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Hi! Fingers crossed this post finally goes through. Quick disclaimer: I am a Filipina living in the Philippines, not India.

The internet has made the world so small, and I love connecting over different cultures, food, and family traditions. Indian culture has always fascinated me. I love how rich, colorful, and deeply family-oriented it is. It feels very human and beautiful to me.

I will be the first to admit that attraction is important to me, and I definitely melt for a good looking guy. But good looks can only take things so far. A great personality is what truly keeps my attention. At the end of the day, I am looking for a real and deep connection, someone I can laugh with effortlessly, a solid friendship, and a love that feels totally safe..

Meeting on Reddit is not exactly organic, but how we fall in love can be. I strongly believe in being friends first. I want to really know you before jumping into anything serious. Let's take our time figuring out each other's weird habits, dreams, how our farts smell, and daily routines.

About me... I am a 28-year-old Multimedia Studies student with a very creative soul. My routine is pretty night-owl friendly, and I spend a lot of my time spinning vinyl, taking my vintage camera out for street photography, or blowing off steam at Muay Thai. I smoke and drink, have lots of piercings and tattoos. Non-Vegetarian. I am also diagnosed with a mental illness. If you are open-minded, I can tell you about it.

I am drawn to guys who are emotionally intelligent, effortlessly funny, affectionate, and caring. You get major bonus points if you want to teach me about your culture and send me random photos of your day.

I am not here to play games. I am just hoping to find someone who is equally curious about finding love across borders.

Hi!

I'm a 27F woman from Ahmedabad, working in a Large Molecule Lab. Most of my weekdays(and weekends) are spent in a lab keeping cells alive, and somehow I'm better at that than keeping houseplants alive.

Outside work, I'm a mix of science nerd, hopeless romantic, professional overthinker, and someone who gets way too excited about good food, late-night conversations, and finding memes that are painfully relatable.

Since we're all adults here, I'd rather be upfront about something important. I have avascular necrosis in both hips. I manage it well, I work full-time, I'm independent, and it doesn't define me—but it is a part of my life, so I'd rather mention it now than spring it on someone later. If that makes you disappear, we're probably not meant for each other anyway.

A few non-negotiables:

- You should be 27–31.

- You eat non-vegetarian food (I do too, and I'd prefer someone who enjoys it rather than merely tolerates it).

-Be emotionally available and communicate like an adult.

-Kindness and consistency matter more to me than having a perfectly curated life.

I'm open to a long-distance relationship, but I want to set expectations honestly. I can't relocate or switch jobs for at least the next year because of my career, so if you're looking for someone who can move immediately, I'm probably not your person.

If you're curious, emotionally mature, can laugh at yourself, enjoy meaningful conversations as much as stupid ones, and are just a little vichitra in the best way possible, I'd love to hear from you.

Hey! I'm from Kerala. Currently work-free and figuring out my next move.

Personal Details:

• Age: 28
• Height: 5’8" (173 cm)
• Marital status: Single
• Education Level: Post-Graduate
• Occupation: Accountant

A little more about me:

• Introverted by nature, but I open up a lot with the right person.
• I enjoy calm, meaningful one-on-one conversations.
• Into tech, random facts, nerdy topics, and the occasional deep discussion about life.
• Good listener (probably my best trait).
• Prefer a small circle over big crowds.
• Agnostic, from a Christian family background.
• I value honesty, emotional maturity, kindness, and mutual respect.

What I'm looking for:

• A genuine, long-term relationship.
• Someone who enjoys both silly everyday conversations and deeper ones.
• Kind, emotionally mature, and authentic.
• Introverts or ambiverts would probably match my vibe well.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to message.

Important disclaimer: Looking for a successful working woman who's specifically searching for a work-free husband. /s

Hello everyone.

Myself 29 Male, doctor from Karnataka currently doing post graduation at Mumbai.

I am looking to date with intention of genuineness and real connections, not interested in Casuals.

My height- 5'11"

About me - I am quiet curious, active minded and ambitious person with hardworking and humble nature. Been academically among vgud grades throughout life and was always interested in studies so I do that nicely.

I would say I am quiet old school, people around me say I have good sense of humour.

I am interested to roam and travel new places . I am very much into genuine connections of friendship and relationship rather than timepass and casuals. I always prefer to hold my self respect and be with people who love and respect you.

I neither smoke nor drink.

