u/Character_Opening886

Hi,

I’m 35M from Bengaluru. I’m a professional engineer working with reputed MNC and, unofficially, the uncertified fitness trainer in my friends’ circle.

I’ve always felt that arranged marriage can sometimes become more like a business transaction -profiles, expectations, checklists and negotiations. I would rather meet someone, understand each other’s preferences, values and long-term goals, and then decide if we genuinely want to take things forward.

A little about me:

I am 5.11" Tall, well-built physique and reasonably fitness-conscious. My biceps and triceps seem to get more compliments than I do. I have full head of hair with stubble beard. Humorous most of the time , Love cooking, especially on weekends. I enjoy watching movies than films. Love long rides and swimming. Recently started learning guitar.

I believe in God, although I don’t visit temples very often. I usually do my regular pooja at home. I wouldn’t call myself a deeply devoted person, but I do have a special devotion towards Maa Kali and Lord Ganesha.

What I’m looking for Instead of writing a long list of qualities I want in someone, I’ll tell you a few things that aren’t really my preference:

1. Cute-looking chubbies.
2. Someone who is a hardcore foodie.
3. Someone who doesn’t speak or understands Kannada/ Tamil/Telugu/Malayalam. These are only things that am not prefering (not to hurt anyone)

That’s pretty much it for now. There are obviously many other things that matter: personality, compatibility, communication, values, lifestyle, sense of humour, goals..etc. But I don't want to turn this into a matrimonial brochure and make you read an essay.

If anything here resonates with you and you'd like to have a genuine conversation, feel free to DM.

Let's talk first and figure out whether we actually vibe before deciding anything serious. Meet you soon.

Hey, 35M from Bangalore. I’ve lived in Coimbatore, Chennai, Mysore and Hyderabad, so I’m pretty comfortable with different South Indian languages and cultures. I also feel that sharing a language makes it easier to connect, especially when it comes to humour and random conversations.

I’m 5’11”, financially settled and own a house in Bangalore. Professionally, I’m a Mechanical Engineer.

I’m not really a crowd person. I prefer quiet places, good conversations and spending time doing simple things. I enjoy cooking and keep experimenting with new dishes. I also love listening to music and these days I’m quite addicted to Gaana-style and funky music.

Fitness is also a big part of my life. I try to stay active and maintain a healthy lifestyle.

I’m looking to meet a simple, grounded and genuine girl from anywhere in South India. looking for someone with whom conversations feel natural and we can build a good connection.

If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to DM.

I’m 35M, based in Bangalore, earning around ₹1.5 lakh/month. I’m at a stage in life where I’ve started wondering — what if marriage simply doesn’t happen?

Not looking for sympathy or the usual “you’ll definitely find someone”comments. I genuinely want to know:

If you were in your mid-30s and decided that you might remain single lifelong, what would you start doing now to build a peaceful, fulfilling life?

Financial planning, buying a house, retirement, health and fitness, travel, hobbies, building a social circle, dealing with loneliness, taking care of parents, having someone to rely on later in life — what should I realistically start planning for?

For those who are single by choice or have accepted that they may remain single, what did you wish you had started doing earlier?

Looking for practical advice from people who have actually thought about this, rather than motivational quotes. 🙂

Note: I used ChatGPT to help me frame this properly because I wanted to make sure I explained what I’m actually asking.

Hey,

I am fitness enthusiast and regular gym-goer. I’ve been training consistently and enjoy strength training, staying active, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Looking for a female gym partner who is also serious about fitness and enjoys working out regularly. It would be great to have someone to train with, motivate each other, share workout routines, and keep each other accountable.

Not necessarily looking for anything romantic — just a good workout buddy with similar fitness interests. If we get along naturally, great.

If you’re from yelahanka old town , Raithara Santhe road and interested, feel free to DM. 💪

Hi everyone,

I'm a 26-year-old male looking for recommendations for a clean, professional, and genuine spa in or around Yelahanka New Town for a relaxing body massage (Swedish, deep tissue, or Ayurvedic).

If you've had a good experience, I'd really appreciate your recommendations. Please mention the spa name, approximate price, and whether an appointment is needed.

Thanks in advance!

Hi,

My PF claim finally approved on 14th July. Still didn't get credit amount. Anyone have same issue?