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Men are the biggest liars !!

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we were in a relationship since 2 years and the 1 year before that we liked each other so basically its 3 years now so we had a fight and we often have fights because it's long distance so sometimes misunderstanding happens and all and i have childhood trauma so i am really sensitive so i get hurt by things so easily and when i am angry i don't think before speaking and said anything bad to him so he got angry and broke up with me and blocked me all of sudden jabki usne mujhse 1000 baar promise kiya tha ki woh kabhi mujhe chhod kar nahi jayega aur hamesha mere sath rahega he made me trust him he told me he'll marry me and always be with me he'll never leave me but still he did problem ko sahi kar sakte the woh mujhse baat karta bolta mujhe ache se ki agar aise hi me gussa karungi to he can leave me pehle se bolta to sahi ek baar ye kya baat hui ki aisa bolo ki me to sambhal sakta hu all your moods and hamesha sath reh sakta hu then leave agar jaana hi tha to promise kyu kiye karne hi nahi the na I have been crying since 4 days now my mental health has been shit and i am trying every possible way to contact him but woh maan hi nahi raha hai and i am attaching a screenshot of one day before the fight then a screenshot after i told his one friend to tell him to talk to me his more closer friends are against me and are telling him to not talk to me and idk what is their problem aur woh unki baat ko maan bhi raha hai
all these years we have put so much efforts into each other and this is all going to get wasted we have fixed so many problems sorted out so many things had so many good moments and days but still idk what's wrong with him
I have my neet exam next month and he fucked up my life and i am not fine now idk what to do i just want him to come back and talk to me
if he don't want to talk as a boyfriend but atleast as a friend
he have been lying to me from 3 fucking years ki woh hamesha mere sath rahega in the start of the relationship he used to tell me that use breakup matlab pata hi nahi hai ye koi option hota hi nahi hai

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Is CJP legit?

I mean, most of my friends started following it. But like isn't it kinda manipulating. Even I was manipulated before, when I saw them cleaning rivers and when they promoted 50% representation for women. But like i don't trust anyone who uses AI. Even though all political parties are garbage, at least their symbol is not ai generated.

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u/ohsochatpatiii — 1 day ago

Need an opinion (for the girlies) (kinda nsfw)

F19, So i have been a very disciplined, non distracted girl.
But a few days ago, my friends were home and made me watch corn
I obv knew about it from earlier but refrained from doing all those things

But from the time they showed it to me, I am again just getting pulled towards it and having weird thoughts etc.., plus cycle ki wajah se thodi h*/rny bhi ho Rahi

I absolutely know that all this is wrong and I shouldn’t be doing it, I just lose sense sometimes
Can anyone suggest effective things I can do to stop, I did try yoga/meditation but it only worked a little

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u/SpiritualGear1918 — 2 days ago

Why is my life turning into a romcom that'll end tragically

So, long story short

i like a classmate, but he's my friend's (she's also a classmate) cousin, so my friend and her mom thinks that my crush also thinks of me as a sister just because I'm his sister's friend. (they have said it during a past convo abt our safety, yeah 😵‍💫)

well he has also given me hints in the past but they all came to an end (?) when he started being best friends with this guy who has liked Me openly for a long time, he's like stepping back yk? because I'm his close friend's crush and also his sister's friend. And the thing that hurted me for real? well,

two weeks ago we were in a class and my crush was talking to another close friend of the guy who likes me. Then suddenly that guy pointed at me (couldn't hear what he said) and my crush said "mera kya lena dena usse? lena dena toh (name of the guy who likes me) ka hai, uski past history hai wo, usse connection hai" while laughing.

lmao well what do i even do now

also me and the guy who likes me, we're growing KINDA!close bc he keeps finding ways to talk so I'm kinda opening up (I'm an introvert)

But his friends? they ragebait me so bad and we have argued a few times 😭 I've had arguments w almost all of his friends

u/Present_Water7280 — 2 days ago

Iska kuch mtlb hai ya main jyada bade khwab dekh rahi hu 🤔

Flair samaj nahi aaya
Maine apne online purush mitra ko bola ki vo mere baare me gaana lagaye. Usne pehele to majak me Enemy and Insane gaana lagaya.
Par fir aaj usne Just The Way You Are by Milky lagaya
Ye wala part

Do-do-do, do-do, do-do, do (and it goes)

The way you walk, the way you understand me
The way you move, the way you just whisper me
The way you touch, the way you used to kiss me
I want you just, just the way you are

Do-do-do, do-do, do-do, do

Iska kuch mtlb hai ya main jyada bade khwab dekh rahi hu 😭

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u/Fast-Guidance149 — 2 days ago

Was feeling low in class so wrote this

The blood feels so good

so pretty, so gorgeous

to look at.

I don't wanna leave it behind

But I'm...

Ain't I?

The blood feels so divine

that it hurts to look at it.

Having it in my body

gives me warmth.

But people love flawless body

and I don't have one.

Mine is full of scars left behind

by every war of survival.

Elegantly, I carved out these

with the sharp edges of stars.

And now, I'm proposing stars to marry me

and I swear to never let go no matter what happens.

Consume me.

Claim me.

Mark me forever as yours.

