r/Hyd_DaTinG

Hi

I matched with a guy on Hinge. We hadn’t met yet, but we’d had a few long phone calls, got along really well, and planned our first date.

On the day of the date, he called and said he’d gotten pulled into a work meeting and that he’d let me know once he was done. I was okay with that.

The problem was, I didn’t hear from him for hours. I eventually gave up on the plan, and much later that night he texted apologizing, saying the meeting went on for too long.

The next morning, I told him I wasn’t upset that we couldn’t meet. I was disappointed that I was left without an update. My issue was the lack of communication, not the cancelled date. He apologized again and said he’d make up for it.

From a man’s perspective:
Was this just an unfortunate work situation that he handled badly?
If you were genuinely interestedf in someone, would you have sent a quick update?
Does his apology sound genuine?
Would this be enough for you to give someone another chance?

I’m at that phase where everything is happening and I just can’t seem to find anyone supportive. I’ve always been very independent but right now I want someone to share my weight with. Only if you have the band width to give me only then text me.

This is not at all searching for a boyfriend/fun talks. I’d prefer someone older. Atleast 25 or above to relate to my problems. Preferably a doctor. And someone who ca actually put in efforts for friendship without ghosting. Male or female, just looking for a friend. Nothing more 🙏

Hii. I'm 25M, done engineering, worked for 3 years, and am building my own company now.

I want to get married within 2-3 years but I don't want to settle for the less. I'm in search of opinionated, emotionally matured, high value woman having intention for marriage.

I literally don't care about caste, religion, region, and skin. What I want is simple, be the one that always tries to uplift yourself and have the hunger to always try something new. Content creation, modelling, building AI, or running a cafe, anything.

And emotional maturity, efforts, presence, and communication is a must for me. If you're someone that expects me to read your mind without communicating, I'm not the one.

I am looking for a simple, dynamic, and forward thinking woman. If you feel you're the one, hit me with a DM, let's see how we connect.

24F. I was in thr college recently passed out looking forward to meet new peoplr from the college cuz wasn't socialising much when i was there!

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Hi!

I'm 28, 5'9", based in Hyderabad, and work as a Senior Data Scientist at a tech company. I have a Master's in Computer Science, enjoy what I do, but believe life is about much more than just a career.

Outside work, I enjoy playing table tennis and badminton, working out, traveling (beaches over mountains), exploring cafés, and trying an Americano wherever I go. I'm also a Bollywood fan who loves classic Hindi songs and ghazals.

Family is a big part of my life, and I believe the strongest relationships are built on trust, kindness, respect, and emotional maturity. I also have a clear view of my future—I don't plan on having children and would love to build a DINK (Dual Income, No Kids) life with someone who shares the same vision.

For me, compatibility, shared values, and genuine connection matter far more than career or income.

If this resonates with you and you're looking for something meaningful, I'd love to connect and get to know each other.

Yes I got my 57th GF now, planning to meet her soon lets see how it will go😉

Just feeling disrespected by one of my closest ones!

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I'm 25M from Kerala and recently moved to Hyderabad for a 6-month internship. Right now I'm staying in Begumpet for about 6 days while I look for a permanent place (planning to move to Madhapur later).

I'm still getting familiar with the city, so I'd love to make a few genuine friends. I'm only looking for friendship—just someone to talk to, walk around with, explore the city, or grab a cup of chai or coffee.

I'm not exactly sure of my current location, but I'm staying near Kundanbagh Park. I'm planning to visit Lake Front Park for a walk. If you're nearby and would like some company, feel free to send me a DM. We can go for a walk, chat, and get to know each other.

A little about me:

From Kerala 🌴

Good listener

Easygoing and respectful

Love cooking, exploring new places, and meaningful conversations

If you're new to Hyderabad too, or just looking for a genuine friend, don't hesitate to reach out!

Trying my luck here because arranged marriage scene konchem scary anipisthundi these days 😅. Parents are actively looking, but I genuinely want to find my person by myself. So... here goes!

About Me

27F | Software Engineer + Entrepreneur | Working in Hyderabad

I'm a Full Stack Software Engineer and also building my own business alongside my job.

Muslim by family background, but personally I'm an atheist. I respect everyone's beliefs, but I'm more practical, logical, and straightforward in life.

Career is very important to me. I'm self-made, ambitious, and always looking to grow.

Personality-wise, once I'm comfortable, I'm fun, sarcastic, expressive, caring, and loyal. I enjoy traveling, exploring new places, trying good food, and making memories.

Above all, I value honesty, emotional safety, communication, and mutual respect.

What I'm Looking For:

• Muslim background (preferably not very religious; atheist/agnostic would be a huge plus).

> Muslim background only because my family wouldn't accept another religion.

• Preferably from Telangana or someone planning to settle in Hyderabad.

> Distance matters because I believe getting to know each other properly before marriage is important.

