29 M | Hyderabad | Looking for someone to marry and Settle together 1 + 1 = 11

1+1 = 11, Standing together without breaking our Individualism.Don't want to get yourself or me overshadowed with what we are till now. Either it's friends, belives, likes and dislikes. And whatever you have planned in your life.

Usually it's called 1+1=2, Where both are considered to be one which is not fair.

👤 Personal Details

• Year of Birth & Gender: 1997, Male.

• Height & BMI: 5'8" / 65 Kgs

• Current Residence: Hyderabad

• Hometown: Hyderabad

• Nationality: India

• Citizenship Status: India.

💼 Career

• Employment Status : Self employed - Own a design studio, building it from scratch, I also teach in a college, as visiting

• Profession : Architural Designer ( Interior designer )

• Earnings : 10 LPA, Planning to expand over years so there would be growth as years pass

🎓 Education

• Qualification : UG / Bachelor's in design

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Background

• Immediate Family Members: 4

• No. of Siblings: 1

• Marital Status of Siblings: Unmarried - Younger Brother

• Caste : BC - D

• Languages Known : Telugu, Hindi, English, Sign language

• Gothram : Paspuneti

• Menamama Gothram (if applicable): Don't know

• Religious Orientation: Hindu

• Diet: Non-Veg

• Smoking: No

• Drinking: No - Stoped, used to drink rarely

• Kids After Marriage: No, Will discuss this together

• Marital Status: Never married

🌟 Partner Preferences

• Age Range: 24 - 28 / 29

• Height Range: Upto 5'7

• Preferred Residence / Region / Country: Telangana, Andhrapradesh, India

• Career Preference : Any graduation, Will be great if you can be part of present business or future Ventures I am planning.

• Caste : BC - D

• Language Preference: Open to others

• Religious Orientation: Same as mine - Hindu

• Smoking & Drinking Preference: Preferred No

• Marital Status Preference: Never married preferred

📝 Self Introduction

I am an easy going Human, Love nature, Grounded lifestyle. Observing surroundings, staying humble, living ones own life without getting effected by others views on our life.

I belive we have 1/1 life and living it to our best, and having as many as memories is important then what we have achieved as per society.

Hobbies: I love cooking, sunset and sunrise watching, Vivid traveller and partially extrovert.

💡 Minimum Expectations From Partner

A calm nature girl, Someone who has grown up in humble family, knowing how middle-class family runs and how one can manage tough times together with me. Either in person or family situations.

📍 End Notes

I am hoping to start a new and separate life with partner, rather staying with parents - So this may lead to everything fresh whatsoever my parents have earned for me.

Thought they are humble, respectful and will definitely love you equally as me.

Looking for someone who is up in considering marriage not as old school, Must be accountable and communicative, Loyalty is most important.

I am considering we taking care of both of our families together, Your and mine.

Always wanted to be a single woman men, never dated or been in relationship. So expecting this to be one and only, never thinking about divorce or parting away.

Dm only if you are serious, and Please re read ones.

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u/iamlostincity — 8 hours ago

29 M | Hyderabad | Looking for someone to marry and Settle together 1 + 1 = 11

1+1 = 11, Standing together without breaking our Individualism.Don't want to get yourself or me overshadowed with what we are till now. Either it's friends, belives, likes and dislikes. And whatever you have planned in your life.

Usually it's called 1+1=2, Where both are considered to be one which is not fair.

👤 Personal Details

• Year of Birth & Gender: 1997, Male.

• Height & BMI: 5'8" / 65 Kgs

• Current Residence: Hyderabad

• Hometown: Hyderabad

• Nationality: India

• Citizenship Status: India.

