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23F4M MUMBAI LALBAUG

Mumbai lalbaug maharashtrian

Height: 154 cm

Weight:66 kg

Complexion: wheatish

Blood Group:O+ve

Capricorn

Manglik / Non-Manglik: Low Mangal

Caste: OBC

Religion: Hindu

Mother Tongue: Marathi

Nationality: Indian

Education

Degree: B.E. in Artificial Intelligence and Data

Professional Details

Current Status: Deloitte

Occupation: Data Engineer

Work Location:Mumbai

Annual Income: 7.5 LPA

Family Details

Siblings: Younger Brother

Native Place: Kolhapur

Lifestyle & Interests

Diet: Prefers Vegetarian, No Mutton, No egg, selective fish and crabs

Hobbies: Travelling, Music, Reading, Yoga, zoology, animal anatomy

Languages Known: Marathi, English, Hindi

Personality Traits: Calm, Caring, Ambitious, Family-oriented, Spiritual

Partner Preference

Age Range: 22-25 years

Height: Taller than 5.6 ft

Education: Graduate or Postgraduate, better if a biotechnologist or engineer.

Location Preference: Not Rural, If Rural good electricity facilities Other Qualities: Understanding, Supportive, Kind, Family-oriented, Spiritual, Tidy, good care taker

Contact Details

Address: Mumbai, Maharashtra

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u/SuitOne7046 — 2 days ago

Looking for a forever partner | 27F Delhi

Giving this one final shot before my parents officially begin the arranged marriage process for me 😭

Please don’t read further or message me if you’re not looking for something real, long-term, and emotionally mature. I genuinely want someone who can communicate, be honest, and show up consistently.

So hi , I’m 27 (turning 28 in September). Hindu, semi-religious, hardcore non-vegetarian, huge Bollywood fan, and an old-school romantic at heart. I’m someone who likes being fully myself instead of constantly filtered, diplomatic, or pretending to be “cool.”

I love dogs and definitely want pets in the future. I want a relationship where we travel together, try adventure sports, have fun, laugh a lot, and actually enjoy life as partners and best friends.

I’ve lived outside Delhi for my graduation and spent 4 years in Australia for my master’s and work, so I understand independence, responsibility, and what life away from home teaches you. I’ve only moved back to India less than 4 months ago and am currently working at a startup while figuring out my next long-term move professionally.

Because of my life experiences, I’d ideally want someone with a modern outlook toward marriage and relationships. I would prefer living separately as a couple eventually, nearby family or even in the same building is completely fine, but I do value having our own space and independence as partners.

I come from an upper middle-class family and would ideally want someone from a similar family background as well.

I’m 5’5”, currently overweight, but actively working on myself and have already lost some weight too. Currently based in Delhi and open to a few other locations too, but ideally tier-1 cities only.

Personality-wise? I’m passionate, fiercely loyal, expressive, affectionate, extremely communicative (yes, I talk A LOT), pretty intellectual but also incredibly goofy. I love cooking and baking, I have anxious attachment tendencies I’m self-aware about, and I’m honestly just a hopeless romantic who still believes love should feel safe, exciting, soft, and intentional.

What I’m looking for:

* Age: 28–32

* Height: 5’7 and above

* Someone emotionally available, communicative, affectionate, funny, secure, and genuinely looking for a partnership

If this resonates, feel free to message 😄

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u/harshita1998 — 2 days ago
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28M | 🩺 Autopsy Surgeon in Andhra Pradesh ,looking for the Sherlock to my Watson . 🔪

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About me

The Profession: Yes, my day job looks like an episode of CSI. As a forensic doctor, my work is intense, clinical, and completely fascinating. Bonus: If you are a fan of crime, mystery, or horror stories, I have an endless supply of real-life-inspired tales to share that will easily outdo any Netflix thriller.

The Vibe: Because my professional life deals with the serious stuff, I make sure my personal life is the exact opposite: entirely chill, drama-free, and laid-back. When I'm not unraveling medical mysteries, you’ll find me unwinding with a massive anime marathon or binge-watching a new series.

