r/Hyd_DaTinG

So this question is for guys specifically, but girls are also welcome if they wish.

The thing is I'm a 23F, and personally think that I'm quite fashionable like not that much, but have a good dressing sense to say the least. And I do look cute and at times hot when I want to.

So why does no one approach me?? Like I'm not desperate or anything for these things, I know it happens naturally but sometimes it's just comes to my mind that maybe I'm lacking something.

Basically the question is:

What are exactly the standards/qualities people look for these days??

Because if looks don't matter, then at least a Hi/Hello is necessary to start a conversation. If looks do matter, then why not with me??

Oh yeah, I don't mean anything in a weird or offensive way, so please try to be nice if u hv something to say 🙂

Looking for a Genuine Long-Term Connection ✨

Mandatory Details:

• Age: 21

• Gender: Female

• Height: Approximately 5'5"

• Location: Warangal, India

• Willing to LDR: Yes

• Dietary Habits: Non-Vegetarian

• Language: Telugu preferred, open to Hindi & Malayalam

• Smoking/Drinking Habits: Occasionally drink socially

• Smoking/Drinking in Partner: Negotiable if occasional

• Religious Orientation: Christian ✝️

• Willing to Date Other Religion: Preferably Christian, but open to someone from another religion if they genuinely respect Christianity and Christian values

Introduction:

Currently completing my UG and looking for a meaningful relationship with serious intentions and long-term compatibility in mind. I’m someone who values peace, honesty, emotional maturity, loyalty, and healthy communication.

I enjoy movies, music, travelling, meaningful conversations, and spending quality time with people close to me. I believe a relationship should feel emotionally safe, supportive, and understanding rather than stressful or toxic.

I would love someone who can support and motivate me in my studies and future goals while we both grow together personally and professionally.

Minimum Expectations:

• Age around 22–29

• Height 5'9" and above

• Medium to fair complexion preferred

• Should already be working or career-focused

• Emotionally mature, respectful, understanding, and family-oriented

• Someone who respects my faith and never mocks religious beliefs

• Not looking for matches from the Muslim community due to personal compatibility preferences

• Serious intentions only — no casuals or situationships

End Note:

Hoping to find someone genuine with good communication, mutual respect, emotional peace, and long-term intentions 🤍

Hey all,
I live in Hyderabad. Recently shifted here from Bangalore. I’m looking for casual things.. Anything works.. friends or anything at all.. as long as you are all clean and kind :)

I don’t know how dm works on this but yeah.. lemme know if interested. Irrespective of gender.! I don’t mind making friends with women or men.. just looking for some good person to spend time with.

Hiie! I’ve been wanting to step out of my usual routine and meet new people. I’m looking for genuine, strictly platonic friendships with people who enjoy good conversations & discovering new things together.

I’d love friendships where we can talk about random thoughts, share music & movie recommendations, rant about life, exchange memes, discuss goals & maybe explore cafes, places, hobbies. I’m not expecting instant best friends kinda thing but I do value effort, kindness, honesty, and people who can keep a conversation alive. No creepy or romantic intentions please.

39M. Emotionally available in the same way roadside golgappe are technically dinner. Seeking a reasonably stable woman to share mild codependency, aggressively average chemistry, and the occasional parking lot debate about absolutely nothing.

My hobbies include going to public places purely to eavesdrop on gossip, pretending I’m smarter than I am by memorizing random statistics, and laughing slightly too hard at my own jokes. Friends describe me as ‘surprisingly opinionated for someone this uninformed.’

You: Ideally somewhat cynical, carrying at least three unresolved emotional subplots, and capable of turning a harmless conversation into a 40 minute argument by dessert. Bonus points if you say things like ‘I’m done with dating’ immediately before texting three other people.

Dream date: two for one drinks at a mediocre bar, passive aggressive flirting with strangers, followed by an unnecessarily intense discussion in the parking lot about who embarrassed whom first.

Open to a casual disappointment, but secretly hoping for a long-term emotional stalemate fueled by takeout, cheap wine, and mutual nitpicking.