I prefer a doctor girl, age 25-32, who is understanding, supportive, a non smoker and loves to get adored bcoz I am more of giver, I like providing love and adoring (brought up by default such in family).

Kindly dm if it resonates.

Some disclaimers based on the experience I had when I made the last post here:

1. Do NOT DM if you are not over 33.

2. Do NOT DM if you are a married guy seeking "female friendship" coz God knows what's wrong with your marital life.

3. Do NOT DM if you want to enlighten yourself about how it feels to be single at 35 and looking for some gyan.

4. Do NOT DM seeking casual/situationship/flirting/blah blah blah that does not align with what I am looking for.

5. Do NOT DM for any other purpose than what I'm putting up the post for.

6. Do NOT DM with flowery messages which some AI tool has helped you generate. I am not here to meet an AI tool.

Such DMs will be ignored at best or reported at worst.

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I am sharing some basic details. I am looking for a connection that can lead to a blessed marriage.

If you think we align, please send a short message introducing yourself and what you're looking for. We can start from there.

Age: 35

Place: Bangalore/Hyderabad

Marital status: Never married

Height: 5'8

Diet: Non-vegetarian

Job: A corporate 9-6 job

Salary: Around 35-40 lpa

Caste: Kannada Gowda

Mother tongue: Kannada; fluent in English, Telugu and Hindi

Lifestyle: active, fitness is a major part of my lifestyle

Hobbies: Running, Badminton, Cafe hopping, visiting/exploring events/activities related to arts, culture, tech, literature etc

Personality: Introvert to ambivert depending on how I connect with people.

Religious inclination: Believe in God, Hindu, not very much into rituals, I would say I am spiritual

Political leaning: Moderate

Kids: Want

Looking for an emotionally mature man who can hold conversations and is in a similar life phase as me.

Marital status: Not married (non-negotiable)

Location: Bangalore/Hyderabad or willing to settle down long term in either of these cities. (Negotiable)

Age: 33-38

Height: Above 5'10

Diet: Non-vegetarian

Job: Similar (salaried). I don't gel well with start-up founders/VC/businessmen etc. based on my prior experience for a long term relationship.

Salary: Similar; +/-15-20%

Lifestyle: Should be active. By that I mean being in shape and taking fitness seriously and not saying 8k steps per day is being fit. It is a mindset thing and not about being physically attractive/not.

Religion: Hindu (non-negotiable); Gowda/Reddy preferred, not a deal breaker.

Mother tongue: Kannada/Telugu would be good. Not a deal breaker.

Hobbies: Have one outside of work.

Personality: Not too loud.

Kids: Want

Politics: Not too extreme.

People who are on reddit to police others, don't bother commenting/sending DM. I am at an age where I know what aligns with me and what doesn't. The tone is formal and not rude/snobbish.

Thank you.

So hello everyone, just like most people on this group. I have also been on the Matrimony sites for a while now, and I find hard to find someone who is compatible and who fits the criteria that I require in a life partner.
So here are certain details about me so you will get a clear picture, and I would also put in details about what I’m looking for in a partner, so I guess that would give a an idea.

About me

Age : 29
Height : 5ft
Looks : Fair and above Avg body type
Gender : Female
Hometown : Chennai (Native is Andhra Pradesh so Telugu)
Religion : Hindu
Community : Balija Naidu (If it matters, I honestly do not care too much about it)
Languages : Telugu, Tamil, Hindi and English
Educational Background: Btech, MBA
Current Location : Bengaluru
Working : Yes
Annual Income : 20 lpa
Hobbies: Playing sports, Dancing, Singing, Travelling.
Also a huge pet enthusiast! So animals make me happy.
Family Background : Upper Middle Class
Kids : Want Kids
Intention : Looking to get married in the next 1 year.

What you should know about me?
So Im your next door girl, I like simple things in life. I am very family oriented, I have a very modern outlook in life and at the same time follow traditions at home. I am very fun loving, sincere and care too much about the people I love.

What Am I looking for?
Physical Features : Someone 5’8 and above with a beard ( Just a personal preference)
Community : Doesnt Matter
Language : Preferably someone telugu but Im not too particular about it.
Location : Doesnt matter
Family : A liberal close knit family family who would treat me with lots of love and care as I would do the same. Preferably similar financial background.
Annual Income : 20lpa and above
Age : 28-33
Characteristics : Someone calm, mature, loving, who loves to travel, who values the concept of family and marriage, ambitious and with good eq and maybe a little bit of romance.