Appearance & Lifestyle: I’m 5'8" and fair-complexioned. While I spend my days in scrubs, I clean up exceptionally well—I look and dress decent enough for a doctor when I'm off the clock.

Background & Finances: I’m a Telugu guy earning a stable living (~1L/pm) based out of Andhra.

Family Values: I’m a strong believer in family and want to live with either one set of parents post-marriage to keep that warmth and connection alive. ✨

Partner Requirements & Preferences

Age: Looking for someone aged 25–30.

Caste: Absolutely no barriers. I don't bother about caste at all; compatibility and mindset matter way more.

Personality: I’m looking for an open-minded, partner who is ready to build a grounded, happy life together.

Location:- Andhra Pradesh or Telangana

Let's Connect: If you want a guy who can give you the best TV recommendations, share late-night spooky stories, and balances a unique career with a totally easygoing lifestyle, drop a DM!

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u/Dr_scalpels — 2 days ago

26 F, MBBS Intern, Mumbai

Hi everyone,

26 F, Ht- 5’1. Wt- 60 kg. Wheatish complexion

Brought up in Mumbai since I was 6 months old. Birth place- Patna, parents originally from there.

Religion- Hindu

Past relationship- 1 (lasted only for 2 months if you care)

Preparing for USMLE (It’s a medical licensing exam to practice in USA). Will probably move there in 2-3 years if I get a job.

I’m more comfortable in English than Hindi.

Non vegetarian. Non smoker and non drinker.

I’m child free by choice and expect my partner to be so. Maybe Open to adopt in my late 30s or 40s but not sure. I do love cats though and I am hoping to adopt one in the near future. I easily fall not love with dogs also so a moot point really.

I’ve been raised in a nuclear independent family and hence would like to continue as so.

I can cook basic dishes unfortunately no gourmet style cooking though I do love to experiment and I‘m a big foodie, so if you’re one we’ll probably get on amazingly. I love reading novel- my favourite genre is romance and non fiction; though I do occasionally dabble in crime and mystery.

I’m a very practical person- I don’t like it when people beat around the bush or hold me in suspense. I love reading up spoilers about movie on wiki though I won’t share it with you if that’s not your jam.

I hate it when people call others pet names like sweetie pie and cutie and send corny msgs like how much they’ll miss each other and all without spending time with them.

Looking for -

M- 25-29 yrs.

Hindu

Diet no bar

Non smoker and non drinker

The only requirement is that he doesn’t have an issue with moving. I’m planning to complete my residency in USA, hence will probably have to move every 3-4 years atleast for the next decade till my training is complete. Otherwise no hindrance.

Please send more than a Hi/Hello or a one liner in my dm A small bio will be highly appreciated.

I’m only looking for Long term. So Please do not send any msgs about Flings or hookups. Please don’t send any vulgar msgs. They won’t be entertained and you’ll be blocked.

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u/Double-Movie4584 — 3 days ago

23 | Tambrahm | L4 dates in Bangalore

I’m very particular, please don’t DM if you don’t fit this criteria ~

A little about me:
I’m a medical student. 23. I plan on studying till Doctorate.
I’m equal parts academically driven and emotionally chaotic
I like deep conversations, teasing banter, and people who can talk about both philosophy and memes.
Fair warning: I can oscillate between “future planning wife material” and “sending unhinged reels at 2am”
I value tradition, but I’m not trying to turn life into a rigid checklist either

What I’m looking for:
-Tall is appreciated because I am unfortunately part of the statistics
-Someone who takes care of himself physically and mentally
-Ambitious, dependable, emotionally mature
-Has some connection to Sanatana Dharma/tradition/culture; doesn’t have to be ultra orthodox, just sincere
-Good conversationalist. Please have thoughts. And hobbies. And opinions.
-Preferably someone who dates with intention, even if we take things slow initially.

