u/Disastrous_Cycle_267

I feel like this is the worst time of my life. I want to explain my situation to someone and get some reassurance.

I don’t want to put too many details out there, but basically, I am going to move with my kids. I am worried my ex is going to try and get custody when I move.

I am packing my house and it’s the most devastating thing I’ve done. Looking at all my kids stuff and packing it away to start over kills me. I feel like I failed them.

If you left and had kids, did you get custody? If so, how? I’m so worried they will give him custody because he is going to have the house and he next to the kids school. I will be moving (which he has known about and agreed to for the last year) and I suspect he is tricking me so I will move with them and he can turn on me and keep them.

My attorney said my best case to relocate is to just do it then file. He wants the house, a lot. I know that. Do you think he would choose the house over the kids if it came down to it?