Please Note : Please share your shaadi/insta id with photos and details in dm. I dont want to begin a conversation without knowing if our criterias match and theres mutual attraction.

If youve made it this far! Thanks for stopping by! See you on the other side.

Hello 👋

I'm 29 years old female, Hindu & I'm from North India(UP), my parents & me(via arrange marriage setups & matrimonial apps) have been looking for a partner for me but nothing has worked out.

About Me: I'm currently not working but have been preparing for government exams.( Will discuss more about it in dms.)

I love writing, reading, playing badminton, astrology, learning about Philosophies like Advaita Vedanta.

I'm a spiritual & religious person(a vegetarian)and also someone who likes to be physically & mentally fit hence I'm into Gymming too. I deeply value relationships and the most important thing for me in a relationship is 'Communciation', I believe as long as we communicate about things we are doing fine otherwise it's not worth it.

I'm looking for a relationship where I can talk about everything that ranges from spirituality, universe, food, cinema, idea of existence, to life itself with my partner. Afterall, I do not want a boring relationship where two people just stay together for the sake of marriage but I want a relationship where there's mutual respect, loyalty, understanding & lots of travelling & things to talk about!

My non-negotiables:

1. I want a partner who doesn't smoke , since I have a weird aversion to smoking, I just can't stand it. Also a vegetarian/vegan partner. Looking for someone from same religion.

2. Someone spiritual, who understands the deeper intricacies of life & can ask difficult questions & ready to find answers together.

3. Preferably, someone from North- India itself.

4. Someone who's not looking for casual stuff and serious about dating and marriage.

5. Someone not boring, & ready to try out new things like travelling to lesser known places, trying new cuisine, going out together for adventure activities etc. Precisely, someone who appreciates life with all it's ups & downs.

6. Since I like to be physically fit & active,I do want my partner too having the same preference. You may be a gym person or a sports enthusiast or into yoga whatever you like to stay fit everything works , as long as you like to keep yourself a active & fit.

Edit: A lot of people are confused about my preference for state, I would like to have someone who's born & brought up in North(so that culture aligns)but they maybe working anywhere like Pune, Bangalore or even in a foreign country. But even if you're not from North, it isn't a dela breaker!

[M4F] 31 | SF Bay Area, USA | IT Engineer (SRE) - Looking for a partner to share life's adventures, minimalist living, and weekend hikes.

Hi everyone! I’m a 5'11" IT Engineer (Site Reliability Engineer) based in San Francisco. I moved to the U.S. in 2017 for my Master's degree and have since built a fulfilling career in the tech and finance sector. I’m a minimalist at heart who values a simple, intentional life where career ambitions meet deep, meaningful connections.

My weekdays are structured, mostly focused on work, hitting the gym, and occasionally winding down with a movie. On the weekends, I love to stay active:

**Saturdays:** You'll usually find me on the volleyball court playing a few matches.

**Sundays:** Dedicated to nature, I love hiking, road trips, and discovering hidden gems.

I strongly believe that sharing good food, genuine laughter, and memorable experiences is what makes life special.

**Future Goals:**

In the next few years, I hope to travel across the U.S. and create unforgettable adventures with my future partner, while building a life rooted in togetherness and community.

**Visa Status:**

I am currently on an H-1B visa, and my I-140 petition is in its final processing stage (expecting approval within the next 6 months).

**Background & Culture:**

**Age & Height:** 31 (Born late 1994) | 5'11"

**Location:** San Francisco Bay Area, CA

**Roots:** Originally from Bangalore, India (Vokkaliga community).

**Astrology:** Tula Rashi, Swati Nakshatra (if it matters to you).

**Family****:** Closely knit, well-educated family. My younger brother is also in the U.S. working as a Data Scientist.

**What I’m Looking For:**

I am looking for a Hindu partner currently residing in the USA or Canada. I have a progressive outlook, so caste and mother tongue/language are absolutely no barrier for me.

I am a loyal, "one-woman man" looking to build a lasting bond rooted in friendship and trust. I want to be upfront that I am looking for a serious life partnership, not a casual or sexual connection.

I am seeking someone who is kind, educated, emotionally intelligent, and well-cultured, a person who balances a modern outlook with strong family values. Ideally, you love staying active (hiking, road trips, or travel) but also appreciate the peace of a minimalist lifestyle.

My expectations are simple, and I believe the best way to see if we align is through open communication. If this resonates with you, feel free to slide into my DMs with a little bit about yourself!