Bonus points if:
You like chai = coffee
You can speak Tamil, are an Iyengar
Ride bikes
You’re mildly nerdy, I like to geek out over stuff
You’re protective but not controlling, don’t put me in a box
You can handle a woman who will both bully you affectionately and care deeply for you

Please don’t DM with just “hi”. PLEASE Introduce yourself properly - age, what you do, where you’re from, and what you’re looking for :)

Edit: I’m financially independent, if I don’t reply after 24 hours I’m not interested

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u/PRISHAUS — 3 days ago

25F | Telugu | Bangalore

I am 25F from Andhra Pradesh. Brought up in a tier 2/tier 3 city in AP till 12th class and have been moving around for education/job since then. I grew up in a typical middle class family. Both my parents are educated, still working and independent. I have an elder sister who is married and settled in Bangalore.

Living in the cities away from home since 2018, I have grown to take my own decisions and plan to continue the same. Though sometimes I wish to have someone to stand by me when I am not sure of doing things on my own.

I am expressive, talkative, well educated, 5’6 , health conscious, into dancing, drives and music. I also enjoy binge watching crime series while snacking. I have been open to dating so decided to post this here. On the other hand, I have matches coming from matrimony FYI.

I usually don’t sound so formal like I sound in this post. I somehow ended up having no social media. I am on reddit and whatsapp. I sometimes scroll youtube.

I work in finance domain as analyst. I started in dara analytics after Bachelors and Masters in core branch from tier 1 institutes. I enjoy my domain but i sometimes find working in start ups and for 9-5 draining. All these years most of my holidays/vacations were mostly me visiting home as I used to stay away. I recently switched and moved to Bangalore which is very close to my hometown. So, I can’t move out from this city anytime soon.

What I am looking for:

Age: 25-29
Height > 5’8

Someone fun to be around, won’t have me guessing what he is thinking, energetic, health conscious, doing well in career, is not childfree, Hindu, can speak Telugu, independent, progressive and not restrictive, is planning to settle down soon.

Above are non negotiable.

Want Kids: Atleast 1 or maybe 2.
Diet: Non vegetarian (can’t change)
Caste: kamma

No chatgpt was asked to write this.

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u/These-Attitude-2067 — 4 days ago
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M4F | Mumbai | Still Looking for the One

A friend once told me, “Try Reddit. Strange people find strange things there. Maybe you’ll find love.”

And honestly, maybe that’s why I’m here trying again this time straight from the heart.

Not because I’m desperate. Not because I can’t meet people otherwise.

But because somewhere between dating apps that feel like interviews and conversations that vanish overnight, I still wanted to believe there are people out there who love deeply, intentionally, and honestly.

So here I am.

Currently Mumbai based. Raised abroad (Qatar and UAE). Entrepreneur by profession, hopeless romantic by personality.

I still believe in the kind of love that feels soft and safe in a loud world.

The kind where we sit in silence after a difficult day and somehow still feel understood. Where reached home? texts matter. Where we romanticize little things, sharing fries in the car, late night walks, terrible singing during traffic, coffee runs, forehead kisses, and conversations that accidentally last till 4 a.m.

I’m not searching for perfection.

I’m searching for connection.

For a woman who has a kind heart, emotional depth, and the courage to be vulnerable. Someone who values consistency more than games and effort more than excuses.

Someone with whom love feels less like chaos and more like peace.

About me:

- Emotionally somewhere between Shah Rukh Khan in a rain scene and Shah Rukh Khan in Om Shanti Om.

- Ambitious, affectionate, emotionally available

- Can hype you up like your biggest fan and annoy you with terrible jokes five minutes later

- Believes flowers, reassurance, and I am proud of you should never be rare

I want a relationship where we choose each other even on ordinary days.

Where years later, in the middle of a random Tuesday, I still look at you the same way people look at fireworks.

And maybe this sounds filmy.

But I think the right person deserves honesty, not a curated version of me pretending not to care.

