u/Competitive_Arm9397

So I was a neet aspirant and couldn't score really well in neet even after my drop , so i am now getting btech food tech from a goverment college which will cost me 6 lakhs including everything. My father is forcing me for private mbbs and he is abusing me daily because I am rejecting his idea of btech food tech that degree will cost me 80 lakhs+ including everything. I geniunely feel scared that these days wave of unemployment is crazy and i feel mbbs is the only path that can lead to Good money but over the time i realised that I never had any inclination towards mbbs everytime I build a path it always ended with iim's mba , I don't know how to do and what to do , I don't even get sleep anymore i feel so bad that mera kya hoga I am so scared I don't give a f about my dad I am really scared if I will be able to make my mom and bhai happy :'(

So , I am 19 yr old and yes I failed my neet entrance exam 2nd time and i didn't wanted to give one more attempt again . So , I wanted to do something in finance which I always wanted to do , when I asked my father to get me enrolled in bcom or ba eco ( mind you with my marks I was getting top colleges in both bhu and du ) , my father said no to it . Again , when I told my father I will fill bsc , he told me why to do this ghar bethke pocha jhadu karna hai toh karle yeh toh local college se bhi ho jayegi , I was like I am getting miranda and hansraj bitch how are you comparing two good colleges like this . He made me withdraw from du . Now he is forcing me for private mbbs , when I told him I don't want to do it he abused me so much that me and my mother cried daily . It's been 1 month i am listening so much abusive words around me , how can I even explain it my own dad is praying for my downfall. I have got my name everywhere in goverment btech colleges for pcb related course , du , bhu and what not . He is telling me how I will roam on roads if I won't do mbbs . Ik i am doing really weird degree in btech it's btech food tech and management but my main aim has always been management, whenever i tell him what I want I hear abuses . It's just so sad that this is what my life is like everyone gets to do whatever they want to do and I am being said so many bad things about myself . I am being slut shammed and scrutinized by my own father . Am I doing a mistake ? Just because I am not choosing pvt mbbs , I don't want to waste 80 lakhs on something , am I wrong ? I don't want land to be sold , I don't want my father's saving to be gone ?

So , I am 19 yr old and yes I failed my neet entrance exam 2nd time and i didn't wanted to give one more attempt again . So , I wanted to do something in finance which I always wanted to do , when I asked my father to get me enrolled in bcom or ba eco ( mind you with my marks I was getting top colleges in both bhu and du ) , my father said no to it . Again , when I told my father I will fill bsc , he told me why to do this ghar bethke pocha jhadu karna hai toh karle yeh toh local college se bhi ho jayegi , I was like I am getting miranda and hansraj bitch how are you comparing two good colleges like this . He made me withdraw from du . Now he is forcing me for private mbbs , when I told him I don't want to do it he abused me so much that me and my mother cried daily . It's been 1 month i am listening so much abusive words around me , how can I even explain it my own dad is praying for my downfall. I have got my name everywhere in goverment btech colleges for pcb related course , du , bhu and what not . He is telling me how I will roam on roads if I won't do mbbs . Ik i am doing really weird degree in btech it's btech food tech and management but my main aim has always been management, whenever i tell him what I want I hear abuses . It's just so sad that this is what my life is like everyone gets to do whatever they want to do and I am being said so many bad things about myself . I am being slut shammed and scrutinized by my own father . Am I doing a mistake ? Just because I am not choosing pvt mbbs , I don't want to waste 80 lakhs on something , am I wrong ? I don't want land to be sold , I don't want my father's saving to be gone ?

I am from india and i have a biology background so we don't have option its either medical science or go to change your career . I wasn't allowed to change my degrees to social sciences or finance cause my parents think that only thing these degrees will only lead to unemployment. So, through counselling, i got really good college for food technology and management, i was really happy with it , But now my indian father is telling me that he is so ashamed to even tell people around me which degree his daughter is doing. These things are making me feel bad about myself

So I am going to be in first year student at btech food tech and management goverment college and put college is very renowned and it has nirf ranking 22 in agriculture sector .

The management we are taught us related to agribusiness management.

But i want to get into IIM ABC

My profile : 92.6/86.8/x

Sc female btech

I need some tips as well for cat and how to make my profile much better because people who are 10x better than me are in iim so I wanna know where I stand in front of them .

So Hello greetings to everyone, I am food technology and management student from India . I was always intrested in coding and stuff but due to some instances I am not getting branches where i can learn to code but I want to know is there any field where we can combine both food sciences and technology/tech/coding together?

~> kutte ki maut he maregi ( dad)

~> accha course hai , dabbe ki line pe lag jayegi accha khasa kama legi (dad)

~> yeh pakka dar dar bhatkegi , iska kuch nahi hona ( dad)

~> I did minor mistake while posting and regarding documents , he called me ki tu soti rehti hai , terese kuch nahi hona , tara maan bhi hai courses karne ka

~> He told my mum that I won't be coming to the college apne ap chale jana , mujhe shok nahi hai aane ka .

~> mama told me I am being a bad daughter just because I am not listening to my dad for joining private mbbs . I am disappointing him.

I know mbbs will fetch me very very good money but I belive I don't want to spend this much money on mbbs degree and my father is literally mentally harassing me for mbbs calls me tu btech bhi maat bhar ba bed karke ghar behtja kuch maat kar bartan manjh .

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MERA NI HUA KYA SIRF ?

Hello everyone , i am 19 yr old student and a neet failure , my father is suggesting mbbs from pvt which i don't want for sure and i can't take another drop . I can't face any mental torment anymore . I have two option and both of them have pros and cons .

1.Btech biotech : Its from IVRI , so it is animal based as in there are some topics that are not present in it which are usually taught in normal biotech courses and most of my family is suggesting that mtech and phd is must for it . I do like bio and i am ready to give my best here .

2.Btech food technology and managment : Its from NIFTEM , people are bashing this degree a lot on reddit but on other hand linkdien seniors are very much praising it . I do have intrest in biology and chemistry

I am not allowed to take degree other than btech or medical field by my parents , they aren't supporting me for it . I was getting top du colleges for bsc and bcom , top college in bhu for eco and psychology which are more corporately inclined . Please help me :)

myquals neet failure

Btao yaar

I am getting btech food tech and management but everyone is telling me there is no to little scope in it on reddit but on other hand linkdien people are saying it's good college when I talked to seniors there . I am already a neet dropper I don't wanna waste my life now I am tired

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Merit list he haata di ☺️

Everyone here is bashing on reddit that one should never opt for food technology if you don't want to end miserable on the other hand i talked to a lot of people seniors from this college, passouts , student studying there . Everyone has given me very positive remark for it .

I am shit scared