r/GenZIndia

Like today idk why but my hormones were at peak in the morning like literally out of control and i needed a release really bad, so i thought why not rub one out and then start the day, i was literally about to finish but suddenly mom came in room, the door was closed but not locked , so as i felt it was opening i immediately stopped and thankfully I was covered in bedsheet but i was breathing very fast and started fumbling my words when mom asked something

Do u think i am safe or maybe she got some hint what i am upto🥲

A few weeks ago, my elder brother had a get-together with his childhood school friends. I was there too, mostly just sitting around and listening to them talk about school, old teachers and stupid things they used to do.

One of them is my brother’s best friend. I’ve known him for years, but I’d never really known anything about his past relationships.

That night, he was drinking a little more than usual probably.

At some point, someone asked him about his first love.

He laughed and said, “Don’t ask me that.”

Then, for some reason, he started telling us the story.

We were together for almost 3 years. Nothing dramatic happened between us. No cheating, no huge fight, no villain.

We just slowly became two people who loved each other but couldn’t make life work.

She got a job in another city. I was still finishing college. We kept saying we’d figure it out, but slowly the calls became shorter, replies became slower, and eventually we were basically strangers pretending we were still together.

The day we broke up, we sat outside a café for almost two hours.

She cried.

I didn’t.

She said, “I still love u, but I don’t think love is enough anymore.”

I remember laughing because I thought she was being dramatic.

I told her we’d both move on.

Three months later, she called me at 2 AM.

She said she was getting married.

I thought she was joking.

She wasn’t.

Apparently she’d met someone through her family and had agreed to it because she thought I had already moved on.

I wanted to tell her not to do it.

But I didn’t.

I just said, “I hope he’s good to u.”

She started crying.

Then she said something I’ll never forget.

“That’s why I can’t marry him.”

She told me she’d kept one of my old hoodies because it still smelled like my room.

I cried after we hung up.

A week later, she messaged me saying she had cancelled the wedding.

For the first time, I thought maybe we were getting another chance.

Then she told me the real reason.

She had been diagnosed with a serious illness months earlier and didn’t know how much time she had.

She hadn’t told me because she didn’t want me staying with her out of pity.

I completely broke down.

We met the next day.

She looked thinner.

We spent the entire afternoon talking like nothing had happened.

No promises. No “we’ll get back together.”

Just two people who still loved each other.

Before leaving, she held my hand and said,

“Promise me something.”

“What?”

“Don’t spend the rest of your life waiting for me.”

She died seven months later.

He stopped talking for a moment.

Nobody said anything.

Then he wiped his face and quietly said, “It’s been two years.”

That’s when his wife walked into the room.

She’d come to pick him up.

She looked at us, then looked at him crying, and immediately understood.

She sat beside him and started crying too.

She told us she’d known the whole story. He had told her everything before they got married.

She said, “He never cheated on her. He never stopped loving her either. He just learned how to live with it.”

That’s when everyone completely broke.

These were men who had been friends since school. Guys who had spent decades making fun of each other and never showing emotion.

And now almost everyone was crying.

I had tears in my eyes too.

The strangest part was realizing that none of us knew.

He had carried that entire story alone for years.

He looked around at everyone and laughed through his tears.

“Why the hell did I tell u guys this?”

Nobody answered.

His wife just held his hand.

And somehow that was enough.

Some people aren’t meant to stay in your life.

Sometimes they just leave something behind that changes the person u become……..

I also journal not every day like once a year because I don’t know what to write and if you ask me to write your daily routine then it’s pretty same everyday Nothing special if their anything else you write please share here

Hey guys, there’s this guy who keeps harassing with his constant calls, emails, msgs, makes new ids on Instagram and telegram when I block him despite rejecting him EVERY FUCKING TIME! I NEVER WAS INVOLVED WITH HIM AT ALL. We were in the same clg same class I graduated from the college recently this mf still fucking keeps msging even tho I keep blocking him avoiding him at all costs and even though I CLEARLY said I don’t want to talk.

He is sending requests to my friends now to reach me and sending me mails. This is all I so annoying.
Pls don’t ask me why i haven’t told my parents yet I have some serious health problems at home due to which I did not.

Feeling helpless I reached out to his sister msged her and told her about everything and now I know why this mf had the audacity to do all of this. His sister literally said “pyaar mein aisa hota hai tum haa boldo usko” (this happens in love just say yes to him) bitch wtf?

Any suggestions on what to do? I have his mom’s number this one day I called her and this mf picked up and blocked me from her number. I called with my friend’s numbers he did the same.

TL;DR: A guy from my college keeps harassing me despite me clearly rejecting him and blocking him everywhere. He makes new Instagram/Telegram IDs, calls, emails, and has now started contacting my friends to reach me. I contacted his sister, but she dismissed it with “pyaar mein aisa hota hai, tum haa boldo usko.” I haven’t told my parents due to serious health issues at home. I also tried contacting his mom, but he picked up her phone and blocked me. I feel helpless and need advice on what to do.

So , I am 19 yr old and yes I failed my neet entrance exam 2nd time and i didn't wanted to give one more attempt again . So , I wanted to do something in finance which I always wanted to do , when I asked my father to get me enrolled in bcom or ba eco ( mind you with my marks I was getting top colleges in both bhu and du ) , my father said no to it . Again , when I told my father I will fill bsc , he told me why to do this ghar bethke pocha jhadu karna hai toh karle yeh toh local college se bhi ho jayegi , I was like I am getting miranda and hansraj bitch how are you comparing two good colleges like this . He made me withdraw from du . Now he is forcing me for private mbbs , when I told him I don't want to do it he abused me so much that me and my mother cried daily . It's been 1 month i am listening so much abusive words around me , how can I even explain it my own dad is praying for my downfall. I have got my name everywhere in goverment btech colleges for pcb related course , du , bhu and what not . He is telling me how I will roam on roads if I won't do mbbs . Ik i am doing really weird degree in btech it's btech food tech and management but my main aim has always been management, whenever i tell him what I want I hear abuses . It's just so sad that this is what my life is like everyone gets to do whatever they want to do and I am being said so many bad things about myself . I am being slut shammed and scrutinized by my own father . Am I doing a mistake ? Just because I am not choosing pvt mbbs , I don't want to waste 80 lakhs on something , am I wrong ? I don't want land to be sold , I don't want my father's saving to be gone ?

Like i whenever i have classes in college i have structure and my whole day passes easily and at the end of day i get a good night sleep , this summer break my mental health got really bad, currently having trouble sleeping at night, headaches, nothing feels exciting in life, keeps shifting from one thing to another, i wake up and start day with phone and spend around 11-12 hrs daily, also stay in bed of the day,

Seriously i dont know what to do at home, there is no structure nothing, what do u all do when u are at home without a structure

I genuinely don’t understand why people expect everyone to make a huge deal about their birthday.
It’s literally the anniversary of the day you were born.
My girlfriend got upset because I didn’t plan anything for her birthday. I just wished her, bought her a small gift, and went about my day.
She said I made her feel unimportant.
But why does one random date suddenly require expensive dinners, decorations, surprises, and an Instagram post?
If you need an entire day of attention every year to feel loved, that sounds like an insecurity problem.