So if you’re someone who still believes love can be gentle, passionate, loyal, and real.. maybe this post was meant to find you.

And if not, at least my friend was right about one thing:

"You will find a little hope too on Reddit."

PS: If it matters I'm born to a muslim agnostic family.

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u/Unable_Worry_294 — 3 days ago

M24, from Delhi NCR but somehow Mallu girls became my biggest weakness 😭

Had 1 serious relationship and 1 crazy situationship till now. First one was older than me — thick, cute, curly hair, proper soft-girl energy but wild when the vibe matched. We lasted around 1.5 years and honestly? That girl set the standard too high.

Then came this short, chubby, dusky Mallu girl with dangerous kissing skills 💀 She already had a boyfriend but still wanted me as her “side guy.” Toxic? Maybe. Fun? Absolutely. Met both of them and ngl, the chemistry was insane. Late-night talks, sneaky meetups, emotional attachment… everything got way too intense way too fast.

Now the problem is… she disappeared since the last 2 days. Last thing she sent was her nudes and after that complete silence. My overthinking brain is cooked rn 😭 Feels like either her boyfriend caught her or she randomly decided to vanish from my life.

And yeah, before anyone asks — I’m not some innocent guy either. I’m lowkey too passionate and wild once I’m comfortable 😵‍💫

Funny thing is my ex wants to come back now, but nah… that chapter closed already. Situationship over too.

So yeah… officially obsessed with Mallu girls now and probably looking for a sweet, clingy, single one this time 😭❤️

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u/ReputationNew9559 — 3 days ago

[F4M] Posting for a friend (28F): Indian lawyer looking for a serious relationship in Germany/Europe

Posting this for a dear friend because sometimes good people deserve a small nudge from the universe.

She’s 28, Indian, Sikh, 5’5”, conventionally pretty (before anyone asks), currently based in Dubai where she works as a family lawyer, and is exploring a future in Germany/Europe with the intention to settle long-term.

Personality-wise: thoughtful, emotionally mature, deeply empathetic, grounded, family-oriented, and genuinely kind. Ironically, despite being in law, she somehow remained soft-hearted and emotionally aware. She values honesty, emotional intelligence, stability, loyalty, meaningful conversation, and clear communication.

Lifestyle/interests: enjoys travel, good food, fitness/wellness, thoughtful conversations, cultural experiences, and a balanced life overall. She’s ambitious and independent, but also warm, emotionally present, and relationship-oriented.

She’s looking for a serious long-term relationship with someone ideally around 28–32/33, emotionally mature, communicative, respectful, kind, and financially stable/established in their own life as well. Bonus points if you value emotional depth over endless “casual vibes.”

Preferably based in Germany/Europe or planning to stay here long-term.

No weird pickup lines needed, just introduce yourself like a normal human being :)

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a short intro about yourself.

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u/Astronaut_in_Sea — 5 days ago

I m a 40-year-old widow from Mumbai looking for a genuine widower

I am a 40-year-old widow from Mumbai, working independently in the corporate sector and looking to connect with a genuine, mature, and honest widower between 45 to 55 years old. Life has taught me the value of understanding, emotional maturity, and meaningful companionship. I would like to meet someone with whom I can have good conversations, mutual respect, emotional comfort, and a positive connection.

I believe relationships should be built on honesty, kindness, trust, and understanding. I am not looking for time pass, casual chatting, or fake profiles. Only serious and genuine people who value companionship and emotional connection may connect.

• Looking for a peaceful and respectful connection where both people value each other’s presence.

• I believe companionship becomes beautiful when two mature people understand each other without unnecessary drama.

• Life feels lighter when you have someone trustworthy to talk to after a long day.

• I value honesty, loyalty, and emotional stability more than material things.

• I am a positive and caring person who believes it is never too late to find meaningful companionship.

• Not looking for perfection, just sincerity, understanding, and a good heart.