💼 Career

• Employment Status : Self employed - Own a design studio, building it from scratch, I also teach in a college, as visiting

• Profession : Architural Designer ( Interior designer )

• Earnings : 10 LPA, Planning to expand over years so there would be growth as years pass

🎓 Education

• Qualification : UG / Bachelor's in design

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Background

• Immediate Family Members: 4

• No. of Siblings: 1

• Marital Status of Siblings: Unmarried - Younger Brother

• Caste : BC - D

• Languages Known : Telugu, Hindi, English, Sign language

• Gothram : Paspuneti

• Menamama Gothram (if applicable): Don't know

• Religious Orientation: Hindu

• Diet: Non-Veg

• Smoking: No

• Drinking: No - Stoped, used to drink rarely

• Kids After Marriage: No

• Marital Status: Never married

🌟 Partner Preferences

• Age Range: 24 - 28 / 29

• Height Range: Upto 5'7

• Preferred Residence / Region / Country: Telangana, Andhrapradesh, India

• Career Preference : Any graduation, Will be great if you can be part of present business or future Ventures I am planning.

• Caste : BC - D

• Language Preference: Open to others

• Religious Orientation: Same as mine - Hindu

• Smoking & Drinking Preference: Preferred No

• Marital Status Preference: Never married preferred

📝 Self Introduction

I am an easy going Human, Love nature, Grounded lifestyle. Observing surroundings, staying humble, living ones own life without getting effected by others views on our life.

I belive we have 1/1 life and living it to our best, and having as many as memories is important then what we have achieved as per society.

Hobbies: I love cooking, sunset and sunrise watching, Vivid traveller and partially extrovert.

💡 Minimum Expectations From Partner

A calm nature girl, Someone who has grown up in humble family, knowing how middle-class family runs and how one can manage tough times together with me. Either in person or family situations.

📍 End Notes

I am hoping to start a new and separate life with partner, rather staying with parents - So this may lead to everything fresh whatsoever my parents have earned for me.

Thought they are humble, respectful and will definitely love you equally as me.

Looking for someone who is up in considering marriage not as old school, Must be accountable and communicative, Loyalty is most important.

I am considering we taking care of both of our families together, Your and mine.

Always wanted to be a single woman men, never dated or been in relationship. So expecting this to be one and only, never thinking about divorce or parting away.

Dm only if you are serious, and Please re read ones.

This was my previous post. https://www.reddit.com/r/ChildfreeIndia/s/LMScKplC3W

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u/iamlostincity — 1 day ago

29 M | Hyderabad | Looking for someone to marry and Settle together 1 + 1 = 11

1+1 = 11, Standing together without breaking our Individualism.Don't want to get yourself or me overshadowed with what we are till now. Either it's friends, belives, likes and dislikes. And whatever you have planned in your life.

Usually it's called 1+1=2, Where both are considered to be one which is not fair.

👤 Personal Details

• Year of Birth & Gender: 1997, Male.

• Height & BMI: 5'8" / 65 Kgs

• Current Residence: Hyderabad

• Hometown: Hyderabad

• Nationality: India

• Citizenship Status: India.

💼 Career

• Employment Status : Self employed - Own a design studio, building it from scratch, I also teach in a college, as visiting

• Profession : Architural Designer ( Interior designer )

• Earnings : 10 LPA, Planning to expand over years so there would be growth as years pass

🎓 Education

• Qualification : UG / Bachelor's in design

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Background

• Immediate Family Members: 4

• No. of Siblings: 1

• Marital Status of Siblings: Unmarried - Younger Brother

• Caste : BC - D

• Languages Known : Telugu, Hindi, English, Sign language

• Gothram : Paspuneti

• Menamama Gothram (if applicable): Don't know

• Religious Orientation: Hindu

• Diet: Non-Veg

• Smoking: No

• Drinking: No - Stoped, used to drink rarely

• Kids After Marriage: No, Will discuss this together

• Marital Status: Never married

🌟 Partner Preferences

• Age Range: 24 - 28 / 29

• Height Range: Upto 5'7

• Preferred Residence / Region / Country: Telangana, Andhrapradesh, India

• Career Preference : Any graduation, Will be great if you can be part of present business or future Ventures I am planning.

• Caste : BC - D

• Language Preference: Open to others

• Religious Orientation: Same as mine - Hindu

• Smoking & Drinking Preference: Preferred No

• Marital Status Preference: Never married preferred

📝 Self Introduction

I am an easy going Human, Love nature, Grounded lifestyle. Observing surroundings, staying humble, living ones own life without getting effected by others views on our life.

I belive we have 1/1 life and living it to our best, and having as many as memories is important then what we have achieved as per society.