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u/HistoricalHabit2396 — 2 days ago
▲ 19 r/TeenHerIndia+1 crossposts

This will be a fun gc ✨ anyone can join also your account should be 1-2 months old with 30+ karna (just to avoid creeps)

Edit- a reddit gc not tele

u/thereservedbonita — 3 days ago

Any alternatives for littlebox ?

I really like Littlebox's collection-it matches my vibe more than newme . Don't wanna go for savana due to their delivery.

But , there are soo many mixed review about littlebox (mostly negative) so I don't wanna take the risk .

So if anyone know any trusted websites or something with the similar collection pls leme know !

Thanks 💕

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u/Pixieee__ — 2 days ago

What to do what tf is this situation 😭

Posted this on teenindia posting here to get better insights.

u/AshyMist_ — 3 days ago

How dumb can a person be?

No seriously, how dumb can a person be?

Three days.

That’s all it took.

Three days for my heart to start recognizing someone’s notifications like they were sunlight slipping through a locked room. Three days to start rereading messages, analyzing tones, waiting a little too eagerly for replies. Haven't even seen him irl. Never experienced any kind of love till date. Ppl have always treated me like I'm something disposable.

And then I ruined it by speaking.

Maybe silence would've let me keep the illusion a little longer. Maybe if I had just stayed “a friend,” I could’ve kept those tiny moments without turning them into something heavier.

It’s funny how the human brain works.
Give a lonely person a little warmth and watch them build a home out of it.

I keep asking myself:
How embarrassing do you have to be to fall this fast?
How deprived do you have to be for kindness to feel like destiny?

The worst part is he wasn’t even cruel.
Cruelty would’ve been easier to hate.

Instead, he was gentle.
And somehow that hurts more.

Idk how to deal with ts. Why am I like this? I was never supposed to fall in love. I knew no one's ever gonna love me back cuz of how ugly and dumb I am. Why did I spend the whole night crying over him? How bad does life get before it starts getting a lil better?

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u/Silent_Most6333 — 3 days ago

New gc

This GC is for boys and girls both

Old ones are dead, starting over. No theme, no niche just people who actually talk.

Drop a comment if you're interested. I'll check your profile, if the vibe's there you're in.

Only rule no harassment, that's it.

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u/Lazy_Engineering_949 — 4 days ago

Maybe I am the problem

we were together for total 5 months. in a relationship for 3 months.and broke up around a week ago. I got physically sick & was anxious all the time but today I finally got closure.

Maybe I am the problem. Maybe I am too much & too conservative.

He is someone who watches arpit bala, dank rishu & all that stuff. yk avg teen guy in India rn. But he was always respectful towards me. Still I used to tell him if I ever saw a galeech comment by him on any post. He is someone who never hesitated to express anything but I am not like that. I do hesitate. I slowly made peace with it thinking he is my boyfriend after all, he can say such things coz he loves me.

I am not someone who likes even light sexting but when he said slightly suggestive things, I used to think "He is my boyfriend after all". And tbh he stopped when I told him I was uncomfortable but his energy felt low after that.

Before our fight, one day he told me that he is hard & I was fabbled by it. I said what am I supposed to do with that info broooo?

And he said he felt unwanted. I said it's not like I don't want him but it's just been 3 months into the relationship and we are in long distance anyways. it just startled me a bit. He was sad after that. But we talked more and he said "Did you make a boyfriend without knowing he has a dic*?". I felt really uncomfy in the moment & even cried coz he got frustrated.

Am I wrong here? Did I ruin everything?

u/Technical_Event1244 — 4 days ago

Having sucidial thoughts..Panicking over old internet group chat interactions from 10 months ago—am I overthinking?.

Hi everyone. About 10 months ago (late 2024), during a lonely phase in school, I joined an online group chat through an author's account. I ended up talking to a few guys from different states. I only found out later on that they were older than me and came from poor, shady backgrounds. Because I wanted to help them improve their lives, I took on a sisterly/mentor role—giving them advice on studies, finances, and pushing them to leave bad habits behind. I also got stuck in the middle of their messy relationship dramas.

​Because I trusted them like family at the time, I overshared. I sent personal daily vlogs, photos, general hints about my school/city, and openly discussed normal health topics like my periods.

​Eventually, I realized they were untrustworthy, caught up in bad environments, and just using me for their own egos. I cut all ties and stopped talking to them 10 months ago.

​Recently, due to severe anxiety, I panicked that they might still have screenshots of those old chats/vlogs and could somehow use them to trace me or harm my family. To protect myself, I recently requested the permanent deletion of my account, and it is now officially disabled on the servers. There has been zero contact or conflict for nearly a year.

​Am I in any actual danger of being tracked down or targeted from things shared 10 months ago, or is this just my anxiety taking over? Any rational perspective would help. Thanks.

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u/Wonderful_cherry123 — 4 days ago

Helppp

Guys so my periods have been very irregularrr since a few months idk what is wrong last time I checked my thyroid was normal and there's no noticeable symptoms of pcos or anything like that I do mild exercise too everyday my diet isn't very optimal but its okay so idk what is wrong help meee😭

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u/Single_Material_4501 — 5 days ago