No

Smoking/Drinking in Partner: Occasional is fine

Religious Orientation: Hindu

Willing to Date Other Religion: No

Introduction:

I am a simple, independent, and non-materialistic person who believes in peaceful living and healthy communication. I love movies, music, cooking, travelling, and spending quality time with close people. I believe relationships should be fun, peaceful, understanding, and emotionally supportive

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Minimum Expectations

Age between 24 to 29

Height 5'5" and above

Responsible, kind, understanding, and emotionally mature person

Family-oriented mindset

Non-vegetarian preferred

Yadav caste preferred for family approval and long-term compatibility

Occasional smoking/drinking is okay

End Note:

Looking for a genuine connection with mutual respect, honesty, and good communication. :)

Age: 20 Gender: Female Height: 5'0 Location: Hyderabad

Willing to LDR: Yes, but eventually Hyderabad ki move avvali because I genuinely love this city

Dietary Habits: Vegetarian only Language: Telugu preferred, open to others too

Smoking/Drinking Habits: No Smoking/Drinking in Partner: No, non-negotiable

Religious Orientation: Hindu, Brahmin Willing to Date Other Religion: Preferably no

Introduction:

I’m someone who values kindness, emotional maturity, discipline, and personal growth. I’m into coding/tech and building a good future for myself. I appreciate soft-spoken people who are respectful, caring, and ambitious without being arrogant. I enjoy nerdy conversations, good humor, and people who are genuine with their intentions.

I believe in God and karma. Lately I’ve been trying to read and understand the Bhagavad Gita more. If I do anything, I prefer knowing the meaning and actually applying it in life rather than just doing things without understanding.

I like things to start naturally. No “hi/hello I love you” energy . I prefer slow conversations, getting to know each other properly, and letting things build at their own pace. I’m into slow-burn connections , something that grows with time and feels real, not rushed.

I love watching anime, IPL, and Telugu cinemalu.

I’m looking for a calm and healthy relationship where both people support each other’s goals and grow together.

Minimum Expectations:

• Age around 20–22
• 5’6+ preferred
• Vegetarian (Egg tinte okay)
• Takes care of health/fitness
• Career-focused and responsible
• Kind, soft-spoken, emotionally mature
• Brahmin
• No smoking/drinking

End Note: I know I’m looking for someone very specific , but there’s nothing wrong in trying nonetheless.

Also, please give a proper introduction in comments. Don’t just go “hey, I’m a Brahmin, DM.” Tell me about yourself, your interests, and what you’re building in life.

And before anyone gets mad about the caste preference , same caste kakapothe maa intlo oppukoru. I’d rather be practical from the beginning than emotionally invest in something that realistically may not work out later.

Hello all ,

E May Theraa (13) special, I am open to doing a love reading for all of you all to see where your stars are guiding you.

I use A mix of tatrot and Vedic astrology techniques.

Please follow this format and post in the comments, please don't DM me personally already 325 unread messages unnayi yours will be lost in it. I repeat, please don't!

Your question: please be very specific, don't ask vauge questions like will I find love ? Blah blah (let's keep it to love related only)

An example of a good question is : will he/start start taking time again in the next 3 months?

Was his or her intention real ?

The current time / or the time at which the even happened: please mention the time zone tooo.

Your location when this event happened/when you thought about it:

Finally if you know your Rashi and nakshatram :

Once again stick to this format

-- Question

-- time including them time zone.

-- location

-- your Rashi

-- your nakshatram.

P.S : please note this is only for fun! There is always free will and your own efforts which can turn tables around. Take this prediction with a pinch of salt!

Chalo unta mari :)

For context:

The lady speaks: Telugu (mother tongue) , kannada (fluent given that she spent a major part of her life in Bengaluru) , Hindi and English.

The Guy speaks: Tamil (mother tongue) Kannada (born and raised in Karnataka and dad his is from Karnataka) and english

They talk normally in kannada , arguments tend to be in english.

P.S gudispotam ani telisi kuda mursipotuna rojulu ivi.

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Looking for a serious relationship ✨

Mandatory Details: Age: 20 Gender: Female Height: 5’0 Location: Hyderabad Willing to LDR: Depends Dietary Habits: Vegetarian (egg okay occasionally, I don't mind if you're a non vegetarian) Language: Telugu & English Smoking/Drinking Habits: No Smoking/Drinking in Partner: No Religious Orientation: Hindu Willing to Date Other Religion: Preferably no

Introduction:

Simple cozy vibes type 💛 Cooking ante ishtam, free time lo dramas & web series binge watch chestha 😭. Comfortable ayyaka chaala talkative and fun untanu.

Nenu Vysya, so preferably Vysya aithe better long-term lo families ki easy untadi ani.

Not into casuals. Looking for something genuine, peaceful, and long-term. I value honesty, loyalty, effort, and good communication.

Minimum Expectations:

Vysya preferred(had to mention this cos my family is orthodox also I don't want an arranged marriage 😭) Should be consistent daily matladali natho Age 21–24 5'7" + Good personality & emotionally mature Clear goals in life undali Ghosting/timepass vaddu please 😭

26M here, looking for a genuine long-term connection.

Would prefer becoming good friends first and then seeing where things go naturally 🙂, ala ani timepass assal kaadu, I believe friendship should be a strong base.