Hobbies: I love cooking, sunset and sunrise watching, Vivid traveller and partially extrovert.

💡 Minimum Expectations From Partner

A calm nature girl, Someone who has grown up in humble family, knowing how middle-class family runs and how one can manage tough times together with me. Either in person or family situations.

📍 End Notes

I am hoping to start a new and separate life with partner, rather staying with parents - So this may lead to everything fresh whatsoever my parents have earned for me.

Thought they are humble, respectful and will definitely love you equally as me.

Looking for someone who is up in considering marriage not as old school, Must be accountable and communicative, Loyalty is most important.

I am considering we taking care of both of our families together, Your and mine.

Always wanted to be a single woman men, never dated or been in relationship. So expecting this to be one and only, never thinking about divorce or parting away.

Dm only if you are serious, and Please re read ones.

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u/iamlostincity — 4 days ago

29 M | Hyderabad | Looking for someone to marry and Settle together 1 + 1 = 11

1+1 = 11, Standing together without breaking our Individualism.Don't want to get yourself or me overshadowed with what we are till now. Either it's friends, belives, likes and dislikes. And whatever you have planned in your life.

Usually it's called 1+1=2, Where both are considered to be one which is not fair.

👤 Personal Details

• Year of Birth & Gender: 1997, Male.

• Height & BMI: 5'8" / 65 Kgs

• Current Residence: Hyderabad

• Hometown: Hyderabad

• Nationality: India

• Citizenship Status: India.

💼 Career

• Employment Status : Self employed - Own a design studio, building it from scratch, I also teach in a college, as visiting

• Profession : Architural Designer ( Interior designer )

• Earnings : 10 LPA, Planning to expand over years so there would be growth as years pass

🎓 Education

• Qualification : UG / Bachelor's in design

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Background

• Immediate Family Members: 4

• No. of Siblings: 1

• Marital Status of Siblings: Unmarried - Younger Brother

• Caste : BC - D

• Languages Known : Telugu, Hindi, English, Sign language

• Gothram : Paspuneti

• Menamama Gothram (if applicable): Don't know

• Religious Orientation: Hindu

• Diet: Non-Veg

• Smoking: No

• Drinking: No - Stoped, used to drink rarely

• Kids After Marriage: No, Will discuss this together

• Marital Status: Never married

🌟 Partner Preferences

• Age Range: 24 - 28 / 29

• Height Range: Upto 5'7

• Preferred Residence / Region / Country: Telangana, Andhrapradesh, India

• Career Preference : Any graduation, Will be great if you can be part of present business or future Ventures I am planning.

• Caste : BC - D

• Language Preference: Open to others

• Religious Orientation: Same as mine - Hindu

• Smoking & Drinking Preference: Preferred No

• Marital Status Preference: Never married preferred

📝 Self Introduction

I am an easy going Human, Love nature, Grounded lifestyle. Observing surroundings, staying humble, living ones own life without getting effected by others views on our life.

I belive we have 1/1 life and living it to our best, and having as many as memories is important then what we have achieved as per society.

Hobbies: I love cooking, sunset and sunrise watching, Vivid traveller and partially extrovert.

💡 Minimum Expectations From Partner

A calm nature girl, Someone who has grown up in humble family, knowing how middle-class family runs and how one can manage tough times together with me. Either in person or family situations.

📍 End Notes

I am hoping to start a new and separate life with partner, rather staying with parents - So this may lead to everything fresh whatsoever my parents have earned for me.

Thought they are humble, respectful and will definitely love you equally as me.

Looking for someone who is up in considering marriage not as old school, Must be accountable and communicative, Loyalty is most important.

I am considering we taking care of both of our families together, Your and mine.

Always wanted to be a single woman men, never dated or been in relationship. So expecting this to be one and only, never thinking about divorce or parting away.

Dm only if you are serious, and Please re read ones.

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u/iamlostincity — 4 days ago

29 M | Hyderabad | Looking for someone to marry and Settle together 1 + 1 = 11

1+1 = 11, Standing together without breaking our Individualism. Don't want to get yourself or me overshadowed with what we are till now. Either it's friends, belives, likes and dislikes. And whatever you have planned in your life.

Usually it's called 1+1=2, Where both are considered to be one which is not fair.

