u/Same-Maintenance-202

Hello guys,

I don't know if it'll work or not since it's online.....but well I saw some posts where there was a hint of it so yeah....

It's a lot difficult for me because I'm too specific....but I'll try, so please be nice to me.

Also, since I'm posting on a HYD community, I should clarify that I'm a North Indian, staying in Hi-tech City for my work, I'm a Software Engineer basically. 

About me: I'm a 23.5 yrs young shortie, I DON'T watch movies/series, I love music tho, I love artsy stuffff....into fashion but I don't go out much or rarely with a few close ones.....socially awkward person....not really an introvert, just don't talk much. I like reading, playing badminton. I love dogs. Umm that sums it up ig....if you wanna know something specific I'll be happy to answer....

Who I'm looking for: 

A simple, sweet guy, should respect people regardless of their gender, doesn't use cuss words that frequently. Who takes a stand where it's needed. Who is calm and collected, neat, dresses well. Doesn't smoke or drink (non-negotiable). Tall. Who can romanticize simple things such as drinking tea together or having a stroll in a park. If you know Hindi, that will be great for me.....I mean I can speak English but there are times when I'm stuck so yeah.....

Oh yeah, I would want someone whose age is 25 max. I'm not comfortable with people older than that. Um, so please respect that.

Hey guys, so I've been living here in Hyderabad for half a year.....and I've noticed certain things.

One is that telugu people especially, seem to have strict rules and traditions/standards??....I'm not getting the right words but they're not very open minded basically.

The things that led me to think like this are:

1. I have many telugu friends.....2 of them are girls and I've never seen them in western dresses....and by dresses I mean bodycon, knee or above length dresses ...like those....forget about skirts and shorts. That is still fine...that maybe even they're not comfortable themselves.

But once one of them whom I'm close to .....told me that in home she cannot even wear tshirt and trousers.....that her dad gets angry.😐 Which shocked me to be honest.

2. There are so many north people or people outside Telangana living here cuz of jobs right.....I'm the same....but I feel like there's so much staring....I mean what's the deal with this? Once my college friend visited hyd for an exam and I took her to Tank bund road....as it was late and she has to leave the next day.....i have to say the experience was so bad.....and i realised maybe the place was the bad idea.....but still the people passing by and the ones even on bikes were staring so so much ......we felt so unsafe and we went back. I'm sure she will never come back here. 🥹

3. This is something I'm just curious about:

So as I said in the first point that people here are not very open minded....like way too strict......umm...I mean like parents are very strict. But I see telugu couples everywhere I go in Hi-tech City.....so how do you guys convince ur parents??..... Do you fight for your person?.....How does it end?....I'm asking this cuz I got to know many of the guy's break up story....and so many of them are like the girl's parents were strict....or they arranged for her marriage kind of......

At last, I'm just a third person observing all these ....I wanna know the reality.....

Also, I'm not trying to offend anyone here .....

Someone free to have some random conversation, maybe if we click we can go for a stroll in Mindspace....it's near my place but I never really went there.....what say??