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u/ashrayd — 5 days ago

M32 | Divorced | Bangalore please read if ur in same boat

Trying this with honesty and clarity.

I’m a divorced guy who went through a difficult marriage that taught me a lot about boundaries, emotional maturity, peace, and what truly matters in relationships. I’ve healed, grown, and moved on without bitterness.

About me:
• 32, based in Bengaluru
• Cloud AI Architect
• ₹70L annual income + additional rental income (\~₹5L/month)
• Financially stable, independent, emotionally grounded
• Into simple living, good conversations, travel, late-night drives, and peaceful vibes

Not looking to rush into marriage or force labels immediately. Looking for a genuine connection first — casual, easygoing, emotionally safe, and drama-free. If we vibe naturally, open to exploring something meaningful and long-term eventually.

Open to connecting with someone who is kind, emotionally mature, honest, and knows how to communicate respectfully. Unmarried/divorced/widowed is all okay.

At this stage, peace, compatibility, attraction, and mutual effort matter more to me than anything else.

If this resonates, feel free to DM :)

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u/RegularYoung6148 — 6 days ago

Looking for a Life Partner

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38M | Mumbai (Mira Bhayandar) | Gujarati | Founder of Divyangkala | Looking for a Life Partner

Hello everyone,

I am a 38-year-old Gujarati male from Mira Bhayandar, Mumbai, standing 5’2”, and a proud disabled individual having Cerebral Palsy since birth. For me, disability is only a label given by society — the real identity of a person lies in their heart, mindset, nature, values, and capability.

I am the founder of Divyangkala, an initiative working for the betterment, empowerment, employment, and upliftment of the disabled community across India. Through this journey, I have connected with more than 10,000+ disabled individuals and families nationwide. Helping people, creating social impact, supporting special children and adults, and spreading positivity give deep meaning to my life.

Now, I genuinely wish to begin a beautiful new chapter of life with a female life partner who is physically and mentally fit, emotionally mature, compassionate, grounded, and whose moral values and ethics align strongly with mine. For me, humanity, empathy, kindness, simplicity, emotional understanding, and respect toward special children and adults matter far more than looks, financial status, caste, sub-caste, or educational qualifications.

I am open to any caste, sub-caste, and any age younger than me. I believe every individual has their own priorities and preferences in life, and those deserve respect. Some people may suggest that I should only look for a disabled partner. With due respect, I believe relationships are built on emotional compatibility, mutual understanding, values, vision, and positivity toward life — not only on labels given by society.

I come from a close-knit Gujarati joint family with strong values, mutual respect, and simple living with high thinking. I appreciate honesty, loyalty, emotional strength, meaningful conversations, growth mindset, family values, and people who genuinely wish to create positive impact in society without expectations.

Along with building a meaningful relationship and positive life together, I genuinely desire to have one child and create a loving, emotionally healthy, and value-driven family environment filled with care, understanding, and compassion.

I am looking for someone who believes in growing together emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and socially while contributing positively toward the community at large. Life already gives enough challenges; hence peace, understanding, and mutual respect are very important to me.

One humble request:

Please avoid sending only “Hi” in DM. Instead, kindly share a short introduction about yourself so that we can initiate a meaningful conversation.

If you feel even slightly interested in this journey, you are most welcome to connect. If my profile or thoughts do not align with yours, I respectfully request you to simply stay away rather than engage negatively. I truly believe women are emotionally stronger in many ways, and a strong partnership can create beautiful impact not only for two individuals, but for society as a whole.

Wishing everyone genuine companionship, meaningful connections, and happiness in life.

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u/b4cpramod — 6 days ago

27M, Bangalore

Hello 👋

I often come across posts from both men and women talking about how difficult it has become to find the right partner through the arranged marriage setup — and honestly, I relate to that quite a bit.

I’m at a stage in life where I’m seriously thinking about finding a life partner and building the next chapter of life together. But deep down, I’ve never really connected with the arranged marriage process. Maybe it’s because I want something that feels natural and mutual, rather than something decided by families or circumstances.