👤 Personal Details

• Year of Birth & Gender: 1997, Male.

• Height & BMI: 5'8" / 65 Kgs

• Current Residence: Hyderabad

• Hometown: Hyderabad

• Nationality: India

• Citizenship Status: India.

💼 Career

• Employment Status : Self employed - Own a design studio, building it from scratch, I also teach in a college, as visiting

• Profession : Architural Designer ( Interior designer )

• Earnings : 10 LPA, Planning to expand over years so there would be growth as years pass

🎓 Education

• Qualification : UG / Bachelor's in design

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Background

• Immediate Family Members: 4

• No. of Siblings: 1

• Marital Status of Siblings: Unmarried - Younger Brother

• Caste : BC - D

• Languages Known : Telugu, Hindi, English, Sign language

• Gothram : Paspuneti

• Menamama Gothram (if applicable): Don't know

• Religious Orientation: Hindu

• Diet: Non-Veg

• Smoking: No

• Drinking: No - Stoped, used to drink rarely

• Kids After Marriage: No, Will discuss this together

• Marital Status: Never married

🌟 Partner Preferences

• Age Range: 24 - 28 / 29

• Height Range: Upto 5'7

• Preferred Residence / Region / Country: Telangana, Andhrapradesh, India

• Career Preference : Any graduation, Will be great if you can be part of present business or future Ventures I am planning.

• Caste : BC - D

• Language Preference: Open to others

• Religious Orientation: Same as mine - Hindu

• Smoking & Drinking Preference: Preferred No

• Marital Status Preference: Never married preferred

📝 Self Introduction

I am an easy going Human, Love nature, Grounded lifestyle. Observing surroundings, staying humble, living ones own life without getting effected by others views on our life.

I belive we have 1/1 life and living it to our best, and having as many as memories is important then what we have achieved as per society.

Hobbies: I love cooking, sunset and sunrise watching, Vivid traveller and partially extrovert.

💡 Minimum Expectations From Partner

A calm nature girl, Someone who has grown up in humble family, knowing how middle-class family runs and how one can manage tough times together with me. Either in person or family situations.

📍 End Notes

I am hoping to start a new and separate life with partner, rather staying with parents - So this may lead to everything fresh whatsoever my parents have earned for me.

Thought they are humble, respectful and will definitely love you equally as me.

Looking for someone who is up in considering marriage not as old school, Must be accountable and communicative, Loyalty is most important.

I am considering we taking care of both of our families together, Your and mine.

Always wanted to be a single woman men, never dated or been in relationship. So expecting this to be one and only, never thinking about divorce or parting away.

Dm only if you are serious, and Please re read ones.

Do checkout this too - https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/hCCP0lSehR

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u/iamlostincity — 4 days ago

29 M | Hyderabad | Looking for someone to marry and Settle together 1 + 1 = 11 from telugu states.

1+1 = 11, Standing together without breaking our individuialism. Don't want to get yourself or me overshadowed with what we are till now. Either it's friends, belives, likes and dislikes. And whatever you have planned in your life.

Usually it's called 1+1=2, Where both are considered to be one which is not fair.

Used Pinned Bio data templet.

👤 Personal Details

• Year of Birth & Gender: 1997, Male.

• Height & BMI: 5'8" / 65 Kgs

• Current Residence: Hyderabad

• Hometown: Hyderabad

• Nationality: India

• Citizenship Status: India.

💼 Career

• Employment Status : Self employed - Own a design studio, building it from scratch, I also teach in a college, as visiting

• Profession : Architural Designer ( Interior designer )

• Earnings : 10 LPA, Planning to expand over years so there would be growth as years pass

🎓 Education

• Qualification : UG / Bachelor's in design

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Background

• Immediate Family Members: 4

• No. of Siblings: 1

• Marital Status of Siblings: Unmarried - Younger Brother

• Caste : BC - D

• Languages Known : Telugu, Hindi, English, Sign language

• Gothram : Paspuneti

• Menamama Gothram (if applicable): Don't know

• Religious Orientation: Hindu

• Diet: Non-Veg

• Smoking: No

• Drinking: No - Stoped, used to drink rarely

• Kids After Marriage: No, Will discuss this together

• Marital Status: Never married

🌟 Partner Preferences

• Age Range: 24 - 28 / 29

• Height Range: Upto 5'7

• Preferred Residence / Region / Country: Telangana, Andhrapradesh, India

• Career Preference : Any graduation, Will be great if you can be part of present business or future Ventures I am planning.

