u/Low_Bee2354

• Age: 22 • Gender: Male • Height: 5’10” - 5’11”
• Location: Pune, India (Originally Hyderabad) • Willing to LDR: Yes • Dietary Habits: Non-veg / Flexible • Language: Telugu, English, Hindi • Smoking/Drinking Habits: No smoking, occasional drinking • Smoking/Drinking in Partner: No smoking (non-negotiable), drinking is fine • Religious Orientation: Hindu • Willing to Date Other Religion: No

Introduction Warangal lo putti, Hyderabad lo perigi, ippudu Pune lo software developer ga pani chesthunna. Intlo pedda koduku. 21 years ke intlo nunchi bayataki vachesi, “sare chuddam life em chestundo” ani journey start chesa. Personality ante situation ni batti maripotha. Kotha vallatho koncham reserved untanu. Comfort vachindante matram meme references, movie dialogues, random observations tho conversation nadipistha. Gym ki regular ga velthunna. Fitness journey inka ongoing lo undi. Rocky Bhai transformation kaadhu gani, progress undhi ani cheppagalige stage lo unna

Entertainment package Movie taste konchem mixed. Brochevarevarura la chaos. Sammohanam la feel-good romance. KGF la elevations. Kani final ga malli Nuvvu Naaku Nachav daggare settle aipotha. Meme pages ante weakness. Conversation madhyalo correct meme reference veste instant respect. Movie dialogue tho counter ivvagaligithe bonus points.

Minimum Expectations Looking for something serious Maatladadam osthe chaalu lendi, migatadhi manam chuksundham Emotionally mature person Mutual respect and effort Someone who enjoys both conversations and comfortable silence Bonus points if you enjoy movies, memes, random voice notes and Hyderabad biryani debates

End Note Life lo konni moments untayi… Cinema chusthunappudu pakkana evarikaina “idhi ra scene ante…” ani cheppali anipinche moments.

Trip ki vellinappudu photo teeyadam kanna, pakkana unna person reaction gurthundipoye moments.

Rojantha ayyaka “eeroju emaindo telusa…” ani cheppali anipinche moments.

Alanti moments share cheskune oka manchi person kosame ee post.

Migathaadhi… interval tarvatha chuddam.

I have shifted from my hometown to a new city a year back. Initially, it wasn’t a bug problem but nowadays it has become visible. I used to use a Loreal shampoo but it didn’t have great results. I’m thinking of buying the Bare anatomy anti-hairfall shampoo or anti-dandruff shampoo. I have little dandruff too. When I use a conditioner, my hair feels great. I also started using clean water from the RO for washing hair. I need a good shampoo suggestion.

Namaskaram! This is my genuine plea to understand what generally people do in situations like these.

One year mundhu, I shifted to a new city for an internship. Appudu naakoka girlfriend unde. Ikkadiki occhaka, oka 3 months nenu malli intiki vellinappudu kalisa, aame snapchat naa phone lo login ayyunde, open chesi chusthe naa school friend tho matladthunde and they were sexting. Vaadu naaku 2nd standard nunchi friend. Naa girlfriend ni adigesa entidhi ani, naaku avasaram ainappudu nuvvu levu so cheyyalsocchindhi andhi. Inka matladadam maanesa, konni rojulaki she came back, malli we started talking. Randomly okaroju occhi mee caste maa caste verey, maa intlo oppukoru ani cheppi velipoindhi. Appatki memu relationship lo undi 3 years aipoindhi. Inka nenu 2-3 days try chesi tharvatha odilesa.

Konni rojula varaki, evartho matladaledhu. Tharvatha random ga reddit lo oka ammayi parichayam ayyindhi. She started becoming a part of my routine, rojantha emaindhani voice notes exchange cheskune vallam, emaindho chepkune vallam. Antha baane unde. Sudden ga okaroju ayya naaku 20, neeku 22. Ee age difference chaala ekkuva anipistundhi naaku ani block chesesindhi.

Sare ponile, ivanni ela unna intlo mummy, nanna unnaru. Veldham vallatho matladudham anukunte. Okaroju nanna call chesi repu poddhune intiki occheyy annaru, velli chusthe mummy, nanna divorce teeskundhamani fix ayyi. Naaku cheppadaniki pilicharu anthe. Roju office nunchi raagaane iddhartho maatladutha, convince cheyyadaniki try chestha kaani iddharki iddharu thaggatle. Nannaki phone konna emi, maa inti emi anni kattukuntu. Ivanni kattukuntu, ekkuva em migalavu kaani prasthaniki vallaki kaakapothe inkevariki chestham ani odlestha.