I guess I’m a little old-school when it comes to love. I always imagined I’d meet my person somewhere along life’s journey… although it seems to be taking slightly longer than expected. 🤭

So, here’s a little about me:
I’m a 27-year-old currently based in Bangalore, originally from Uttarakhand, and working in tech. I have a stable career, an ambitious mindset, and genuinely enjoy what I do.

I’m deeply interested in sports, technology, and business. I’m also a huge movie buff, love discovering new music, and enjoy activities like swimming, cricket, and pretty much any sport that keeps me active. I’m definitely not much of a dancer, but somewhere inside, I still want to dance like nobody’s watching.

What I bring to the table:
• A stable career with ambition and long-term goals
• Family-oriented values with a modern outlook
• Genuine effort, consistency, and commitment in relationships
• Openness to long-distance if the connection feels meaningful
• Someone who values communication, loyalty, emotional growth, and partnership
What I’m looking for:
• A woman who is career-oriented and intellectually compatible
• Someone kind, emotionally mature, educated, and fun to be around
• A person who can talk endlessly — because I genuinely enjoy listening more than speaking
• Feminine yet independent — someone with her own identity, ambitions, and individuality
• Someone who believes in growing together, not just attraction or surface-level romance
• A person who values mutual effort, respect, and emotional support equally

If you’re someone who values kindness, ambition, emotional maturity, and meaningful companionship, I’d genuinely love to connect. 🙂

PS - Yes, I used chatgpt :)

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u/Apprehensive-Bake717 — 6 days ago

Posting for my best friend - 31 F | Law Background (LLM, PhD scholar), Professor, sweet & loyal

Hi,

I'm trying to play matchmaker to my wonderful friend who is looking for a life partner. As mentioned in the title, she is a law post-graduate (LLM +PhD scholar) who is working as an Assistant Professor at a reputed college in Patna (currently in Patna, but will be willing to relocate for a better career opportunity).

As a friend, I can say about her what would perhaps not be entirely trusted coming from a close family member. She is very interesting person to talk to with more than a singular hobby, is extremely loyal (as a friend, I would know), and a great person to have by your side through thick and thin. She comes from a decent family and is a bit of an introvert by nature (not when she gets comfortable with you, but for starters).

In a partner, she would look for someone who is honest and loyal, and who respects what she does as much as she would respect his career. Someone with a good sense of humor is preferable (though that's a subjective thing, so let this not deter).

If you're interested and 30+, please send me a DM.

P.S. - She is a Hindu by religion.

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u/Ok-Guest-7832 — 6 days ago

29M | Telugu, Padmashali | 5’7 | Hyderabad

Hello everyone,

I’m a 29-year-old Telugu (Padmashali) guy currently working as a Network Engineer in Hyderabad, looking for a genuine connection that can eventually lead to marriage.

A little about me:
- 5’7”, wheatish complexion
- Working in the IT/Networking field for around 7 years now
- Current package: 20–25 LPA
- Non-smoker
- Occasional alcohol consumption

Family:
- My mother is a playschool & primary grade teacher
- My father works freelance as a Photoshop editor
- I have a younger sister who completed her Pharm D last year and is currently working at a private startup

I come from a closely connected family and naturally carry a strong sense of responsibility towards them. Being the elder son, family values and support systems matter a lot to me.

Personality-wise, I’m more on the introverted and calm side. I usually prefer meaningful conversations and peaceful environments over crowded social scenes. Once I get comfortable, I value emotional connection, honesty, loyalty, and mutual understanding very deeply.

I enjoy:
- Spending time with a few close friends and cousins who’ve been with me since college
- Watching movies or binge-watching occasionally
- Travelling whenever time permits
- Reading tech news/articles and learning new things
- Meditation, home workouts, and trying to maintain a healthy lifestyle

I mostly prefer home-made food and avoid processed food as much as possible. Food habits are flexible, and I’m non-vegetarian mostly on weekends.