• Caste : BC - D

• Language Preference: Open to others

• Religious Orientation: Same as mine - Hindu

• Smoking & Drinking Preference: Preferred No

• Marital Status Preference: Never married preferred

📝 Self Introduction

I am an easy going Human, Love nature, Grounded lifestyle. Observing surroundings, staying humble, living ones own life without getting effected by others views on our life.

I belive we have 1/1 life and living it to our best, and having as many as memories is important then what we have achieved as per society.

Hobbies: I love cooking, sunset and sunrise watching, Vivid traveller and partially extrovert.

💡 Minimum Expectations From Partner

A calm nature girl, Someone who has grown up in humble family, knowing how middle-class family runs and how one can manage tough times together with me. Either in person or family situations.

📍 End Notes

I am hoping to start a new and separate life with partner, rather staying with parents - So this may lead to everything fresh whatsoever my parents have earned for me.

Thought they are humble, respectful and will definitely love you equally as me.

Looking for someone who is up in considering marriage not as old school, Must be accountable and communicative, Loyalty is most important.

I am considering we taking care of both of our families together, Your and mine.

Always wanted to be a single woman men, never dated or been in relationship. So expecting this to be one and only, never thinking about divorce or parting away.

Dm only if you are serious, and Please re read ones.

Do checkout this too - https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/hCCP0lSehR

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u/iamlostincity — 4 days ago

29 M wanted to know myself with someone beside me 😅

Hey, 29 M here from Hyderabad

Never been in relationship, or dated someone seriously.

I did miss a companion, Loveable person.

I did miss a support or shoulder to lean on, I did miss warmth over the years

Not sure if it's a good idea or bad, looking for someone as a teen just like how I feel for someone nearly 10 hear back.

Here I am

I love to spend time talking, listing, sharing adulthood problems and finding solutions to them ( I am good at it ), cooking food for both, watching Sunset or sunrise in real-world.

I may sound cinematic, unfortunately it's me as a Pisces 🐟, commited, loyal, respectful and romantic ( Feeling shy ) haha.

Looking forward to meet someone, who is comfortable knowing and sharing live with patience, Giving time, being genuine and serious about relationship ( Whatever we name it )

As of now, lets meet as strangers turn it into friendship and take it further as we see eachother.

Who knows we may find lifelong friend in each of ous.

Hopefully 🤞🏽

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u/iamlostincity — 7 days ago

My first wisdom teet ( L ) is about to pop up. How was your experience.

I wanted to overcome the pain and let it pop naturally out, not sure if I am doing it right or wrong.

I feel it's part of my body and wanted it, Heard most of them remove it due to pain.

Now I can see why they do it, The pain has just started slowly I can feel the jaw line having conversation with Brian damm this observation is beautiful and I am curious.

How was it for you, What all did you do to make life easier.

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u/iamlostincity — 7 days ago

My first wisdom teet ( L ) is about to pop up. How was your experience.

I wanted to overcome the pain and let it pop naturally out, not sure if I am doing it right or wrong.

I feel it's part of my body and wanted it, Heard most of them remove it due to pain.

Now I can see why they do it, The pain has just started slowly I can feel the jaw line having conversation with Brian damm this observation is beautiful and I am curious.

How was it for you, What all did you do to make life easier.

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u/iamlostincity — 7 days ago

Scrambled eggs + Roasted nuts 🥜

Ala light dinner

Lunch lo rice, samosa, Sprite, chai, boiled corn and ragi luddu, heavy aipoindhi

u/iamlostincity — 9 days ago

construction work at 11 Pm , seems to be a whole night trauma. Police just ghosted my complaint in WhatsApp.

I understand there will be no heavy vehicle movement in the daytime, atleast they should give notice to neighbours, or plan it before 10 Pm so something or early morning.

