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I also journal not every day like once a year because I don’t know what to write and if you ask me to write your daily routine then it’s pretty same everyday Nothing special if their anything else you write please share here

23 and graduated last year and I have no job ,applying everyday to all the companies but still no response from recruiters and I I’m tired of this
Everyone I know are doing something in their life and I’m stuck at home having nothing to do no work no goals I feel like looser here and still didn’t figure out about my career at this age .
My parents have lost the hope on me and I’m also loosing it, so anyone who’s been in this situation how did you dealt with this ?

What make you loose interest in a girl?

In the the talking stage I’ve noticed after talking for weeks men starts ghosting and ignore text so what leads you to loose interest in the girl?

So what happened is I met this foreign guy on Reddit he texted me first and then we became good friends he says that he love Indianculture, foods and wants to visit India so I was just telling all about India and all .
Then he texts me daily and says that he misses me a lot (he has not even seen me )
So I asked him why do you miss me you haven’t even saw my pic to that he said I don’t want to i only know that you are a kind person and I feel comfortable with you
And after a while I felt bored and stopped replying
Yesterday I texted him to that he didn’t replied I thought he is busy
So again today I texted and asked where you were
He said that I decided to not text you
I asked why ?
He again said that he misses me a lot and I don’t text him properly and he also said that he went to the pub and couldn’t stop thinking about me
So that’s why he replied and I was like why is he exaggerating? Like there was nothing like that between us also he’s 37 and I’m 23 so I have never looked it in romantic way. I have never talked to foreigners so I don’t know if they are naturally like this or he is just a simp.

Or like regret of never being in a relationship in your teenage days ? I’m 23 and I feel fomo that I have never dated anyone because never like anyone and mostly it was a one sided love , but also I don’t feel like being in a relationship because I’ve heard from my friends that it’s very complicated and you will end up messing your mental health but I have also want to experience that but now I feel like very old to date and making someone my first bf and and and I hate AM that is my only nightmare 😭I want find my future partner before 26 otherwise i will end up in a AM but I don’t know where to find ???😭
So yeah what do you think.

I have one friend who keeps sharing me reels of kids every time and once he sent a reel of a mother and a baby and then he said that you in future and I just took it in a cute way only
and today I sent him one baby video Because I thought he love babies to that he replied just like you ( the baby) now what it means? And we have platonic friendship but still is this some hint or anything or is it just casual?

I have one friend who keeps sharing me reels of kids every time and once he sent a reel of a mother and a baby and then he said that you in future and I just took it in a cute way only
and today I sent him one baby video Because I thought he love babies to that he replied just like you ( the baby) now what it means? And we have platonic friendship but still

I've come across several Instagram reels where people who aren't South Indian choose to have South Indian-style weddings, even though they don't belong to that culture. I know this might sound controversial, but it's something I've often wondered about.
India is incredibly diverse, with every region having its own unique traditions, rituals, and wedding customs. That's what makes our culture so beautiful. Sometimes I feel that people overlook the beauty of their own traditions and instead choose to adopt another culture's wedding style.
Personally, I believe every culture deserves to be preserved and celebrated. If your own wedding traditions are beautiful and meaningful, why not embrace them instead of replacing them with another region's customs? Likewise, you rarely see South Indians adopting Bengali, Rajasthani, or other regional wedding traditions for their own weddings.
This isn't about saying one culture is better than another—it's simply about appreciating and preserving the traditions we grow up with while respecting the uniqueness of every culture.

Why does your type or the ideal partner you want in a men or women you only see them in public but they are total strangers so you just check out them and ignore and then you never meet them again😭😭 why can’t such people be in your college , office or from your circle? But always end up seeing them in public but can’t approach them because you don’t know them.

Have you guys ever wondered if any celebrity or actors might secretly be using Reddit

So, I don't know how to explain this, but last April we had the Daiva Sthapana inauguration ceremony at our Bhoota Daiva house. That night, I witnessed something I had never seen before. My aunty got possessed when the Daiva idols arrived at the house. It was a very emotional moment, but at the same time, it was quite scary.
Now let me go back a few months before that. We had a Darshana at our house, where I wasn't present but the other family members were. During the Darshana, the Patri said that we had to believe in Varthe. My family members replied that they didn't believe in Varthe yet. At that very moment, the same aunty got possessed and started shouting. We were then told that it was Varthe possessing her, so we believed it. After that incident, we also started believing in Varthe as well as Panjurli.
However, the very next day, when the pooja and Darshana were going on again, the same aunty got possessed once more. She was becoming extremely tired because it kept happening.
This was actually something completely new for me, so we decided to perform another Darshana. This time it was a Varthe Darshana, and the Varthe Daiva (Patri) told us that it wasn't Varthe possessing her but a spirit that had attached itself to her. He said that certain rituals had to be performed to get rid of it.
But I still don't understand one thing. Why was she getting possessed only during something related to Varthe or whenever she was near the Varthe Daiva? Does anyone have any conclusion or explanation about this?

So, I don't know how to explain this, but last April we had the Daiva Sthapana inauguration ceremony at our Bhoota Daiva house. That night, I witnessed something I had never seen before. My aunty got possessed when the Daiva idols arrived at the house. It was a very emotional moment, but at the same time, it was quite scary.
Now let me go back a few months before that. We had a Darshana at our house, where I wasn't present but the other family members were. During the Darshana, the Patri said that we had to believe in Varthe. My family members replied that they didn't believe in Varthe yet. At that very moment, the same aunty got possessed and started shouting. We were then told that it was Varthe possessing her, so we believed it. After that incident, we also started believing in Varthe as well as Panjurli.
However, the very next day, when the pooja and Darshana were going on again, the same aunty got possessed once more. She was becoming extremely tired because it kept happening.
This was actually something completely new for me, so we decided to perform another Darshana. This time it was a Varthe Darshana, and the Varthe Daiva (Patri) told us that it wasn't Varthe possessing her but a spirit that had attached itself to her. He said that certain rituals had to be performed to get rid of it.
But I still don't understand one thing. Why was she getting possessed only during something related to Varthe or whenever she was near the Varthe Daiva? Does anyone have any conclusion or explanation about this?

don't know why, but I've always been like this. Ever since I was a child, I used to deliberately dress badly or try to look unattractive whenever I went out—to tuition, school, or anywhere in public. I just didn't like the unnecessary attention from men, so I intentionally tried to look ugly. Over time, it became a habit, and I still do the same thing.
Even when I was in college, I would deliberately dress poorly or try not to look attractive so I wouldn't get attention. Now I'm 23 years old, and I still repeat the same pattern. It's not that I'm comfortable with it anymore—it has simply become a habit that I can't seem to break.
Even now, whenever I go outside, I try to look as simple and plain as possible. I know I could dress better or wear makeup, but I avoid doing it because I start overthinking that it might attract unnecessary attention from guys. So I end up avoiding looking pretty.
Now I don't want to live like this anymore. I want to be myself without constantly worrying about what others might think or how they might react. How do I stop these overthinking thoughts, break this habit, and finally become the person I truly want to be?