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We had a really good relationship, almost matched everything. But then something happened, he was stressed and didn't want to continue the relationship. I begged him to stay, asked him again and again to give me a chance but he walked away.

He was my first love, I was devastated & became miserable when he abandoned me on a random day. Couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, vomited every morning, limbs felt lifeless, no study sessions, randomly cried, felt cold sensations all over my body for weeks, cuddled my mom every night at the grown ass age of 19 while she thought someone was doing black magic or smth to make me act that way.

Then I went for a trip, made new friends who helped me smile again, started reading books I left halfway, did random diys for hours to keep myself busy, started studying.

3 months later, he texted me. Apologizing. saying he made a mistake. That he understands my value now. he was a coward before and wishes he was a better person & acted differently.

I forgave him. Told him not to be guilty. 3 months ago, I'd have run to him if he said the same things about missing me whenever he saw smth, a song, a reel, a person, a thing I made him buy. But last night, all I remembered was my miserable self. How hard I have worked to be where I am today. and I can't afford to go through the same misery ever again. I hope I did the right thing.

I hope he heals, finds peace and loves someone else differently, not with cowardice. wishing him a bright future & a great love life ahead. Peace🌻

Soooo, recently I've been feeling EXTRAAA grateful to have friends in my life.

The other day I woke up with many "Happy friendship dayyyy" messages nd I was on the 9th cloud. ​​

I was at my lowest but now feel really loved, supported and.... roasted ig.

It's just an appreciation post.

Thanks to reddit for introducing me to such sweethearts😋🤙

Abhijeet dipke is taking up on the hunger strike now.

Idc which party you support or how much you hate CJP, you have to agree the education system of India is shitty. we need reforms. We need to remove pradhan. Even if you can't join the protest, speak about it, write about it, discuss about it. Make your parents aware of the actual facts & not the whatsApp forwards.

Here

Here's the summary of THE HINDU article written by Geetanjali Angmo (sonam wangchuk's wife), you can read this as well & form your own views.

This girl single-handedly destroyed the chance to represent Feminism on such a huge platform.

Being a man hater is not cool. And women of our gen need to understand that misandry = misogyny. Both are equally bad.

This girl had one bad experience & decided to shit on the whole gender.

Being from Bihar & mocking your own people isn't gonna change your birthplace.

Grammar ki alag se Gaan maari hai & she is a teacher. Tabhi Bihar itna peechhe hai.

They said the truth, she has done men a huge favor. People are gonna support them more.

The way she was using internet slangs like, Daru peekar pati ko peetungi, life me thoda red flag/toxicity honi chahiye & i want a joru ka gulam. I'M CRINEEE SONNNN. Had a stroke watching that part.

I posted some stories regarding sonam wangchuk's hunger strike & included Rajiv Talwar's video where he was cussing out people who are still licking the boots of current gov.

One of my friends replied to that story saying, yeah man thanks for the cuss words, back to you blah blah. I said, Dude I didn't even say anything to you directly. Udta teer gaan me lene ki konsi chull hai.

And then he started putting his points & these are his words:-

" bro (sonam sir) chose the wrong people to protest with. kuchh nahi waha natak-mujra chal raha. Kuchh students ke liye nahi kar rahe. Waha sab Muslims ka gaana gaa rahe hai, hum hindu kya kare. umar khalid jaise terr0-rist ko support kar rahe hai, arundhati roy jaise anti national ko bula rahe hai. I don't support such a strike"

They continued "How is he so fit after being hungry for 18 days. The gov is not wrong. About paper leak, you should blame the students who brought the papers instead of blaming the gov. the education minister didn't tell them to leak it😭. Roads are broken coz we don't have civic sense, gov ki kya galti. The gov isn't wrong about the ethanol blending either. come to my state, we have developed so much since BJP came into power, Biharis donno anything."

These are the people who raise their voice only when its useful for them. Faiz ahmed faiz sahab ka sher yaad aata hai,

"मैं आज ज़द पे अगर हूँ तो ख़ुश-गुमान न हो

चराग़ सब के बुझेंगे, हवा किसी की नहीं"

Talking to such people fumes me up, like bruh how are you so dumb that you don't even wanna question the gov. I am someone who cares a lot about these things & can't be with people who say "hume kya farq padta hai, humara kya jaa raha".

Advices for me are heartily welcome coz ig I should stop talking to such people but is breaking years of friendship over politics worth it?