Looks this this is just a start, demolition phase next 6-9 months it's going to be a hide and seek with micro dust.

u/iamlostincity — 10 days ago

29 M, AM Process is started by parent's and mom is not comfortable me expressing my CF decision beforehand itself WTF 😒

I am lost in my life as every other soul out there, personally i believe i should eventually look for one myself and get settled.

As usual there was lot of drama from last few years and finally this 29 th birthday, Situation was getting out of hand from close family and relatives regarding marriage.

Understanding my POV I have asked them to start there process with couple of non negotiable life decisions of mine. Like willing to travel whole India or would by taking break, Me doing masters in late 30's or mid 40's etc.

One of the most important decision i expressed with my mom and family that I am CF and this is serious.

My mom being a woman, asking me to not say this. Which eventually lead to not getting a match as per her views, and asking me to decide with future partner after knowing her and our financial independence after 3 years.

I was mad at it and expressed saying, I will take about this in the first meeting itself and asked them to express this as no. 1 pinter. No i don't believe them in this topic

How did you deal with one? I am kinda not sure if I will find a CF partner in AM yet my decision is final about CF so want to get filtered by this without wasting my time and opposite persons time.

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u/iamlostincity — 10 days ago

Men Beware of honey traps 🪤 here

I have posted couple of posts - will share here for reference.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Hyd_DaTinG/s/BccyZ8NguW

https://www.reddit.com/r/Hyd_DaTinG/s/xEVArZkVGB

Did get a chance to connect with few genuine people. Other hand i have experienced couple of honey traps " Female accounts by men, and few female itself I guess.

One of the recent insident was yesterday night by account r/swethareddy12.

Don't waste your time in doing such stuff, I was that my previous experience made me realise what I am dealing with

Rest be careful, everyone.

Now, I am doubtful about this platform too.

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u/iamlostincity — 11 days ago

29 M Looking for good vibes only human

No idea what's going in dating life, Just curious to meet people who are same like me sharing good vibes. Supportive, progressive and leading a hustler life.

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We can connect, talk, share food, talk about life, money, investing, growth, travel, humans

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I believe human connection is indeed to balance stress, work, life and endless thouths and overthinking.

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29 M here, enterpreneur.

Love cooking, watching sunrise and sunset, long walks, sketching and photography.

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Let's connect as strangers, know eachother, if vibe matches let's call it a friendship and be in touch in the rough phase of life / world.

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I speak, Telugu, Hindi, English wanted to learn all South India languages so if you know one I can be a learner.

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Mostly I am chill, and easy going soul. So if you are one with similar vibe lets connect.

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Comfortable with anyone above 23 till 80's

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Love and smiles

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u/iamlostincity — 14 days ago
▲ 1 r/AskIndianMen+1 crossposts

Just curious how men with higher libido, Being consistent. Any changes in dite or lifestyle?

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u/[deleted] — 15 days ago

2 am thoughts as a 29 M single.

Might delete this post soon.

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Ignore typos or grammer, I am prity sure I have dislexia right from childhood, parents thought I was week or not good in study's, School and college built so much pressure. About studies, getting first grade or being successful.

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Fuck it, I am doing good, choose field which i love and living a life i wanted.

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Yet, I feel numb, calm or dead. Now i may be completely wrong, thinking this is happening as i am single or it may happen when If I had one.

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Dear fellow guys, girls and others.

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Life is short,

Writing this at 29, Its just a year to be 30 - Yes, age is number and it's fucking important

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Guy's, find someone you love whatever gender you are.

Accept someone who loves you and can fright for you.

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No amount of affairs, ONS, hookups, casual relationship are gona help you, to find yourself safe, comfortable, crazy, mad, and live like you and hey be loved like you in any and every situation. You can't be sexy forever, you can't be hot forever, and rich for every.

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Just like our fingers, each one of ous are unique and have own set of stuff which others don't have.

Try to find who is interested to let it be same and grow together.

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I made a mistake, you don't do same

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  1. I was deep into a single sided relationship for 10 years, Yes fucking 10 years and she got married few years back. I am happy for her and deleted all the memory - If somone is not ready to accept you or willing to consider you atleast to know and see where it goes. It may be reddit or real life, just move on, go find someone else. Dont waste your time

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  1. Me being me, i choose prime time 20-27 to build. Where has i started working at 18, Freelancing at 19 and completely independent from 20. This may sound intresting, no, I was fool to give away all in for the sake of being successful.