I come from a simple background and am still building my family’s financial future step by step. I don’t own a house yet, but I strongly believe in steady growth, financial planning, and building a stable life together through mutual support and understanding.

I’m preferably looking for someone who is:
- Kind, emotionally mature, and genuine
- Educated and understanding
- Serious about building a peaceful long-term relationship/marriage
- Preferably working professionally, because I genuinely feel in today’s world both partners supporting each other helps in building a better future and quality life for the family and children

Preferably looking within the Telugu (Padmashali) community because it becomes easier to understand certain traditions and family values naturally. But my family is not strictly against intercaste marriages either; a few of my cousins had love marriages and are living happily. At the end of the day, mutual respect, understanding, and compatibility matter more to me.

I may not be the most extroverted person initially, but I genuinely value sincerity and emotional connection once I’m comfortable.

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me 🙂

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u/Ahitoakhee — 5 days ago

40M | 5'11" | Fit, good-looking, financially stable, emotionally stable... basically a rare government-approved green flag, applying for an arranged love-marriage 😎

Before you ask:

Yes, all my health parameters are really good (knock on wood!)

Yes, I exercise regularly.

Yes, I can hold a conversation beyond “wyd”.

And no, I don’t smoke, drink, disappear emotionally, trade crypto at 3 AM, or punch walls after IPL losses.

I’m a Engineering Program Manager working with one of the world’s biggest banks and earning over 60+ Lakhs. Professionally sorted, financially disciplined, no loans, no liabilities, and thankfully no “situationship trauma” either.

Physically very active and health-conscious...the kind of person who’ll convince you to go for a morning walk and then reward you with good food afterward. I believe fitness is cheaper than hospital bills.

About me:

- just turned 40 ( i look much younger than my age...thanks to intentional dietary choices and a healthy lifestyle)

- 5’11”

- Telugu mother tongue

- Fluent in Hindi & English

- Clean habits

- Family-oriented

- Calm, dependable, and emotionally mature

- Equal parts disciplined and goofy

Life dealt me a tough hand early on since I lost my parents, but I have older siblings, who are happily married and settled.

Now addressing the elephant in the room:

Yes, I’m older than the typical Reddit demographic here. But physically and emotionally, I’m doing better than many half my age.

I genuinely believe compatibility is more important than matching birth years like software versions.

What I’m looking for:

A kind-hearted, emotionally intelligent woman who values peace, loyalty, health, laughter, and mutual respect. Someone who still believes marriage is a partnership and not a courtroom negotiation. Vegetarian/eggetarian preferably. Childfree by choice? You're probably wonderful, but we may not be aligned long-term.

Bonus points if:

- you can tolerate terrible dad jokes

- you like long drives, meaningful conversations, or random late-night chai

- you think kindness is attractive

- you’re capable of sending more than “hmm”

If this somehow sounds interesting instead of terrifying, feel free to say hi and a good intro.

Worst case: you gain a good conversation

Best case: we both can put an end to our search for a good partner.

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u/fitngood4872 — 7 days ago

Looking for serious connection.

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​Hi everyone,

​I am a 26 female . I have completed my Masters recently .Currently ,

​I am at a stage where my family is starting to look for matches, and they prefer someone from our own community (Rajput). However, I want to take the initiative to get to know someone personally before involving families. I’m looking for a meaningful connection that could eventually lead to marriage if we are compatible.

​A bit about me:

​Values: I value education, ambition, and emotional maturity. I am a mix of traditional and modern values.

​Lifestyle: , I’m a bit of a foodie. I prefer "pen-and-paper" simplicity over over-complicated digital lives.

​Physicality: I am fair-looking and maintain a healthy lifestyle.

​What I am looking for:

​Someone from the Rajput community (to align with family preferences).

​Based in Delhi/NCR (preferably Gurgaon/Delhi/ Faridabad).

​Educated, career-oriented,.

