r/AajMereSaathYeHua

I’m a 5’9” girl, and honestly, in my entire life, I’ve rarely met a guy who is taller than me. Maybe one or two, but unfortunately, those situations never worked out relationship-wise. 😂
Most of the guys I’ve dated or met have been shorter than me. Even my ex was shorter than me.
Because of that, I slowly started feeling guilty about wearing heels. I’d think, “Oh God, I’m already tall… should I really wear heels?” 😭
And my ex would make it worse. Whenever I wore heels, he’d ask, “Why are you wearing heels? You just want attention, right? You want to look smarter or something?”
And I’d actually start questioning myself. Like… Am I doing something wrong just because I want to wear heels?
I’ve even been involved in modelling, so heels and fashion are a normal part of my life. But somehow, I started feeling like I needed to make myself smaller just to make someone else feel comfortable.
Now I’m thinking—why should I?
If I’m 5’9” and want to wear 4-inch heels, then I guess I’m 6’1” that day. 😂👠
Tall girls, do you also get comments like this when you wear heels?

I’m a 5’9” girl, and honestly, in my entire life, I’ve rarely met a guy who is taller than me. Maybe one or two, but unfortunately, those situations never worked out relationship-wise. 😂
Most of the guys I’ve dated or met have been shorter than me. Even my ex was shorter than me.
Because of that, I slowly started feeling guilty about wearing heels. I’d think, “Oh God, I’m already tall… should I really wear heels?” 😭
And my ex would make it worse. Whenever I wore heels, he’d ask, “Why are you wearing heels? You just want attention, right? You want to look smarter or something?”
And I’d actually start questioning myself. Like… Am I doing something wrong just because I want to wear heels?
I’ve even been involved in modelling, so heels and fashion are a normal part of my life. But somehow, I started feeling like I needed to make myself smaller just to make someone else feel comfortable.
Now I’m thinking—why should I?
If I’m 5’9” and want to wear 4-inch heels, then I guess I’m 6’1” that day. 😂👠
Tall girls, do you also get comments like this when you wear heels?

My posts kept getting removed and then I started seeing warning comments, and I was genuinely confused and stressed like, “What am I even doing wrong?”

Living in a PG without proper food is harder than I ever imagined. It’s not just about the food—it’s about the feeling that comes with it. When you’re used to eating with your family or friends, laughing and talking over every meal, suddenly having to sit and eat alone feels different. Sometimes, you don’t miss the food as much as you miss the people you used to share it with. ❤️

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I met this guy in 2025, and I had zero plans of getting into a relationship. He used to share a ton of reels with me, and then one day, he proposed. I thought it was a joke, so I jokingly said yes!!! I mean, how can anyone fall in love in just one day?????

Eventually, things were going well at first, and he's honestly a good person, but then he turned out to be a Bhakt iykyk. Our ideologies didn't match at all, so we decided not to continue the relationship.

After that, we stayed in a sort of "friends" phase for about 2–3 months. I really wanted to move past this whole chapter, so I decided to cut off all contact with him to prevent any future drama 😭. Now he’s messaging me on WhatsApp and Telegram. What am I even supposed to say to him? I don't want to talk to him at all... on top of that, he's a narcissist ☠️ pata Hai Aaj Kya hua .

It’s been only 24 hours since I opened my Reddit account, and honestly, I’m just a girl who loves sharing her experiences, talking to people, and being social.
Back in 2019–2020, I started two or three YouTube channels. I would post videos, learn how to edit, make thumbnails, and figure everything out by myself. But somehow, after a month or two, something would happen and I would stop posting. The same thing happened with Instagram. I had a really good following and reached more than 5 million people, but because of my ex, I deleted all my social media.
Recently, one of my PG friends told me about Reddit. I thought, “Okay, maybe this is my time to start again.” So I decided to share my daily life, tell stories, express myself, and just post whatever I feel like sharing. I don’t want to overthink everything anymore. I genuinely enjoy connecting with people and sharing experiences.
But literally just now, my friend came into my room and told me, “You need to reply properly to people on Reddit. Don’t just reply with emojis because people might dislike it, and it can affect your karma.” 😂
And I was like… okay, NOW I understand! I’m still learning how Reddit works. 😭
I’ve tried different social media platforms before, and every time something happened that made me stop. But I don’t want to repeat that anymore. I’m hardworking, and I actually enjoy learning new things. Whenever I started something, I always learned along the way—editing, thumbnails, content creation, everything.
So if I make mistakes here, please understand that I’m learning. I’m just trying to connect with people, share my experiences, and create something positive.
I don’t know what the future of this account will be, but this time I really want to keep going. ❤️

I will be turning 25 soon and although I am working on being better, there is one aspect of life, where I haven't made any progress

Consider this a small rant before bed.

Its difficult to like someone, their flaws first, and then their good parts.

But it takes strength to like the person 'enough' you take the chance of falling for them

But if they don't like you back atleast with the same energy, things are destined to fall apart

It's all hit and trial at the end, sometimes even if everything feels right on paper, you are not in the mental state to even try to see if things can work out, you don't even shoot your shot, you just say, yeah she is fine and move on

Accepting that it has happened enough times, where the women you liked, were honest they didn't like you or didn't felt the feelings developing.

You accept growth as the only thing you should be focussing on. Not everyone is destined to get everything, but we all are destined to live our lives to our fullest.

All the best mates, live your best, every single day.

Smile and love yourself.

so talked with her just now , she is not over her ex , in noon she told me she is attached with kiss emojis and a few days back our chats were all lovely
ig i really am a rebound, i love her too but ab uski khushi me hi khush rehna thik , i have understood ki me sirf dil behla skta hu , me kisi ke dil me jagah nhi bana skta hu , i wish she knew her emotions affect me by alot , bc 3 saal se nhi roya tha but as soon as she texted ki she was crying , mere aansu nikal gye yrr 😭

ladka hu , emotions control krne ka experience na jaane kabse hai , i will keep things platonic from now on and i will end things the very next day of her exam, this fcking green flag loyalty of mine , jab tak she will be with me even as companion , me kisi dusri ldki ki taraf nhi dekh skta , it feels disgusting
usske aane ke baad se nazare niche rkhke chalta hu💔

wish i could tell her

"chaar din pehle tak toh mehaz ek ajnabee thi tum
Ab bhool kr bhi mt bhoolna , ki kitni zaruri ho tum"

i really am a loser dosto 🪦, so sorry everyone 🙏 , i really think flaws ab mujhme hi hai

with whom i talk alot on chat like flirtatious talks too , we are like a bit more than close friends , she shared her secrets and i shared mine too , we have been vulnerable too , like when she cries , i cried too cause imagining her crying makes my heart ache , she trying to overcome her breakup which happened 2 mnths ago and my break up was 5 yrs ago , idk if this is talking stage or smthg but at the same time i don't wanna force my feelings on her , like i have also thought of ending it at right time (after her exam) i help her in studies too , but ig its better to not to ruin this companionship , but i was listening to "from the start by laufey" and the cupid's arrow hit a bit too hard , that's why writing this post

Oh, how I wish you’ll wake up one day
Run to me confess your love
At least just let me say

That when I talk to you
Oh, cupid walks right through
And shoots an arrow through my heart
And I sound like a loon
But don’t you feel it, too?
Confess I loved you from the start

so sorry if any of my line hurt you 🫂🙏

I WILL PRESERVE THIS COMPANIONSHIP RATHER THAN RUINING IT🥀

kya lagta hai is janam me hai possible ye sab??????

Chatgpt getting too personal 😭😭🥀🥀😭😭

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