Trying my luck here because arranged marriage scene konchem scary anipisthundi these days 😅. Parents are actively looking, but I genuinely want to find my person by myself. So... here goes!

About Me
27F | Software Engineer + Entrepreneur | Working in Hyderabad

I'm a Full Stack Software Engineer and also building my own business alongside my job.

Muslim by family background, but personally I'm an atheist. I respect everyone's beliefs, but I'm more practical, logical, and straightforward in life.

Career is very important to me. I'm self-made, ambitious, and always looking to grow.

Personality-wise, once I'm comfortable, I'm fun, sarcastic, expressive, caring, and loyal. I enjoy traveling, exploring new places, trying good food, and making memories.

Above all, I value honesty, emotional safety, communication, and mutual respect.

What I'm Looking For:

• Muslim background (preferably not very religious; atheist/agnostic would be a huge plus).

> Muslim background only because my family wouldn't accept another religion.

• Preferably from Telangana or someone planning to settle in Hyderabad.

> Distance matters because I believe getting to know each other properly before marriage is important.

• Age: 27–30

• Height: Around 5'7"–5'9"

• Non-smoker & Non-drinker (Strictly)

Personality Matters More Than Anything

I'm looking for someone who is:

✔ Well educated

✔ Ambitious & hardworking

✔ Emotionally available

✔ Mature & understanding

✔ Open-minded

✔ Family-oriented

✔ Respectful towards women and relationships

✔ Physically fit & financially independent

Tech background or entrepreneurship would be a plus because we'll probably understand each other's lifestyle better.

I honestly don't care about family wealth or inherited assets. I'd rather be with someone talented, capable, and someone who can build his own future.

Bonus Points 😄

If you're funny...

Good at conversations...

Know meme references...

Can roast me occasionally...

...we'll probably get along really well😂

Being the only daughter to my parents, I naturally have responsibilities towards my family. I'm looking for someone who understands that and believes marriage is about supporting both families, not choosing one over the other.

For me, marriage isn't just about finding a husband.

I want my partner to be my best friend, biggest supporter, travel buddy, safe space, and teammate for life. Someone with whom we can grow together, build a beautiful life, and enjoy every phase without regrets.

Serious intentions only. Timepass, casual chats, or "hi" messages won't work.

If you genuinely think we'd be compatible, send me a message introducing yourself (age, profession, location, and a little about you).

Let's see where life takes us..

33 M Lucknow, looking for my forever best friend

Hi guys,

This is not going to be AI generated since I want this to be as organic as possible.

Age - 33 M

Location - Lucknow

Religion - hindu

Caste - no bar (I fall in baniya if it matters)

Family background - super chill and supportive and hence I don't wish to go arrange marriage route because it objectifies individuals

Height - 178 cms, 5'10"

Occupation - engineering business, with annual margin ~ 30 lpa

Diet - I am vegetarian, I don't mind your preference

Past professional - I have done Btech and worked in Pune across 3 IT companies before deciding to sideline the corporate setup

Hobbies -

1. Can be boring, but I'm a geopolitical and history nerd (yes, I'll be up for unesco sites always - this stems from my upsc cse journey where I had given 4 mains)

2. I do occasionally drink

3. I love lying around beaches and intermittent dip and chill while reading a nice book

4. I love to cook ( from your staple dal chawal to yummy pasta I have covered it all)

5. I like working out (although I'm not a big gym rat)

Looking for any person, who is emotionally mature and available to nurture this into a beautiful and fun filled relationship.

Open to relocation - As we are starting a new vertical in the business in manufacturing, it will be difficult for me to move out of Lucknow, would appreciate it if this point is noted

