r/LonelyTogether

[removed]

What's wrong wd people,and why do they ghost all of a sudden..I always try to keep up wd the Convo..and somehow everyone just leave 😭😭 that much level of gaslighting and rage baiting at once..I can't keep up wd all this😭

If life’s lately been disturbing you, feel free to talk about it. Recently, I too went through a very difficult situation and talking to strangers helped me a lot. If anyone wants to speak about something feel free to dm me.

Some people collect squishy. I collect unresolved thoughts at 12 AM and maybe squishy too soon hahaha.

Looking for someone who's a genuinely good listener, gives thoughtful advice, and doesn't disappear after three messages. I'm not looking for a therapist (pero pwede din) or anything romantic just a decent human who can have real conversations, call me out when I need it, and maybe help me untangle the mess in my head once in a while.

In return, I promise:

• I won't judge your random life stories.

• I reply with actual words, not just "damn" or "lol."

• I can offer advice when asked or simply listen if that's what you need.

Let's see if two strangers can accidentally become good friends like realllyyyy reallyyyy good friends pleaseeee I need kausap huhuh

Reposttttt

Looking for girls as friends to talk about anime,country music, horror movies and relationship stuff. (I’m straight not into girls that way)

Hi all! I’m 25f from the uk! I’m looking to make some friends who also have bpd (eupd) Some of my other friends do but I find the experience quite isolating sometimes so it would be nice to have more friends who know what it’s like and the daily struggles!

I’m into anime, dnd, video games, weightlifting and lots more! Feel free to add my discord also it’s @livthatsmyname 🥰🌻

Hello there. I have monophobia and OCD. I am also a hypochondriac.. and I know this can be a lot on my family and friends so I'm trying to seek external help where I can.... i need a companion or someone available 24/7 for me while I navigate this fear and take back my normal life... this could be temporary but we could also turn into friends...

Please someone reading this, you could really help me out. Let me know if you're interested or could help in any way by commenting on this post or messaging me. I am open to everyone.... however, if you try to sell me something or tell me to do something else not related to this then you are not welcome ❤️

My names Ty im from Texas but currently living in st.louis Missouri wich is a change of pace im a 33 year old single dad to 3 kids that are my absolute world im really just looking to make friends to talk to maybe chat with on discord I dont care what we talk about I'm just kinda lonely since my puppy dog cant talk back lol and I only see my kids on weekends

Looking for someone who has a compassionate ear and who is also good at giving advice. I have been struggling with dealing with the cards life has dealt me and I'm exhausted and alone. I really need help getting out of a cycle I've been in and am deeply lonely. Would love someone to talk to. Do not reply if you're a creepy guy with any intentions other than to talk and be helpful. Please don't reply if you are flakey, will listen to my story and then ghost. I need someone who will stick with me and not leave me hanging after I've shared what's going on.

Recently made the decision to separate. It’s been an ongoing thing for the last year at least. I was dealing with some betrayal and just can’t get past it.

I’m looking for someone to chat with.

In my thirties, female.

Don’t come at me with your 🍆

27f
Just somebody to check in with maybe once a day at least
I’m just lonely and want to build some connection somewhere

I’m 17F and I never had friends. As a kid people just bullied me and now the only people that I talk to sometimes is my brothers friend when he sometimes invites me to play games. Otherwise, there’s nobody and I talk to him like once in two months. I also had a girl who we were mutuals and then met irl, but she multiple times hinted that she finds herself better than me which I don’t tolerate.

I don’t know what’s wrong with me. If it’s me, or is it the way I do things? I usually say to myself I didn’t find anybody right to be friends with (or to date), but there’s always a feeling that it’s just me.

It’s not like I don’t have hobbies or passion. I truly do. But I still feel like the ugliest and most boring person due to the fact I don’t really have anybody.

I’m 14 and I live in the middle of nowhere. I go to online school. Not allowed on discord or any other contacting app. I feeling lonely really there’s nothing much I can do and I feel like I need someone to be with me. WTH SHOULD I DO?????

I just wanna vent about all the shit that happened and etc
I’m going home rn lol
Literally so much has happened lol
I’ve chatted w people here too but oooo that’s a different story
Just talks
Nothing else
I’ll be open and you can be as well lol
No judgement
Tell me your secrets hehe

I love video games, assassins creed and I love card games too.