Age : 26

Gender: Male

Height: 6 ft

Location: Hyd (Home) - Pune(Work)

Willing to LDR: Yes

Dietary Habits: Flexible

Language: Telugu only

Smoking/Drinking Habits: Neither

Smoking/Drinking in Partner: Non negotiable

Religious Orientation: Hindu ( Caste - Kshatriya preferable, not a deal breaker)

Willing to Date other Religion: No

Occupation : Software Engineer at a good PBC

Introduction:

I’m pretty low-key and easygoing overall, but ambitious about the things that matter. I enjoy the simple stuff, good food, travelling, sports, random philosophical conversations, and binge-watching thrillers.

I like exploring things in general, places, perspectives, people, ideas. Can be serious when needed but also pretty goofy once I’m comfortable.

Minimum expectations:

Looking for someone calm, curious, kind, emotionally mature, but also someone who still has that fun/silly side alive. Sports / Outdoor activities lo interest unte would be great.

End Note:

Not rushing into anything but not for casual as well. Just hoping to find someone I genuinely vibe with and build something meaningful over time.

Feel free to DM if this resonates 😁

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21 year old from Hyderabad, born and brought up in vizag but too many transfers so I stayed couple years in

vijaywada,guntur,kakinada, triple in hyd..basically pan-andhra

#sneakpeekintomyself

Love mentally stimulating conversations as well as Brainrot🫧.. pursuing a journey of self love and looking for my pasandida aurat so we can better ourselves together..movies ante interest(movies chudani telugodu telugodena??😗).. cricket ante kuda picchi RCB and ABD, Kohli fan since childhood❤️..just movies and cricket gurinchi friends tho matluduthu windows thellaga aipoina rojulu unnay(night nundi morning varuku matladam ani kavi taathparyam)..gym ante kuda recent ishtam..abbo music ni ela marchipotham na primary source of escapism..dogs ante chala chala chala ishtam.ivi kakunda ante bane chadhuvukunna tier 1 clg lo 4th year lo unna.... Family and friends say I'm stubborn and take a firm stand,also safe to say that i have great self control🙂‍↔️

Self control ante gurthocchindhi...I don't drink,i don't smoke, because of my orthodox upbringing I'm a vegetarian and hold strong religious beliefs (you can be an atheist i don't care), Been a devotee of Lord krishna and will continue to do so

Have a great set of bucket list that I wanna fullfill with my partner...random small things to big things anni untay bucket list lo

It can be as small as mall hopping/cafe hopping on a random Wednesday to skydiving with my partner with a combined parachute 👉👈

Lastly family background.. grateful to have the most loving parents who never objected anything and a loving elder brother(who's getting married in less than a month yay!)..I don't wanna boast but money vishayam lo peddha problem em ledhu they let me free🤗🤗

Physical attributes:

6'0;Fair complexioned;92 kg(lost 18kgs recently and will continue to do so)

Table tennis, cricket, volleyball,tennis and chess aadatha

Ovo-vegetarian

Willing to LDR: Yes (only if atleast occasional meetups are possible)

Langauge: Telugu and it's non-negotiable

I don't drink,I don't smoke.

Lastly, all i wanna say is let's just lie on a comfy open terrace listening to sai abhyankar and watch the starry night sky🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

Hi. Em rayalo teledu. But will try to put as much as possible.

• Age: 24
• Gender: M
• Height: 168
• Weight: 65
• Location: Bnglr (native from vijayanagaram)
• Willing to LDR: No
• Dietary Habits: Non-veg
• Language: Telugu Only
• Smoking/Drinking Habits: I dont smoke, I dont drink
• Smoking/Drinking in Partner: Drink (negotiable), Smoke (No)
• Religious Orientation: Hindu
• Willing to Date Other Religion: No

Introduction:

I am a simple soul, studied my ass off, met unsaid expectations on me, lifted up my family from middle class to rich (IMO). I am currently working as a SDE-2 at a US based org (soon going to remote). I graduated from an IIT (not so great one, but good one). Present bengaluru lo untunna, will be moving to remote location soon.

I am kind of nerdy, binge watching anime, movies, simple soul, cant stand someone going through rough time, love cooking, playing chess. Kind of introverted, but once we are in a rythm, chaala ekkuva matladutha. I love to explore mythology, fiction, psychology, i talk a lot on these spaces.

Minimum Expectations:

I am looking for someone like minded (dont mind you being nerdy), peaceful & simple soul, someone who takes things slowly, without rushing, respectful ga untey saripoddi

End Note:

Casual dating is not my type, so i am looking for something serious, genuine & peaceful

Hey, I’ve been following this sub for a long time, but never really had the courage to post. After thinking a lot, I finally decided to post here.

I’m 21M, originally from Hyderabad, currently working in an MNC in Chennai. I’m not here looking for blind dates or anything rushed. I just want to connect with new people—someone to talk to, share daily rants, and be my true self with. If things naturally click, we can see where it goes.

I’m looking for genuine connections nothing creepy. I enjoy talking and listening. If you’re a girl who’s open to making a new friend, spending time chatting, ranting, deep talks, sharing emotions, and having meaningful conversations, we might get along well.

Emotionally, I’m a very controlled person. Kopam vasthe chupinchali, bada anipisthe edavali ani untadi, but over time I’ve complicated myself so much that I find it hard to express emotions even crying feels difficult sometimes. Because of this, moving on isn’t easy for me.

I have many friends professionally, but very few female friends with whom I can openly share everything and feel light. I’m looking for a good, serious, yaar-type friendship. I’m not another creep looking for anything physical.

If you’re not into deep talks, mindful conversations, emotional bonding, and meaningful chats, then I’m probably not your type please don’t DM.

But if this resonates with you, feel free to DM. Let’s have a good conversation.