Ivanni kaadhanattu, maa office lo I’m the youngest, nenu 22, naatho unnavallantha 25-26 age group lo untaru. It has become too much like, neekem telsu cheppindhi vinu type lo. Monnaithe naa friend okadu valla college friend tho matladaadanta, to like ship me and her. Photo chusi nice baavunnadu all that happened and tharvatha naa age 22 ani chepthe. Chee chinna pillodu andhanta bhayya.

Naakante chinnavallakemo eedu musalodu antaru, naakate peddhavallemo eedu pillodu ra antadu. Atu family baaleka, itu oka constant person leka. Em nadusthundho, etu potundho. Em cheyyalo ardhamkaatle bhayya. Nammina prathi na batta, manushulani enduku nammoddho chupisthunnadu. Naa roommate tho ila intlo paristhithi baaledhu ra ante, office lo maa common friends especially ammailaki cheppadu, vallemo occhi sympathy. Raama chandra prabhu, naaku em cheyyalo ardhamkaaka edusthunde, manchollake ra kashtalu anta.

Manushulemo, get into a casual relationship or a FWB kinda thing. Set aipothadhi antunnaru, naa friends aithe okkokkaru casual ani FWB ani. Nenemo aree oka genuine connection lenidhi physical avvadam ela ra anedaggare aagipothunna. Nenu mari slow ga unnana? Manushulu mari fast ga unnara? Stop wanting girlfriend and you’ll get one ani okadu antadu, manifest chey occhesthadhi ani inkokadu antadu. Entandi idhiiii. Ee manushulento, idhe time lo anni okesaari jaragadam ento. Genuinely speaking, evaro oka manishi rojuki okasari etlunnav ani adigithe vini aanandhapadipothanemo. Prathi okkaru edo oka expectation tho matladadame thappa.

Evarocchi matlaadina, I’m just welcome. Andartho maatladtha. Mummy chinnappudu cheppedhi cheppe vaadiki vine vaadu lokuva ani. Appudu vintunde, ippude chusthunna. Andartho matladithe entra veedu mari ila unnadu antaru, maatladakapothe baaga attitude ra antaru.

Anduke Etu potundho! Emaitundho

I’m 22 M,
I met someone through reddit, I posted something and then she replied on that post and we started talking. Our vibe matched. She was 20. We gradually shifted from reddit to Instagram. Text turned into voice notes. Life was good. We plan and meet, have a great time. Everything’s good. One day out of the blue, I get a text saying there’s something we need to talk about. 2-3 days later, there’s a voice note that says the age difference isn’t settling, it keeps running back of her mind, she doesn’t wanna any of this from that point on. I asked if she was open to like discuss and see if we can continue talking. Then I thought I’ll try talking to like see if she’s open to discussion but she hasn’t replied since that day.

For people younger than me, 22 is old. For people elder than me 22 is baccha.
Kare toh kare kya? Bole toh bole kyaa?

22M. Moved to Pune for work after a rough relationship and I feel emotionally exhausted.

A few months ago I ended a relationship because I realized the girl I was with wasn’t really emotionally exclusive with me. Even while we were together, she was still talking to a guy she had kissed before and sexted with another college friend. I wanted honesty and exclusivity, and when things stopped working, I let her go instead of forcing it.

After that, I moved from Hyderabad to Pune for my internship/job. I’m now working full-time at 4.5 LPA. I’m a pretty quiet and soft-spoken person, not someone who talks a lot unless necessary. I made a few friends here, moved into a flat with colleagues, tried talking to girls in office too — but honestly after my last relationship, I realized emotional loyalty matters a lot to me, and I didn’t really feel that connection with anyone.

Work hasn’t helped either. There’s this colleague who’s very cunning and used to take credit for work I did. Recently I got assigned to the same project as him again, and mentally that already drained me.

Financially also things are tight. I help pay EMI for an iPhone my brother bought, and after rent, electricity, gas, petrol, lunch etc., I barely have anything left for myself.

I keep thinking about this line: “the eyes see what the mind thinks.” And honestly my mind currently only sees loneliness. I miss having someone who genuinely cares about me. Someone to talk to, hold, feel emotionally safe with.

I don’t want to become negative or bitter. I genuinely want to train my mind to see life differently and feel better again.

People who went through something similar in their early 20s:
How did you improve your mindset?
How did you stop feeling emotionally lonely?
And how did you build a life that actually felt peaceful?

