Her Boyfriend (22M) is so Toxic but she(22F) can't Leave
This is my friend's story and I need a Genuine Advice that what she should do coz we can't find an escape to it. She's 22F dating a 22M. They have been dating for the past 4 years but it's an On and Off Relationship...the only good time was the initial 6 months...They were Friends in the school time but they got into a Relationship when they moved out of their city for Competitive Exam Preparation.. initially it was Normal he gained her trust, took every information about her and her family but after some time She got to know that he was seeing her friend at the same time...They used to live in Different PG but he used to come in PG opposite to her's to meet that Side Chick...it was the first time she saw this side of him but she didn't confronted him (ik it's her fault)..then these things kept escalating and he was seeing multiple girls, was doing one night stands, hookups and all but she accepted that this is her fate and believed that even tho he's Sexually Involved with other people but he still loves her coz HE "ONLY" TOLD HIS SO CALLED PAST TO HER..he loves me and he'll realise one day and he'll come back and everything would get back normal...Once her boyfriend Slapped her coz some other guy proposed her (she rejected that guy obv) ...She accepted that also! And that's not the only time he slapped her.....okay so fast forward to when she got the admission but he didn't..he blamed her for that also...it became an LDR but it wasn't a relief...he used to send her his Videos and photos of him sexually involved with other girls....We are her college friends so we couldn't prevent that Raita jo already fel chuka tha ...Since 3 years we have been doing her counsellings and literally begging her to leave him but she blocks him for a month or 2 then again he contacts her from different numbers when he gets bored with other girls and talks with her like he's completely changed now he will marry her ...for 1 week it would seem great but after that he Abuses her, abuses her parents, her family, Blackmails her that he knows everything about her family and rest u know! ..he got a very strong political bagging so can't even complain about him in the Police or anywhere.
•He knows EVERYTHING about her and her Family
•He visits her home when she doesn't pick up his call or ignores or blocks him
•Her Parents doesn't like him at all and doesn't like him coming to their house
•He Got a Criminal Background also (But he's still out! "Strong Political Bagging"!!
•He blackmails her that if she doesn't stays with him he'll do something to her family and even her extended family (HE KNOWS WAY TOO MUCH ABOUT HER)
•He tells her if she'll marry someone else he'll come to her wedding and create a Scene and even K\*ll that person she's going to marry
•He Abuses her ALOT
•He's a typical Bade Ghar ki Bigdi hui aulaad and a Playboy
•Even tho they are in LDR he tells her that if she blocks him he'll come to our college and rest I hope u guys will understand!
•She's most worried about her Parents and her family coz she's a Single Child and Her parents are not medically Fit (that's why she can't even tell anything about this to anyone in her family)
•Her Father didn't Talked with her for 2 months when He got to know about their Friendship (just imagine what would happen if she got to know about her relationship)
We all friends know that it's completely her fault...she should have left him the first time he saw him with some other girl / he slapped her for the first time/ he blackmailed her for the first time etc etc but she never took stand for herself .....she's stuck in a Loophole and can't escape...we know it would have been easier if she left earlier but now we can't find any solution
PLEASE SUGGEST SOMETHING WHAT SHE SHOULD DO COZ WE CANT FIND ANYYY SOLUTION!!! WE NEED TO GET HER AND HER FAMILY OUT FROM THIS SITUATION SAFELY!
Can u please suggest something?? A way out??