No, I am not yet there, still i found myself in this process, became financial independent and socially respected.

I wish I would have, asked again to the girl who rejected in uni, I wish I tried to connect and not back off due to social difference in work place, I wish i explored more places to find someone, I wish i was on bumble or tinder back then.

Now I have regrets, yet happy with where I am

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  1. You can't find love, connection, emotional attachment or comfort you wanted from opposite gender via paid stuff, ONS or Hook-ups. It's either selling yourself or its a transaction just like money - Coffee, you will end up in retreat then what you were craving for or wanted.

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  1. In search of SEX & MONEY / What every you get via FWB, You are loosing wonderful humans out there, beautiful people with amazing emotions, understanding towards life, humans with passion and somone who Is deeper then they feel.

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I know i am not complete yet to speak all of this, yet beware and find someone and live and love in this 1/1 life.

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Don't fall into trends and haste culture.

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Btw date or love with a intention to live forever

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u/iamlostincity — 20 days ago

Learned how to make filter coffee, got pro in it. Looking for a partner to share the art of filter coffee ☕ with.

Imagine a guy in late 20's, wake-up early morning to make two cups of filter coffee. Drive all the way , take you or meet you at one of those beautiful sunrise spot.

Btw jaggery, organic sugar and without sugar are available, just incase I got a chance to date 40 year old I do have sugarless option 🫣

Jokes apart, This post is neither about finding a partner or not looking for 370 rs stuff. It's about meeting a soul, to talk, share life stuff, know eachother and find a way to be in touch.

This time I may get you warm filter coffee, next time shawarma sandwich (My invention) and next your turn, it goes on.

Happy monsoon

29 M here, check this link you may resonate to what I am thinking.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Hyd_DaTinG/s/GMRq3ZUhVN

Good night, have to prepare two cups of coffee ☕

u/iamlostincity — 23 days ago

Today is my carpenters marriage aniversary, what shall I send?

I started my own interior design practice four years ago, and this year I finally registered my GST and company.

Although nobody technically works under me, I prefer saying people work with me. The whole "boss vs leader" philosophy had a huge influence on me before I started my practice.

Unlike some of my previous companies and bosses, I genuinely want to build a different culture. I see carpenters, plumbers, electricians, painters, and vendors as fellow team members because, without them, my designs would never come to life.

Over time, I've slowly started collecting information like birthdays, marriage anniversaries, and even their children's birthdays. I want to celebrate important moments with them and make them feel valued.

Today, I saw on Facebook that one of my carpenters (we're Facebook friends too!) is celebrating his wedding anniversary. He's someone I'm quite close to.

Since I know where he lives, I was thinking of sending a chocolate cake to his house this evening so they can enjoy it after dinner. The only thing I'm unsure about is whether they have a refrigerator.

He's originally from Bihar, and I don't want either him or his wife to feel uncomfortable or awkward because of the gesture. I was also wondering if I should send something small for his wife as well.

Has anyone here done something similar for their ground staff, contractors, or team members? How was the experience, and are there any cultural things I should keep in mind?

Would love to hear your thoughts.

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u/iamlostincity — 24 days ago

Need help in selecting next solo trip.

In 2024, I was feeling exactly same as now. Lost, dead and unanswered to that phase of life.

Took courage and ran away for 45 days, I was in rishikesh Uttarakhand for 30 days in kotdwar, jadipai region exploring mountains, small groups of people living in mountain and there lifestyle. Moved to Rishikesh for diwali then haridwar later Banaras for dev deepawali. I was happy thereafter.

Now at 29 I am feeling same, and wanted to leave home for two weeks to 20 days.

My above trip was lucky coved in 15K including stay and food, excluding Decathlon investment 10K.

Can someone suggest where can I plan now, understanding my previous trip intrest. Btw I love isolation, calm and having slow time. And i do backpacking style travel in budget

As an architectural designer, my city life is already filled with 100 calls a day and stressful week.

Thank you

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u/iamlostincity — 25 days ago