r/KindVoice

I’m really struggling at the moment and would love nothing more than just to receive a simple message or comment that says Hi

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If you are suffering from any problems or want to vent about anything without being judge ..I don't care you are a male or female if you really need a listener do reach to me i would really like to hear you and give my best suggestion..as mental health is very important.. people aren't open about it so if you are really need a talk I am here

I wrecked my car, had a massive fight with my family, lost my job of 11 years, and then lost my community. I have almost nothing left

Hi everyone. I'm going to try and not make this story so long.

I'm in my mid 20s (f), I've had a crush on this boy since I was in elementary school and we grew up together same friend group and everything, my best friend knew over the years how much I really fancied this guy. Well, she started dating him last year and waited a month or two to tell me, I was the last one to find out. I congratulated her and told her I was happy for her. Deep down inside I wasn't happy for her and still feel an extreme amount of guilt for not feeling supportive of them. I act very supportive but I don't feel it. There is something so much more hurtful that my best friend of all people ended up with this guy. If it was anyone else that ended up with him i truly wouldn't mind but it's hard since it's my best friend.

I work with her too, and she talks about him all the time, what they do, where they go, what they make for dinner, what shows they watch together, what music they listen to together. i hate hearing about it. I feel like a god awful person for feeling this way, if I was normal and a better person I probably wouldn't feel this way. It makes me feel so dirty and guilty it's such an uncomfortable feeling. Her and I have gradually drifted apart because of it. It's also so awkward bc I wonder if she's told him that I had a major crush on him I used to tell her all the time how sweet he was etc etc.

Idk I don't know what to do with these feelings but I'm so over feeling like this and I really need help. My therapist hasn't been very helpful. I have tried everything to just embrace their relationship and accept it but it's like a mourning a future I'll definitely never get to have now. Like I said he has dated before and I never ever bothered me when he dated someone else, but there's something that hurts more about it being one of my best friends who knew exactly how I felt about him. Someone please help

(38 M) I've been separated for 2.5 yrs... Right now I feel like I'm breaking down. I could really use some kind words. I'm an open book I'll tell you about myself and my situation if you want to know. I'm really trying not to do something dumb like go out and drink.

Recently ended an engagement and lost a best friend at the same time (they didn’t die) just feel so incredibly alone and even though I’m surrounded by people I feel like I’m the only person on this planet. Yeah