Send me a DM

first of all thank you for clicking my post and reading it right now

Im 29F in South Korea, Im Korean

So about me, I used to be so ambitious towards life, worked hard for my career and was very interested in studying finance and economy, cared about my appearance and used to be very fit

(yes,all past-tense)

In 2023 I invested in wrong stocks took a risk, and made bad choices in trading too. So I ended up losing house that I owned that leaded me to had to move in to my parent's house

For 3 years I had severe depression- panic attacks that leaded to emergency rooms and developed bipolar disorder.

I stayed 3 years isolated at home, cut off all my contacts with people and friends. Even had no energy to shower properly

But last month I found right medication for my mental health at the hospital and I began working. Slowly. Even though its just a part time job. Monday Wednesday Friday

started to put makeup on.

(but barely)

I know society is shaming adults still living with their parents like me, but I am trying so damn hard to put me out there again

But I know what I want and what I crave now after those dark 3 years in my life.

I need someone just as anti-social person who barely goes outside, hate social interactions and even scared to make a post or comment on the internet. That kind of anti-social level

who lost interest living life and nothing make them happy or excited phase and barely existing.

Huge plus if you are :

No irl friends (1or 2 is fine)

Have severe depression

Living with your parents

Social anxiety

Not going outside or doing any outdoor activity

Scared of voice calls and video calls

Brutally honest and upfront

In self-loathing era

Like sending pictures and leaving voice notes

Cat lover

Willing to work even if its just a part time job

Don't text me if :

Extroverted, has tons of friends always having plans on weekends

If you didn't read my post (tell me your favorite anime title and color you absolutely hate to my dm)

Always wanting voicecalls

Always wanting videocalls

\[My goal in this friendship\]

I want to up-lift each other

I hope to hear from you, I know you are even so scared to write me dm, but please just tap on your keyboard on your screen and reach out to me.

Not feeling well 😔. I've been going through a lot this last year and I'm hoping to make some friends to help make the days go by easier. Hoping this post is okay I didn't put my age on the first one and it got removed 🫣my bad. Im looking for people to chat with about almost anything. Im interested in music,books,movies, history, and so much more. I hope everyone is having a good day full of joy.

I am 22 years old and also a therapist not licensed yet. I want to help out people and be present at their worst time. I am looking forward to making friends overseas as I am not from India but I will be travelling to India this month. If anyone wants to connect for a long time and meet also would love to be a good companion.

Hey everyone,
I’m going through a pretty weird period of my life right now and honestly, I don’t really know what to do.
A little over a year ago, I met a girl. We immediately knew we liked each other and got along really well. Everything was great for most of the relationship, until the last two months basically destroyed everything.
Out of nowhere, she started saying that she wanted a more “free” lifestyle — traveling around the world, going to clubs, music festivals, partying, etc. I’m pretty much the opposite. I’m more of a quiet person. I prefer going on trips, having dinner together, or just doing some kind of activity together.
I suspect she cheated on me, but I honestly never found out the truth. She just ended the relationship without really giving me a reason and then blocked me everywhere.
Before her, I was in a five-year relationship. Even though that relationship eventually stopped working and we broke up, I wasn’t devastated by it. I was sad for maybe two weeks and then I was basically back to normal and living my life.
This breakup has been completely different. I’m absolutely crushed. I have this feeling that I’m going to be alone forever.
I don’t really have a group of friends. I barely have any friends at all, and I don’t have a family either. After the breakup, even my work life started going to shit.
So here’s the actual problem.
I’m 26 years old and I live far away from where I grew up. I don’t have friends here, and basically every day I just play video games and rot at home because I have nothing else to do. Gaming is pretty much my main hobby.
I don’t necessarily need a big group of people around me. I have one or two friends from where I’m originally from, and we call each other every day just to talk, so I’m not completely isolated.
But how the hell do you find a partner when you basically never go anywhere?
And where are you even supposed to go when you don’t have any friends here?
I’m also not really interested in meeting some random girl in a club. That’s just not the kind of person I’m looking for.
I’ve tried dating apps like Tinder. Occasionally I match with someone I actually like, but then they’ll tell me that they like going out partying, clubbing, festivals, getting drunk, etc.
And honestly, it makes me feel sick sometimes because it immediately reminds me of my ex and what I suspect happened. It’s like I automatically start thinking that the same thing is going to happen again, and I don’t think I could handle going through that another time.
I’m honestly starting to feel pretty lost.
What would you do if you were in my position?
How would you actually meet someone if you’re 26, live somewhere without any friends, don’t really go out, and your main hobby is gaming?
I’d genuinely appreciate any advice, even if it’s harsh.