22M. Moved to Pune for work after a rough relationship and I feel emotionally exhausted.

A few months ago I ended a relationship because I realized the girl I was with wasn’t really emotionally exclusive with me. Even while we were together, she was still talking to a guy she had kissed before and sexted with another college friend. I wanted honesty and exclusivity, and when things stopped working, I let her go instead of forcing it.

After that, I moved from Hyderabad to Pune for my internship/job. I’m now working full-time at 4.5 LPA. I’m a pretty quiet and soft-spoken person, not someone who talks a lot unless necessary. I made a few friends here, moved into a flat with colleagues, tried talking to girls in office too — but honestly after my last relationship, I realized emotional loyalty matters a lot to me, and I didn’t really feel that connection with anyone.

Work hasn’t helped either. There’s this colleague who’s very cunning and used to take credit for work I did. Recently I got assigned to the same project as him again, and mentally that already drained me.

Financially also things are tight. I help pay EMI for an iPhone my brother bought, and after rent, electricity, gas, petrol, lunch etc., I barely have anything left for myself.

I keep thinking about this line: “the eyes see what the mind thinks.” And honestly my mind currently only sees loneliness. I miss having someone who genuinely cares about me. Someone to talk to, hold, feel emotionally safe with.

I don’t want to become negative or bitter. I genuinely want to train my mind to see life differently and feel better again.

People who went through something similar in their early 20s:
How did you improve your mindset?
How did you stop feeling emotionally lonely?
And how did you build a life that actually felt peaceful?

22M. Moved to Pune for work after a rough relationship and I feel emotionally exhausted.

A few months ago I ended a relationship because I realized the girl I was with wasn’t really emotionally exclusive with me. Even while we were together, she was still talking to a guy she had kissed before and sexted with another college friend. I wanted honesty and exclusivity, and when things stopped working, I let her go instead of forcing it.

After that, I moved from Hyderabad to Pune for my internship/job. I’m now working full-time at 4.5 LPA. I’m a pretty quiet and soft-spoken person, not someone who talks a lot unless necessary. I made a few friends here, moved into a flat with colleagues, tried talking to girls in office too — but honestly after my last relationship, I realized emotional loyalty matters a lot to me, and I didn’t really feel that connection with anyone.

Work hasn’t helped either. There’s this colleague who’s very cunning and used to take credit for work I did. Recently I got assigned to the same project as him again, and mentally that already drained me.

Financially also things are tight. I help pay EMI for an iPhone my brother bought, and after rent, electricity, gas, petrol, lunch etc., I barely have anything left for myself.

I keep thinking about this line: “the eyes see what the mind thinks.” And honestly my mind currently only sees loneliness. I miss having someone who genuinely cares about me. Someone to talk to, hold, feel emotionally safe with.

I don’t want to become negative or bitter. I genuinely want to train my mind to see life differently and feel better again.

People who went through something similar in their early 20s:
How did you improve your mindset?
How did you stop feeling emotionally lonely?
And how did you build a life that actually felt peaceful?

22M. Moved to Pune for work after a rough relationship and I feel emotionally exhausted.

A few months ago I ended a relationship because I realized the girl I was with wasn’t really emotionally exclusive with me. Even while we were together, she was still talking to a guy she had kissed before and sexted with another college friend. I wanted honesty and exclusivity, and when things stopped working, I let her go instead of forcing it.

After that, I moved from Hyderabad to Pune for my internship/job. I’m now working full-time at 4.5 LPA. I’m a pretty quiet and soft-spoken person, not someone who talks a lot unless necessary. I made a few friends here, moved into a flat with colleagues, tried talking to girls in office too — but honestly after my last relationship, I realized emotional loyalty matters a lot to me, and I didn’t really feel that connection with anyone.

Work hasn’t helped either. There’s this colleague named Parth who’s very cunning and used to take credit for work I did. Recently I got assigned to the same project as him again, and mentally that already drained me.

Financially also things are tight. I help pay EMI for an iPhone my brother bought, and after rent, electricity, gas, petrol, lunch etc., I barely have anything left for myself.

I keep thinking about this line: “the eyes see what the mind thinks.” And honestly my mind currently only sees loneliness. I miss having someone who genuinely cares about me. Someone to talk to, hold, feel emotionally safe with.

I don’t want to become negative or bitter. I genuinely want to train my mind to see life differently and feel better again.

People who went through something similar in their early 20s:
How did you improve your mindset?
How did you stop feeling emotionally lonely?
And how did you build a life that actually felt peaceful?