​Someone who believes in mutual respect and clear communication.

​Important Note: I am NOT looking for casual flings, hookups, or NSFW chats. Please respect my boundaries. If you think we might align, feel free to send a DM with a brief introduction about yourself.

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u/General_Promise6912 — 6 days ago

36F, Kerala, Looking for a kind and empathetic person to get married

Hello 👋

I’m looking for a relationship that would lead in to marriage. Would prefer if you are a malayali catholic.
I’m a jovial happy person with extremely good humour sense. I’m family oriented and not that materialistic. I believe that travelling and being kind is one of the world’s riches.
I work in marketing and i have strong interest in literature and movies. Would prefer people who read a lot(not a necessity) but also can yap about politics and current affairs. I’m an ambivert with my own time with work and me time and otherwise I’m always with friends and family. I have a pretty chill family and are very pleasant and jovial. I’m a malayali so i would prefer someone who is malayali because I feel like humour sense work better in Malayalam.
I’m looking for a sorted person, preferably nerdy, someone who is healthy and has clear goals about life very mature and very secure and who can take initiatives and should be an emotionally available person. I’m a foodie too and i cook very well. I’m an independent person who does everything on my own. I’m told I’m pretty. 5’4 in height. I’m not overly religious but would prefer a malayali catholic and I work a lot to uplift other people and I will make my partner’s life the best and i would want someone who can raise me up and not dim my shine ✨

P.S - Hoping you have a good mom who would be a great mil to me 🤩

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u/Dry_Appearance2210 — 7 days ago

22F || Delhi || Looking for date to marry / long term only

I am looking for a relationship. I like slow burn and I am a big believer in communication. With someone I can share my everyday life without getting judgement or without the fear of leaving.

I am focusing on my career but I need some emotional support too from someone who can atleast be on text with me. I am looking for serious relationship. I have just graduated. I want to prepare for the govt exam - teaching and all.

My interests - I have great taste in music I love to listen it, I like to study alot, learn new things, explore, travel, I like to cook, bake and eat lol. I love cars and bikes.

It will be good if I got someone from Delhi only or somewhere nearby so we can even hangout together to.

Also i am clingy in love.

I am rajasthani. Been Delhi my whole life

Height - 5'9

Skin colour - fair

Moon sign - Aries

Eat both veg and non veg

Speak only Hindi and English

Loves to go to gym prefer someone who also follows active lifestyle. And have multiple hobbies.

My preferences ---

Someone who is kind and empethatic. Someone who communicates. Someone who's birthday is on 1 or 10 will be good. In height mere seyh lamba. Someone who knows how to treat girls right. It will be great if you're neardy. I like boys who can ride motorbikes or cars. Someone who is also career focused and want to build a life together. Thanks

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u/Final-Carob104 — 7 days ago

25 F/ Dating to marry

Exhausted from all the love bombing and dating apps. About myself: Religion - Muslim I'm 25 F ,I'm an architect from Chennai.I wear my heart on my sleeve. I hit the gym like it's therapy. Rn trying to be a better version of myself but it's a lonely road . I love cats I'm an extreme movies and songs enthusiast. My biggest flex is to make feel safe to express themselves. I've had strangers tell me this. Rest you can get to know when we text I'll let you be the judge.

What am I looking for?: Religion - Muslim (it's important for my partner to share the same faith as me) The toughest part. Okay so I believe to grow with the person I love cause slow burn is the way for a good ole relationship. Looking for someone who i can feel safe with. Makes me feel like THE WOMAN. For me emotional intimacy comes first then the physical intimacy. If you can hold good long serious conversations , knows how to communicate their feelings and emotions and dating to marry then we can be the IT COUPLE

If you're a guy with

  1. High Emotional intelligence
  2. 100% commitment
  3. Consistency
  4. Financially stable
  5. A good sense of humour DM me

Note: Here for serious relationship. Will not entertain anything else.

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u/freakieyearner — 7 days ago