• Age: 27–30

• Height: Around 5'7"–5'9"

• Non-smoker & Non-drinker (Strictly)

Personality Matters More Than Anything

I'm looking for someone who is:

✔ Well educated

✔ Ambitious & hardworking

✔ Emotionally available

✔ Mature & understanding

✔ Open-minded

✔ Family-oriented

✔ Respectful towards women and relationships

✔ Physically fit & financially independent

Tech background or entrepreneurship would be a plus because we'll probably understand each other's lifestyle better.

I honestly don't care about family wealth or inherited assets. I'd rather be with someone talented, capable, and someone who can build his own future.

Bonus Points 😄

If you're funny...

Good at conversations...

Know meme references...

Can roast me occasionally...

...we'll probably get along really well😂

Being the only daughter to my parents, I naturally have responsibilities towards my family. I'm looking for someone who understands that and believes marriage is about supporting both families, not choosing one over the other.

For me, marriage isn't just about finding a husband.

I want my partner to be my best friend, biggest supporter, travel buddy, safe space, and teammate for life. Someone with whom we can grow together, build a beautiful life, and enjoy every phase without regrets.

Serious intentions only. Timepass, casual chats, or "hi" messages won't work.

If you genuinely think we'd be compatible, send me a message introducing yourself (age, profession, location, and a little about you).

Let's see where life takes us..

if you did, give tips please 🫠

So, It's been a week for me here and I downloaded Tinder, Bumble and Hinge the only dating apps I trust. And Despite being active and liking profiles, commenting and being active on these apps. I have only managed to receive 3 Matches that too on bumble BFF. Is it only happening with me or all of the folks are in same condition?

About me : 23M, 6'1" North Indian who doesn't smoke, drink. But apart from that I'm pretty much into everything be it travel, movies, parties, cafe-hopping, exploring etc.

I want to know what's wrong with crowd in hyderabad or with my profile. It is because I'm north Indian and doesn't drink or smoke or this is something else in it.

Writing this because I have always managed to get decent Matches in other places. Like in few cities above 100 likes and Matches in matter of days. Idk how algorithms work but have tested this in Kolkata, Delhi, Bangalore and Chandigarh. Only Hyderabad is the only place so far where I'm not getting any likes or Matches or is it that my account have been shadow banned?

If anyone is here who can chat with me or talk with me like a friend.Thank u

Anyone in Makau restaurant right now??

Before anyone calls me out, Yes - This account is brand new 😅, I’ve been lurking on Reddit forever but finally made an account because I thought, “What’s the worst that could happen?” (Please don’t answer that)

Life has mostly been about work and building my career, and somewhere along the way I never really prioritized finding a partner. So… here I am, giving Reddit a shot because life’s full of surprises, right? 🤞

I’m a 26F, Telugu Brahmin, Software Engineer from Hyderabad looking for something genuine that could eventually lead to Marriage if we really click. No rush, no pressure, just hoping to meet my favourite human ! I genuinely believe the best relationships start with a solid friendship first.

I’m not looking for anything casual & genuinely looking for something serious , so please stay away if that’s your thing !

About Me ✨

I genuinely enjoy my work, but not enough to skip spontaneous trips, long drives, or late-night ice cream. ( Sometimes I feel I’m too ambitious that taking sometime out for myself also gives me guilt tripping 😭😭 but I’m working on this ).

I love conversations about Travel, Tech, Investing ,Books 📚( Not a vivid reader 😅 but I pick up one when I feel like ) or why/how one tiny life decision somehow turns into an existential crisis at 2 AM. 😂

Family is important to me, and I naturally gravitate towards kind people who make life feel easy.

I don’t believe in rigid relationship roles. I’d rather have a teammate to celebrate wins, survive adulting, and build a peaceful, fun life with.

What I’m looking for

I’m definitely not a checklist person coz chemistry, comfort, and shared values matter far more than ticking boxes for me . But broadly:

Preferably Telugu/Brahmin because it makes convincing the parents easier 😅, though it’s genuinely** **not a deal-breaker if we really connect & can vibe well . I’m vegetarian, so I’d be most compatible with someone who’s vegetarian or an occasional non-vegetarian with age around (26–30)

Ambitious and Passionate ✨about what you do, but not someone whose entire personality revolves around work. I admire people who work hard but also know when to disappear for a spontaneous weekend trip or enjoy a lazy Sunday doing absolutely nothing. If you’re in Tech too, that’s a fun bonus , but definitely not a requirement.

😂Funny : Please, Life is already serious enough. I don’t mean a stand-up comedian, but someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously, appreciates sarcasm, laughs easily, and can make even grocery shopping entertaining !

Emotionally Mature : Being able to communicate, apologize when needed, handle disagreements without making them a battle, and generally be kind.

Someone who’s curious- About people, places, ideas… I love conversations that randomly go from “What’s for dinner?” to “Do you think we’re alone in the universe?” 😂

A person who’s looking for a partner, not someone to fit into predefined roles. I’d love for us to cheer each other on, celebrate wins together, and make everyday life feel a little lighter.