Age isn’t important. I’ll probably be mildly condescending either way, though in completely different styles depending on your life stage. Serious replies only.

Hi, I'm 24F 5'5 just moved to city. Had worst breakup of my life, healed myself completely and now I'm ready for dating again cause why not? I'm into gaming, drinking(dont know how to smoke), late night drives(if you have car), long talks.

I'm energetic and independent and will talk a lot too and most of the times i keep myself healthy and fit. Kinda fair, cute, lover girl kind of vibes, a lot of feminine energy from my side. Very much respectful and i expect the same respect back as well. I love physical touch it makes me go crazy :))

I'm looking for something genuine, someone who takes me out for dinner, movies, dates. I'll be totally loyal and commited to you, i only have female friends. And i would wanna explore this city with you, can go out for small trips on weekends.

Would appreciate who is older than me, taller than me and should be financially good cause i have my standards :)) should have a car, i cannot do bike rides. Should take care of me when i feel low, all this will be reciprocated too.

I'm calm, will give you positive energy will support you always share ups and downs, I'm mature and i dont create drama at all. I will give you peace and expect the same.

I'm fluent with English, hindi, telugu(corrected). I live near gachibowli - kondapur region and i can explore many things with you, would want intimacy too.

NOTE : Not at all looking for hookups or casual relationships

Update : 100+ requests i really did not expect that 😭 i cannot reply to you all, I'm just accepting the ones who's intro is good :))

Hey there 22M| 5'9| IT| working in Hyderabad pretty chill and straightforward, into music, books, a bit of gaming and I enjoy solving puzzles. I like keeping things simple and real, and I'm always down for good conversations or just vibing.

M26. Looking for female friend. So I have been preparing for upsc since last 1 year studying alone. I had to break up to focus. So for just 1 day I want to touch grass before I again go to study cycle.

A bit about me- I am an IIT graduate and then went to USA and did job for a year and came back to pursue upsc.

We could go out for movies , food and I have pretty interesting stories.

Was in a live in with a Redditor and some events happened and we had to break up even tho we liked each other.

I feel so lonely, missing an essential person in my life who didn’t leave me at least 1 day for the last 6 months.

anyone wants to hangout in the weekends? for food or some other activity , I’ve got a big list of good food places that don’t disappoint 😄

I am sorted in my mind about what I want. I work on myself and love myself. I am charming and happy most of the time except work maybe. So I'm looking for similar kind of person. Who knows what he is doing and not playing mind games. Who doesn't manipulate and is straight forward. And yes also cute. I like cute people like me. Hehe! But most importantly you should be emotionally intelligent and emotionally available.

About me:

23 F 4'9 [Hindi,English]

Software engineer - earn well hehe

Kind, cute and genuine also childish sometimes

Feminist, so just in case it triggers you stay away.

Area: Jubilee hills

And I am not into casual things at all so please don't waste my or your time.

Idk if this would work out or not but I'm just trying this way to get someone genuine and my type. And yah there's a lot about me. But I like to express instead of being mysterious all the time.

Let's see if I find someone genuine here...otherwise I would delete this app. Lol.

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To continue the conversation smoothly and avoid misunderstandings on the first date, whether it’s M2F or F2M.

Age : 32

Name : Mr.C

Work : working on something big

Smoking : No

Drinking : No

Location: Hyderabad

LDR : No

Food habits : Non vegetarian

Religion: Hindu

Languages : Telugu, English, Hindi, Tamil

About me :

Pretty chill person, good listener, love to play sports ( cricket, badminton, paddle, and pickleball). I do workouts regularly. Loves to cook food. A lot more to say.

22F | Hyderabad

Life’s been feeling a little too repetitive lately, so I thought I’d try talking to new people here.

I’m not really into casual flirting or talking just to pass time. I’d rather have a few genuine conversations than a hundred dry ones.

I’m someone who enjoys a slower, peaceful kind of life. I like movies, music, cooking, craft, travelling once in a while, and just having my own space.