Age: 30 Male, Sikh
Height: 5’7”
Education: MBBS, MD Radiodiagnosis
Profession: Radiologist
About Me:
I’m a radiologist by profession, but that’s only one part of who I am. I’m someone who enjoys learning, building new ideas, and taking paths that aren’t always conventional. Whether it’s medicine, technology, or entrepreneurship, I like working towards things that create lasting value.
I’m ambitious, curious, and believe that growth is a lifelong process. I appreciate honesty, meaningful conversations, a good sense of humour, and people who are comfortable being themselves. I value family, but I also believe every relationship should be built on mutual respect, trust, and individuality.
Spiritually, I stay connected to my Sikh roots and try to live by values like humility, seva, and gratitude. I’m not rigid or overly ritualistic, but I do believe in having a strong inner centre—staying grounded, balanced, and mindful regardless of life’s ups and downs. For me, spirituality is more about how you live and treat others than just what you practice.
Looking For:
A kind, emotionally mature doctor who has ambitions of her own, values honesty, and believes marriage is about growing together rather than fitting into traditional expectations. Someone who’s ready to build a meaningful life filled with mutual support, respect, and plenty of laughter.
Important:
I’m specifically looking for a doctor as a life partner. Beyond the profession, what matters most to me is kindness, mutual respect, compatibility, and a shared vision for building a meaningful life together.
P.S. Writing about yourself is surprisingly difficult. I promise I’m far more interesting (and funnier) in an actual conversation than I sound here.

27M, based out of Mumbai. I’m 6 feet, Jain, fairly good looking (or so I’ve been told 😅), and currently running my own company that should close around 2 Cr this year. Professionally things are scaling decently , but personally I’ve realised I value peace, maturity and genuine connection way more than flashy lifestyles.

I live pretty simply - most of my time goes into work, building the company, fitness, and spending time with close people. I rarely party, don’t drink or smoke, and I’m generally very practical, respectful and emotionally mature. I can be very direct/straightforward too, which some people appreciate and some don’t

Looking to meet a girl in Mumbai who’s grounded, emotionally stable, kind, and aligned on values. Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, has their own ambitions, and doesn’t play games.

You could probably Google me pretty easily if I shared my actual name/company since we recently got featured in the news 😅 but I’ll save that for later if we vibe :)

Interested girls can DM - Probably best not to if you’re NOT in Mumbai. Not a fan of long distance.

Sat sri akaal 

I'm a hindu girl who absolutely loves sikhism and I'm looking for a relationship with the intention of marriage. I'm looking for a Sikh, but I'm open to hindu punjabi too (I understand the difference) no caste bar 

I have developed a profound love and respect toward Sikhism over the years. I find peace in its values and grounding philosophy, seva and the simplicity really resonate with me.

I'm an introvert and a soft spoken girl, recently turned 28. Looks wise I’ve been considered good looking, fair, with long hair, my height is 5'4". I have a mix of modern as well as traditional values and deeply connected with my roots and principles. I'm also very old school. 

Vegetarian, No drink/smoke, workout fit

I love fitness and healthy eating (I love spicy and junk food too, thanks to my fast metabolism)

Professionally, I'm working, ambitious and continuously learning to achieve more in life.

I dated once long back if that matters to you I'm ok to talk about it in dm. 

Definitely not a hookup/casual dating person. 

Partner Preferences:  

Age: 27-31 (below 26 strictly don't dm)

Height: above 5'6"  

Never married 

Vegetarian (fine with eggetarian and non-vegetarian if its not regular)

No drink/smoke/drugs

Looks and physical attraction matter to me, I want someone who takes care of his health, hygiene and is into fitness too.

I want someone mature who values loyalty and integrity. Someone who is loving, understanding and communicates well.

A gentleman who knows how to talk to a sensitive girl.

Someone who makes his own decisions independently.

Location: I'm open to relocate for the right man, since I was born and raised in a metro city I'll prefer a city (except delhi and haryana, I just dont prefer to stay there).

I'm interested to settle abroad in future. 

If you would like to connect, please know that I'm looking for serious relationship only, I'm NOT looking for let's see where it goes.

Please DM with introduction and basic details like age, location, little bit about you, etc. 

Just Hi/Hello DM will be ignored.

I DO NOT entertain flirts in dm.

I'm here to hopefully find someone special who shares my interests and values. I may come off as a bit shy at first, but once you get to know me, you'll find that I have a great sense of humor and a kind heart.

I'm a self-proclaimed introvert, and I enjoy spending time alone or with a small group of close friends. I find that I recharge my energy best when I have some quiet time to reflect and unwind. That being said, I do love going out and exploring new places, trying new foods, and experiencing new things. I'm always up for an adventure!

I'm a bit of a nerd at heart. Whether it's reading a good book, playing video games, or tinkering with technology, I love immersing myself in the things I enjoy.

I value honesty, communication, and kindness above all else. I want to find someone who is authentic and genuine, who is comfortable being themselves around me. I'm not looking for someone who is perfect – just someone who is perfect for me.

So, if you're looking for someone who is kind, funny, and a little bit introverted, feel free to send me a message. I'm excited to see where this journey takes us!

