u/Formal-Host-7051

Preferably to hop on a call I’ve been typing way too much the past two days

Please help

She F/23 cheated on me M/25 I found out after our immigration interview. She’s still waiting for her green card stuff to come in and it’s been an 8 month wait. It still hurts me to see her or think about her. Me divorcing her could possibly jeopardize her immigration status. What would the repercussions be if any?

I don’t think she deserves my help because it still hurts me and I’ve been helping her with this process for years I just don’t know what to do atp. I don’t hate her I’m not seeking revenge or being petty it just hurts to know that I’m blindly helping her still when she did me so dirty. I was dumb and still had sex and conversations with her after the fact and now that I just want to let go and forget about her idk what to do with this situation. Seeing and thinking about her hurts I have t been able to sleep for a few nights now. Location: Queens, New York

She F/23 cheated I M/25 found out after our immigration interview should I divorce her now or not jeopardize her immigration status even tho thinking about her hurts. Meaning I would wait for her to get what she needs and then continue the divorce process