I can be a little reserved at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m actually very easy to talk to. I don’t connect with everyone instantly, and honestly, I think that’s okay.

I appreciate people who are emotionally mature, respectful, and consistent. Someone who communicates properly and knows how to treat people without games or confusion.

Also, just being real — I’m skinny and fair-skinned, and completely comfortable with myself. Looking for people who are secure and genuine too.

About me:

• 22
• 5’4
• Telugu, English

Not looking to rush anything or force conversations. Just here hoping to meet people who feel easy to talk to and worth knowing.

If you text, skip the dry “hey” 😭 Tell me your age, what you do, and something real about yourself.

Hosting a private house party on 22nd May (Friday) in Hyderabad.

✨ Premium & cream crowd only
🍾 Unlimited alcohol
🍽 Dinner + snacks included
🎶 Music till morning
👥 Balanced crowd preferred
💑 Couple Entry: ₹2500
🕴 Stag Entry: ₹1500 (limited & negotiable)

Entry strictly through confirmation.
DM for RSVP & location details.

Hey everyone,

Need some suggestions for a first meetup/date kind of situation in Hyderabad.

Context:

It’ll be 4 people, me, the girl I like, my friend, and his girlfriend. This is the first time I’m meeting her in person, so I don’t want the plan to end up being just “sit at a restaurant and eat for 2 hours”. As we can’t bond enough if we just eat and end this,
my friends(as in the other 2) suggested places with some activity involved so conversations happen more naturally things like pottery cafés, themed restaurants, etc, as they said if you get close to her in first time or if she liked spending time with you, then you’ll have many more chance :) lol… so just a lil stressed out..

“Koncham help cheyandi evaraina”

I’m open to anything interactive where people can actually bond a bit and have a nice ambience

Would especially love suggestions from people who’ve been on similar first meetup/date plans and know what actually works well. I am an introvert myself

Hi folks I'm from Mumbai coming to Hyderabad next month for a few days, can anyone suggest some good clubs in Hyderabad for a good night out.Hi folks, I’m from Mumbai and I’ll be coming to Hyderabad next month for a few days. Can anyone suggest some good clubs in Hyderabad for a great night out?

Hello there (obiwan's voice)

Im 22 M, i work in a SBC - service based company

I don't wanna be in situationships, flirtationships.

I just wanna be one woman's man for this life

Im a movie buff and an audiophile i clock around 5000 minutes of music a month. Let's blend our music to see how much we got in common.

I love to listen to the weeknd, Kendrick Lamar, Taylor swift , Sabrina Carpenter, Britney Spears etc and many moreee

I listen to movie soundtracks too like a lot , Ludwig goransson, Hans Zimmer, Daniel Pemberton soo many

Well coming to movies, i watch any movie thats scifi idc if its flopped or a hit i didnt watch avatar tho idk why but its the only movie not on my list

If you do like project hail Mary, think ill just fall for you

I like starwars too , I'm in a mandalorian creed BTW

I did watch brooklyn 99 tho

Im a huge marvel buff too I watched all marvel TV and movies except echo TV show (agents of shield is my fav TV show and Ironman is my fav movie)

I have started watching romcoms too

Maybe ill watch regional and stuff you like if it's with you

Im an ambivert, i stay a bit silent till i get free with other person no matter who then i yap a lot with them

Only things I cooked are yippee , rice and coffee ig some other 😢

I do wanna cook idk if it will be good or bad but i do wanna try cook all dishes

Im a vegetarian but i may cook non veg for the person I love

I have a tonne of hobbies, let it be engineering ones. Gaming, Hardware ones or any but its been a while i did any of that cuz of job

but i will make time for them or just do one at a time

Ik it may feel like juggling but I will make time for you

I don't watch much sports but I am interested in watching F1

I am strongest on the outside but maybe I want to be weak for you ?

Ye it's kinda feeling like cringe

Would you be my home or maybe build a home with me ?

If you are interested in building one ig dm me , I want to build a slow and steady relationship

And tell me all about your childhood and the future we gon build

Anyone wanna talk with me?