PS : If you’ve made it this far, tell me what you’re most passionate about these days. It could be your work, a side project, a hobby, or even something random you’ve done recently. I have a soft spot for people whose eyes light up when they talk about something they love. ✨Gives us a much better conversation starter than just a basic “Hi.”😄

I'm a b.tech student. 21M, soo I'll describe few things about me:

I'm 5'7, looks goodd

Not a nerd fs

I do travell a lott.. this year I've visited lyk 4 states

I make good amount of money by finance Although I'm a final year student

Whenever a deal cuts in i go for a trip or spend that money celebrating w friends

I used to be in a relationship which lasted for almost 2y

A good thing abt me is i pay on dates lyk for everything and i dont feel it as a burden.

I'm looking for someone who would like to talk abt her day, gossip abt her friends.

short hair would be better

I'm basically looking for someone whom i can share everything with.

If anyone's interested to text, then dm me.

Lets see where it goes..

Hey everyone,

​Like a lot of people here, a few of us got completely exhausted by the mainstream app scene. Between the bots, the paid spam, and the sketchy situations, it feels nearly impossible to find a normal, safe space to explore adult connections or alternative lifestyles, especially for women and couples.

​A while back, we decided to skip the apps entirely and start a private, closed community. Right now, we’re a small "family" of 14 people (4 couples, 6 single men, 4 single women). Our ultimate goal is to slowly grow this into a trusted, long-term community, but we are fiercely protective of the vibe and the safety of our members.

​Because anonymity is where things usually go wrong, we have very strict, deliberate rules about how we bring new people into the fold:

​🛡️ How We Keep the Space Safe
​Balanced Growth & Vouching: To keep the group’s dynamic natural and balanced, we focus on organic growth. For solo guys, we require a thorough vetting process. However, if a guy is joining alongside a female friend or partner who can vouch for his character, that shared trust makes the integration into the community much more seamless for everyone.

- ​ID & Photo Verification: All male members are fully photo and ID verified upfront. No exceptions.
- ​Female-Led Onboarding: We understand that sharing details online can be incredibly daunting for women. To make things comfortable, all female onboarding is handled entirely by the women already in our group.
​- The "Offline Vibe Check": If a woman or couple is interested but uncomfortable sharing IDs or personal details online, we completely respect that. Instead, we offer a low-pressure, casual meetup (like grabbing a coffee or a drink) in a public spot with one of our existing female members or couples to just chat and do a real-life vibe check.

​👥 Who We Are Looking For
​We aren't looking to mass-invite people. We want respectful, mature, and like-minded individuals (couples and singles) who value privacy and consent above everything else. Whether you're deeply into the scene or just exploring out of curiosity, we want this to be a space where you don't have to worry about the risks of meeting random, unvetted strangers.

​If you’ve been looking for a normalized, pressure-free environment and want to see if we're a good fit, feel free to reach out directly to chat.

I’m a 39-year-old divorced Christian woman with no children, looking for a genuine, Christ-centered relationship that leads to marriage.
I believe life is meant to be lived with purpose, one day at a time. I’m drawn to deep conversations, spiritual growth, and meaningful connections that go beyond appearances. I value character, faith, kindness, and the kind of bond where two people help each other grow closer to God and become better versions of themselves.
Life has taught me that the deepest things are often invisible. We live in a world that celebrates appearance, success, and instant gratification, but I’ve come to believe that the most valuable parts of a person cannot be seen with the eyes. Character, integrity, faith, compassion, humility, wisdom, and the ability to love sacrificially are treasures that grow quietly over time.
I try to live each day with purpose rather than simply existing. I believe every day is a gift from God and an opportunity to become a little more loving, a little wiser, and a little more like Christ. I don’t measure a meaningful life by possessions, social status, or how impressive someone appears. Instead, I admire people who keep their promises, serve others without expecting recognition, choose forgiveness over resentment, and remain faithful even when life is difficult.
I’m fascinated by conversations that go beyond everyday small talk. I enjoy discussing faith, the meaning of suffering, God’s purpose for our lives, personal growth, books that change the way we think, the beauty of creation, the complexity of human nature, and the quiet lessons we learn through life’s joys and disappointments. I appreciate someone who asks thoughtful questions and isn’t afraid to admit they don’t have all the answers.
To me, a soul connection isn’t about instant chemistry alone. It’s about recognizing someone whose values, faith, and vision for life resonate with your own. It’s two imperfect people choosing honesty over pretending, grace over judgment, and commitment over convenience. It’s feeling safe enough to be completely yourself, knowing you’re accepted while also encouraging each other to become better.

If you’re a Christian man who also longs for a true soul connection, values depth over superficiality, and is looking for a lifelong partner rather than something casual, I’d love to hear from you.

DM me if this resonates with you.