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Everything is kinda hurting as I’m really uncertain with a certain situation I’m going through, is there someone I could potentially talk to?

Everything is kinda hurting as I’m really uncertain with a certain situation I’m going through, is there someone I could potentially talk to?

I reached out to a kinda ex on Sunday and he responded and im here waiting for a response over thinking everything. His initial response was absolutely not what I was expecting and im struggling to know if I have a chance with him or not

Hi, I’m going through something where I can’t find the courage to reach out to someone. We used to date (nothing bad happened, nothing toxic)… I just miss him a lot and I have a feeling now is the time to reach out but I’m struggling to find the courage to do so and could really use some help talking to someone if someone’s available

This is a shot in the dark but I’m looking for a couple specific reels and was wondering if there is a way to find them??

there hasn't been anything toxic or negative that happened between us, i was just a lil younger and had a bit more to accomplish in my career that we pulled back to friends. But i really regret that but im terrible at seeing where this (kinda) ex and i now stand, we are friends and i dont want to loose that but idk what to do. I guess i have a small circle of friends that i am scared to confide in as that would break my "nonchalant" persona, if there is anyone i could potentially talk to?

I’m flip flopping through a relationship-esque situation and would love someone to just kind of vent through with this situation. I am totally lost of what to do and I dont really have anyone close to me right now to confide to …

This friend is a mutual friend and he doesnt have many friends and he needed someone so i was there for him.

I had gone through a breakup (it wasnt anything toxic or anything) a while back and he kinda emotionally damaged me thinking the more hurt i was the more id take comfort in our relationship, which i did... This took place for months until the mutual had stepped in when they realized what was going on...

Im currently trying to heal from this but my anger is mixed with pain. I tried to back out of the friendship a few weeks ago but then he said that i was being immature and still punishing him over my own pain. I guess he had a point, i wanted out and it was because of my pain. It was his "birthweek" so i let it go. I let the original plans continue. But when i was sitting with him, celebrating i couldn't help think about how much pain im in.

I have told our mutual friend everything, shared our texts and this friend was shocked. He presents to the world as as someone innocent and good and idk maybe its the anger but i just want to do something beyond petty and share it all to the world.

How do I get rid of this anger?

How do I stop his words from repeating in my brain? (the ex (again hes not toxic at all, the situation with him wasnt bad at all) and i are talking currently and his words wont stop repeating in my brain about how worthless i am and that just keeps me in a crying-anger-paralyzed loop)

We never made it official and decided to not go further so that we can focus on our own growth and not end up hurting each other.

Only problem is that we met up a couple weeks back for dinner and to say it was amazing would have been an understatement. It felt easy, easier than it did before -- maybe because we are both in a better place in life. We spent 4 hours in that dinner and somehow it didn't feel enough....

what do i doooo

to preface -- neither of us are red flags or is this situation toxic

i met a sorta ex (we never were official because life got in the way as we are still young and growing) for dinner and it was kinda amazing. I loved how easy the convos flowed and how comfortable it still felt being with him. We ended up spending 4 hours at the dinner.

I wonder now did he feel something too?

Would a guy make a second first move? (for context he was the one who was like lets be friends before we end up hurting each other)

to preface -- neither of us are red flags or is this situation toxic

i met a sorta ex (we never were official because life got in the way as we are still young and growing) for dinner and it was kinda amazing. I loved how easy the convos flowed and how comfortable it still felt being with him. We ended up spending 4 hours at the dinner.

I wonder now did he feel something too?

Would a guy make a second first move? (for context he was the one who was like lets be friends before we end up hurting each other)

Hi, I'm (28F) going through this weird thing with an ex (I use the word broadly we were never official and no it did not end on bad terms at all) and part of me trying to focus on the positives and stay hopeful but all the fears are starting to take its toll.

We met up recently as friends and to say it was amazing would be an understatement…. Part of me just wants to confess everything but the other part of me knows it’s going to be a disaster…

I could use someone to potentially talk to kinda sort through my feelings about rekindling this

I know there’s a lot of it didn’t work out for a reason and avoid it like the plague but this is different and I’d appreciate not hearing those takes

Hi, I'm (28F) going through this weird thing with an ex and part of me trying to focus on the positives and stay hopeful but all the fears are starting to take its toll.

We met up recently as friends and to say it was amazing would be an understatement…. Part of me just wants to confess everything but the other part of me knows it’s going to be a disaster…

I could use someone to potentially talk to kinda sort through my feelings about rekindling this

Hi, I'm (28F) going through this weird thing with an ex and part of me trying to focus on the positives and stay hopeful but all the fears are starting to take its toll. I could use someone to potentially talk to kinda sort through my feelings. We met up recently and I just wanna confess all my feelings but my head is stopping me

Hi, I'm (28F) going through this weird thing with an ex and part of me trying to focus on the positives and stay hopeful but all the fears are starting to take its toll. I could use someone to potentially talk to kinda sort through my feelings. We met up recently and I just wanna confess all my feelings but my head is stopping me