I’m a 39-year-old divorced Christian woman with no children, looking for a genuine, Christ-centered relationship that leads to marriage.
I believe life is meant to be lived with purpose, one day at a time. I’m drawn to deep conversations, spiritual growth, and meaningful connections that go beyond appearances. I value character, faith, kindness, and the kind of bond where two people help each other grow closer to God and become better versions of themselves.
Life has taught me that the deepest things are often invisible. We live in a world that celebrates appearance, success, and instant gratification, but I’ve come to believe that the most valuable parts of a person cannot be seen with the eyes. Character, integrity, faith, compassion, humility, wisdom, and the ability to love sacrificially are treasures that grow quietly over time.
I try to live each day with purpose rather than simply existing. I believe every day is a gift from God and an opportunity to become a little more loving, a little wiser, and a little more like Christ. I don’t measure a meaningful life by possessions, social status, or how impressive someone appears. Instead, I admire people who keep their promises, serve others without expecting recognition, choose forgiveness over resentment, and remain faithful even when life is difficult.
I’m fascinated by conversations that go beyond everyday small talk. I enjoy discussing faith, the meaning of suffering, God’s purpose for our lives, personal growth, books that change the way we think, the beauty of creation, the complexity of human nature, and the quiet lessons we learn through life’s joys and disappointments. I appreciate someone who asks thoughtful questions and isn’t afraid to admit they don’t have all the answers.
To me, a soul connection isn’t about instant chemistry alone. It’s about recognizing someone whose values, faith, and vision for life resonate with your own. It’s two imperfect people choosing honesty over pretending, grace over judgment, and commitment over convenience. It’s feeling safe enough to be completely yourself, knowing you’re accepted while also encouraging each other to become better.

If you’re a Christian man who also longs for a true soul connection, values depth over superficiality, and is looking for a lifelong partner rather than something casual, I’d love to hear from you.

DM me if this resonates with you.

34M | 5’11” | Air Traffic Controller | Looking for My Equal.

About Me

* 34 years old | 5’11”
* B.Tech + MBA
* Air Traffic Controller
* Based between Mumbai & Delhi
* Never married

Professionally, I help aircraft find their way safely. Personally, I’m hoping Reddit can help me find mine.

I’m someone who’s emotionally aware, practical, and values stability over drama. Introverted at first, but once I know someone, I’m expressive, caring, and enjoy deep conversations as much as silly banter. I believe a relationship should feel like peace, not a project.

Family

I come from a well-educated and respectable family. Sadly, I lost both my parents during the COVID pandemic. I have one elder sister who is happily married and settled with her family. While my immediate family is small now, I deeply value relationships, family bonds, and creating a warm home of my own.

Interests

* Singing
* Writing
* Movies & web series
* Table tennis
* Technology
* Travelling when time permits

A Few Honest Facts

*I believe in communication, accountability, and improving myself.
* Financially independent and career-settled.
* I value honesty over perfection.

Looking For

Someone between 27–34 years of age who is kind, emotionally mature, and genuinely interested in building a lifelong partnership. Education, career, or city are secondary to compatibility and mutual respect. I don’t have strong preferences regarding religion, caste, or horoscopewe’re building a future, not a spreadsheet.

If this sounds like someone you’d like to know, feel free to send a DM. Best case, we find what we’re both looking for. Worst case, we have a good conversation and gain a Reddit friend.

Hello reddmatch, I'm Kooky. I've been here all my life. And plan to stay here forever. I'm 26 years old, a medical student, preparing for an exam that'll make a surgeon in about 3 years time. Studying all day is tough, if you are too, you know how it is. **I'm looking for a girl, obviously, not sure how to describe her but when I see her I'll know.** I know you're out there doing some shady stuff rn. You need to get your shit together and make the move. You looked so happy on that Christmas eve, the night before I got this machine. And I've come back 17 years to tell you this, make the move now, I'm only here for a short time and idk how else to contact you. I know you're reading this... our life will be so much better if you make the move now. Because we will meet eventually when I'm working at Fortis, and you bring your aunt for her chest pain, but it will all be too late by then! This is the sign. The sign of the times, remember? Haha oh wait you' don't know it yet. Man convincing your wife from the past to make the move because you forgot her reddit username and now she thinks you're a creep and there's nothing you could tell her to make her believe you is hardd.

The Basics:
Age:31 · Height: 6’2 ft ·
Place: Hyderabad ·
Profession : Tech Entrepreneur.
Hobbies: Hobbies: Reading, writing, traveling (20 countries and counting) , swimming sometimes, yoga, meditation, chess used to play professionally in childhood , firearm shooting recently, diplomacy, international relations, and randomly becoming obsessed with new subjects for no reason.

Hyperactive. Ambitious. Probably incapable of living a small life (blame the childhood trauma :P) or just this constant feeling that there isn’t enough time for everything I want to do. Either way, that’s just how I’m wired.

I walked away from stable, well paying paths because comfort never really did it for me. Right now Iam building things, taking risks, figuring it out as I go, and honestly pretending to have a plan about half the time. I’d rather fail swinging for something real than spend my life wondering what if.

Mediocrity genuinely scares me more than failure. Make of that what you will.

I come from humble beginnings. Whatever I’ve built, I built myself. Still a long way to go. Still a lot I want. Still in the middle of it.

Iam also a workaholic, but not in the LinkedIn post kind of way. I just go all in on things I care about. Work, ideas, people, conversations, random rabbit holes at 1am. I genuinely don’t know what “half interested” means.

Over the years I have worked on some interesting things, represented India internationally, traveled to 20+ countries, and somehow still think the best moments in life are usually the stupidly simple ones.

What Iam actually looking for.

Someone I can annoy daily, argue with about where to eat, disappear on random road trips with, and sit in complete silence next to without it being weird. That kind of easy.

When I actually care about someone, Iam all in. No halfway effort.

One thing that’s non negotiable: I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs, and I’m looking for someone who doesn’t either. Not judging anyone. Just the kind of life I want. Also, I prefer the women whoa re younger than me.

If this resonates at all, reach out. Worst case, nothing happens. Best case, this odd little corner of the internet becomes a surprisingly important chapter in both our lives.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Red Flags: busy people. Short tempered.

Age: Already mentioned 5'11 | Delhi & Mumbai
B.Tech + MBA | Aviation professional with multiple certifications
Currently working in Mumbai.
I'd describe myself as someone who is emotionally aware yet practical, introverted yet deeply expressive with the right people. I value meaningful conversations, peace of mind, loyalty, and emotional maturity more than superficial things.
Life has shaped me early. I lost both my parents during Covid. My sister is happily married and well settled.
Those experiences made me stronger, more grounded, and someone who genuinely values human connection and kindness.
I'm not religious, but I strongly believe in humanity, empathy, and being a good person.
Outside work, I enjoy singing, writing, movies, table tennis, and anything tech-related. appreciate simple moments, intelligent conversations, dark humor, and people who are emotionally genuine.
Looking For
Not searching for perfection just a life partner who feels like peace after a long day. Someone with whom life feels lighter, less stressful, less boring, and more meaningful. A genuine companion to grow with, laugh with, and build a calm, happy life together.

Ok there's no candy, but there will be. Let's get to business first.

Personal Details

Age: 30

Height: 5’6"

Religion: Sikh, wears turban

Marital status: Single/Never Married

Location: US

Region: EST

Mother Tongue: Punjabi

Home Country: Punjab, India

Plan to settle abroad: already there

Occupation: Family Business/Consulting

Diet: Vegetarian ish

Family Background: Hard working, funny, kind, nuclear family

Partner Preferences

Desired age: 26–29+

Location Preferences: USA/Canada

Diet Preferences: Very loose

Occupation: Open to various professions

Marital Status: Never married

Want Kids after Marriage: Yes

Additional Information

Hobbies/Interests: Reading, travelling, tinkering, cooking, photography

Any other relevant details: Looking for a partner who values family, culture, and balances a traditional and modern outlook. I grew up half in India and half here, so personally I feel stuck between being too Desi and too Amrrekan. It's definitely hard to relate to various people around me. I just know I'm not the only one, so I know you are out there somewhere.

My ideal partner is nice, kind, funny, understanding, likes to communicate, and is adaptable. I don't drink, so I'd prefer someone who doesn't drink or smoke either. The rest we can discuss further over text, phone, or pigeons.

Contact: PM on Reddit

If you read this far and you really want candy, please let me know. I'll try my best to get you some candy.

VERY IMPORTANT NOTE: Please make sure you're aware that you will have to talk if you decide to reach out. I cannot carry the conversation for you. Let's respect each other's time. Also, please be funny. We are not making funeral arrangements here.